
Originally Posted by
missplayful
# Customers want me to get a converstation with them which is cool. They ask do i have bf? i say no hunney .
I usually tell them that I'm "recently single" or I "just got out of a bad relationship." It usually shuts them up, but if they start insisting that I take their number or meet them OTC, I make it perfectly clear that I need to get to know them better HERE at the club FIRST.
#Even we have a good chit chat i ask for dance they say another time or later. ITS OK . when i am ready to move for another customer they either grab my hand and make me wanna stay or they tell me nobody is gonna buy any dances anymore noone has money.
Try not to spend more than a song or two of your time with any one customer. When you find out they're not going to spend $$ on you, it's time to make up an excuse and walk away. Some good excuses include "I have to use the ladies room." "I need to get some water, I'm parched!" "I have to run to the dressing room and freshen up." "I have to check with the DJ to find out when I'm on stage again." If they grab your hand say, "Don't worry, sweetie, I'll come back and visit again." (But ONLY come back if you think they may spend money on you later.)
#They wanna take my time and after a while they say :go make your money?? Which is annoyin me a lot.
They're basically flat out telling you that they have no intention of spending $$ on you and you should go hustle someone else. If you played everything right, you shouldn't have wasted more than one song of your time on this guy so try not to let spoil your mood.
#They only buy one dance or tip couple dolars at stage still they ask me to sit with them very long time.
I get so annoyed by guys who spend like $20 tops on me and think that's enough to purchase an hour of my time. Let them know what an hour of your time REALLY costs, then, when they tell you that's too much, simple tell them "I'm worth every penny." and WALK AWAY.
# They ask about my number or take out when i say no i dont do that they stop buyin more dances .
When guys want my number I say "I'd like to get to know you a little better first," and then I hustle them for a dance. If they refuse my dances and insist on my number, I tell them "I'll think about it," and leave. More often than not, the guys who REALLY want my number are the same guys who DON'T SPEND ANY MONEY ON ME AT ALL. I don't waste my time with them.
However, when a guy who's spending lots of money on me wants my number, I tell him "I can't give it to you, it's the law... BUT I could take YOUR number if you write it on a napkin and hand it to me discreetly..." (this is fun, because it's like we've got a dirty secret between us.) But I never call anyone-- because I'm a MARRIED woman.
#They wanna date with me or have a dinner but no they dont wanna buy dances which dinner or date is not gonna pay my bills.
So TELL THEM, "Dinner doesn't PAY MY BILLS." These guys need to understand that you're WORKING here, not seeking out potential boyfriends.
#I have a regular he keep askin about my number and he offers money for sex out of club which i dont want him but i dont wanna lose my money either.
It's nice to have a regular... but one who keeps pressuring you to do things you don't want to do I really don't feel is worth it. I say, put up with it for as long as you can stand and make as much money off him as you can, then END IT.
#Some guys show their money or they mention they have money but they dont wanna buy dances or they only buy one and they tell me i should hang out with them they would pay me more
If they wanna pay you to hang out with them, set your price, GET THE MONEY FIRST, THEN hang out with them.
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