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    Ok I feel silly posting this but I really need some help here. When I first started camming a few years ago, being dominant was not even something that I thought of. I just want to get on cam, be sexy, do some shows, and make some money. Now a few years later, I am suddenly a dominant mistress who has slaves, and I make fun of guys with small penis, and do financial domination, and make them beg me. It is something that my customers have begged me for, and now I am doing it.

    I have this customer who is a big spender. He has been coming to see me for a few years now. He has followed me to all my sites, and now he is a weekly (3 to 5 days) regular on niteflirt. He wants me to cuss him out. When I cuss at him he seems frustrated. I see him on cam and he is sitting there with a blank stare. He says "get more into it. Can't you be more mean?" This is so frustrating because he is the only person who bothers me like this. I AM cussing at him! Out of frustration I have blocked him but then he begged me to unblock him. I unblock him and he comes back with the same shit. "Cant you be a little more rough?"

    I don't even know why he keeps coming back if I'm not doing it right. Are there any sites with scenarios of cussing people out? I know how to cuss someone out when they piss me off but it just seems so fake when I do it to this customer.

    Arialandre, I already have been checking out the sites in the other thread that you posted in. I just need a few scenarios to look over or something. I am sure this wont be the last guy wanting me to cuss him out, and getting frustrated with me

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    mmm pawns
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    Argh! You are going thru the same thing as me! Hahah I thought I was alone! Seriously I block this guy out of frustration, but he comes back. I am suppose to be dominant and he is telling ME what to do? I am just frustrated because he tells me "be MORE dominant" "cuss at me more" "get into it" I think I am doing really good with my other regulars. If I wasn't they wouldn't keep coming back, and leaving 5 star reviews, but THIS guy.....I just don't know.

    I'm frustrated, but he pays a LOT. Even just bought some stuff on my wishlist..

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    Damn that's hard . God bless good regulars that respect people's natural flow.

    Maybe he's into tease & denial? He'll ask for something and you won't give it/will block him, he'll cry & tribute, you come back, he starts the cycle all over again because he likes it?

    whew, tough decision, good luck... maybe try the assignment thing? if he were cheap it'd be an easier choice I'm sure!

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    I think the assignment thing is a good idea. And yes, if he were cheap, I would block him permanantly. I started charging for my messenger Id's and he bought then all *eyeroll* LOL

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    *Appears in a puff of smoke, champagne in one hand, whip in the other* Did someone call My name?

    Alright, tell the little bitch to stop topping from the bottom or you will find a way to reach through the screen and shove your 6 inch stiletto so far up his annoying little ass he will choke on it. Seriously, this is my BIGGEST pet peeve of all time. It's YOUR room which means it's YOUR rules. And you have to know where you want to draw the line to A) Keep your sanity and B) Keep your president.

    There are things that I will put up with during vanilla camming that I would block and delete a person for when Domme camming. If you are being a Domme in these scenarios and not just a cutie little cam girl with a whip then you need to put on your big girl corset and show these little shits what's what.

    Think of your cam room as your home. How dare this person come into YOUR home and make you feel, inadequite, frustrated, exhausted or ANYTHING that is not amused, empowered or whatever YOU want to be feeling. Remind him that YOU are the Domme, what YOU say goes, that he is there to entertain YOU. Be selfish! Take all this ranting agression you feel out on HIM. And by doing that you will also be giving him what he wants. When they piss you off (and they are paying you by the minute for it) feel free to let em have it. Tell them how much they are pissing you off, yell cuss, tell them how pathetic of a sub they are and why. Now on the other hand if they are chatting to you for free, fuck that, they are just trying to bait you for free abuse and no Domme worth her whip is going to fall for that easily.

    But ALLLL this agrivation you're feeling right now, go take it out on him. He sounds like he will enjoy it.

    And remember, YOUR room (or line) is YOUR home, which means YOUR rules. Don't let some little shit custy come in and piss on your antique Oriental rugs.

    Mistress Arialandre awaaaaaaaaay! *Whip crack*

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    Arialandre, you are one bad ass chick! This is EXACTLY the advise I needed. What a relief also to know I am not the ONLY one around here who has a pissy acting sub. Geez is he annoying but I am going to read and re-read what you said and take back control of this whiner. If not then yes, I will lose my sanity! I love the money I'm getting from him but damnit man....

    Thanks so much. Once again you give great advise!

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    *Takes a bow*

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    hmm, I would take it as a fun challenge. It's nice to get out of your zone sometimes You might improve some skills a lil
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    This is totally why I stopped doing any kind of dom/sub stuff, even the light stuff. Because every sub became so fucking annoying I couldn't take it!! Most of them were like wannabe-kinda subs that tried to bark orders at me like the OP's sub, or over did it with emailing me and messaging me. The ones that wanted blackmail stuff were always THE most annoying subs of all time for some reason.

    Now if some guy comes at me with that "hello princess" "hello mistress" BS I tell them to go find a real domme. So many cam girls think you can just "be mean" and yell at guys and they hand you money, and that's all there is to being a domme. No way, it's hard work!! Props to all of you dommes out there, I don't know how you have the patience!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by neliana View Post
    This is totally why I stopped doing any kind of dom/sub stuff, even the light stuff. Because every sub became so fucking annoying I couldn't take it!! Most of them were like wannabe-kinda subs that tried to bark orders at me like the OP's sub, or over did it with emailing me and messaging me. The ones that wanted blackmail stuff were always THE most annoying subs of all time for some reason.

    Now if some guy comes at me with that "hello princess" "hello mistress" BS I tell them to go find a real domme. So many cam girls think you can just "be mean" and yell at guys and they hand you money, and that's all there is to being a domme. No way, it's hard work!! Props to all of you dommes out there, I don't know how you have the patience!!
    Wow! This is exactly how I feel sometimes. I swear I thought it was only me going thru this crap lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Angel75217 View Post
    hmm, I would take it as a fun challenge. It's nice to get out of your zone sometimes You might improve some skills a lil
    Originally I didn't want to get into being a domme, but I had so many requests that really, it was curiosity and money that made me venture into it. I do find it challenging, but like the last poster said, it can be very hard work, and frustrating.

    I do want to learn more. I guess with any part of camming, there will be some super annoying customers.

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    Yeah there is a BIG difference between, being just a "domme" mean girl cam-girl and an actual BDSM studying make a life out of it Domme. I'm also a lifestyle Domme which means that I have real-life subs/slaves as well so there is a lot of shit that I just DON'T let fly as this is an actual part of My life.

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