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    Duh The Dreaded "FRIEND ZONE"

    Came across this hilarious article:

    http://encyclopediadramatica.com/Friend_Zone

    Girls: Have you had, or do you now have one or more men in your friend zone? Ever let a guy out of that purgatory, and give him some? What was it that worked with you? Or, once you've consigned him to the friend zone, is the thought of sex with him disgusting to you? Alternatively, have you yourself been consigned to the friend zone by a guy you wanted bad?

    Guys: If you've been there, or are there, share your thoughts. Did you rally and get the girl? Are there some girls you just have NO game with? If you were in that hell-hole, how long did you stay there trying...like, refusing to give up? Once you realized you were her girlfriend, and, not-so-proudly sporting a mangina, what did you do?

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    Default Re: The Dreaded "FRIEND ZONE"

    Totally have. I think he was in the friends zone because he wasn't my type... thin, not motivated, un-sure of himself, shy, overly romantic.

    Didn't see him for a few years, next time I did was at a party. We had a little make-out session. I kept feeling his hips because he didn't have enough fat on him. It freaked me out & then I realized nothing about him had changed. We had "the talk" & never spoke about what happened that night again.
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    Default Re: The Dreaded "FRIEND ZONE"

    I'm sure it's been posted before in this forum, but the Ladder Theory of attraction seems particularly appropriate reference material here.
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    Default Re: The Dreaded "FRIEND ZONE"

    I'm all about keeping guys in the friend zone. But I'm a horny drunk so I've also fucked some of them here and there. Mistake. Then they fall in love and get butthurt that I don't want to date or sleep with them on the reg.

    I keep a man harem and don't even try to pretend that all of my guys friends don't want to fuck me at any given time if I say yes.

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    Default Re: The Dreaded "FRIEND ZONE"

    I used to also have a harem of friend zoned guys. Most of them were in love with me (probably the only reason they hung out with me) and thought I'd come around. A few might have had the chance had they changed something I couldn't accept (a few were looking for housewives). Others had no chance of ever dating me. Only two ever made it out of the friendzone (though to be fair I had FWB with a few of them). The first one was the guy I lost my virginity to at 16 and thought he was my serious boyfriend. After we had sex he dumped me for another girl, I didn't date for a year and he later went blind and is now in a wheelchair. The second is the guy I love now. That's not going too well now either so if it doesn't work out no more friendzones for me.

    Interestingly to note I had several gay and bi guy in the friendzone but they weren't really interested in me in that way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer View Post
    I'm sure it's been posted before in this forum, but the Ladder Theory of attraction seems particularly appropriate reference material here.
    That stuff should be taught in schools. LOL

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    I had one friend, who I am not attracted to and never will be attracted to ever. He's been in love with me since the day he met me. He got divorced in 2003 and hasnt been with anyone since and hadn't even been with his wife since god knows when even before that. Anyway, in the city, ridiculously drunk one night, I apparently told him to take advantage of my drunkeness because it wasn't likely to happen again, and it was implied that it would never happen sober. He did except for actual sex (which I'm thankful for - especially since I don't remember very much of it). I don't feel I did him any favours though because I know it's thought about a lot on his part and with the exception of him mentioning it the other day for whatever reason, I don't think about it at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    I had one friend, who I am not attracted to and never will be attracted to ever. He's been in love with me since the day he met me.
    Interesting. Were you feeling pity for him at the time you let him have his way with you, or was it strictly the booze?

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    Ladder Theory of Attraction........"You can see that a lot of problems can be avoided(though sadly not problem two) by declaring as soon as possible to a girl that you will not be friends under any circumstances. You can explain that she is too attractive or you can be blunt and say you don't want to bend your "friends" over a table and fuck them, but would rather play poker and go to the races with them, thus disqualifying her from friendship. As long as you are clear. This may scare a girl away. But if it does what would you want with such a skittish little twit anyway?."

    Love it! Nuff said.

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    Ladder Theory of Attraction........"You can see that a lot of problems can be avoided(though sadly not problem two) by declaring as soon as possible to a girl that you will not be friends under any circumstances. You can explain that she is too attractive or you can be blunt and say you don't want to bend your "friends" over a table and fuck them, but would rather play poker and go to the races with them, thus disqualifying her from friendship. As long as you are clear. This may scare a girl away. But if it does what would you want with such a skittish little twit anyway?."

    Love it! Nuff said.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    Interesting. Were you feeling pity for him at the time you let him have his way with you, or was it strictly the booze?
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    Default Re: The Dreaded "FRIEND ZONE"

    i've had a bunch of guys friend zoned. it was their own doing. instead of asking me out, they pretended they just wanted to be friends. or they did just want to be friends, then changed their minds once they got to know me better or something about me changed or whatever. i don't have the patience for that shit.

    one guy got out of it by pretending he wanted a relationship for a long fucking time, then i got my heart broken, i was soooooo depressed. and i lowered my standards. it lasted a couple boring weeks til he pissed me off and we stopped talking to each other.

    but i also refuse to be friends with guys if we dated and it ended some way besides plain old mutual incompatibility.

    i've been friend zoned too. usually if i just wasn't what a guy was into, but he liked the attention i gave him.
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    Uh, back when I was single I always kept what my friends refered to as a harem or herd. They stayed in the friend zone till I was about to dump my current, then I kinda picked one to be my next guy, sized him up and if all was cool, ta-da, outta the friend zone. Gah, that sounds awful even saying that, but there it is. Yes, there were dozens that never made it out of the friend zone though.
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