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    Ok so last night I am bored so i decide to cruise up to Pasco county from Clearwater, to the land where the full liquor and full nudity prevails. I'm sitting at the bar watching the football game when a girl approaches me asking for a dance. We talk for a while and then i figure sure, what the heck...3 songs for 100$ seems pretty steep but she seems reasonably intelligent along with cute so we head to the LD area. In this club the LD area has multiple benches separated by walls and each one has a curtain so its pretty private compared to most places i've been, but they're quite small areas. First thing i realize is that this girl isn't the most skilled dancer ever, she pretty much spent the first song with her back to me doing the same grinding over and over. As soon as the second song started she took off her top, slammed my face in her boobs and just kinda wiggled around before going back to the same grinding as the first song, and she removed my belt. It had a square buckle that had to be jabbing her ass/vagina the whole time so i didn't think much of it. As soon as song 3 came on and before i even totally realized what she was doing she had my dick out, a condom on and was giving me a HJ. Seriously, I'll bet it took her all of 3 seconds to unbutton/unzip/install rubber. i just kinda let her go with it till the song was over. She never asked for extra $$$ for it, never mentioned anything extra up front so clearly that's just how she does her thing.
    Now here's the thing: That's not my thing. I appreciate an attractive, intelligent female who can dance seductively and includes some contact but I don't go to strip clubs for "sex". Please don't take this as conceited becuase that's totally not what i mean but I'm an attractive 29 year old male who is in shape, has a good job, uses the shower daily, brushes my teeth, etc..... If I'm looking for sex I'll go to a bar at 2:45am. To me the club is entertainment, much like going to a movie or baseball game. And if i wanted a handjob I'd do it myself at home for free, instead of 100$!
    I've never been in a situation where it's just "happened". It's been offered and i've turned girls down, and they're always cool with that...but how does one tell a girl that I'm not looking for extras, so please close my pants?? Preferably without making her feel like a total whore or something?

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    oh, and let me also add....i had to leave right after this because when i walked out i realized she had put her hands on my shirt and got condom lube all over my right shoulder, and it looked quite nasty.

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    Wow, this is a first! LOL
    If I were in your position, I would grab both of her hands gently, look her in the eyes and say, "Sweetie, I really appreciate the gesture but that's not my thing." If anything she will probably be relieved that for once she doesn't have to do that.

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    Hmmm, I feel your pain sir - I always hate the surprise "she pulled my dick out of my pants and put a condom on me" manuever. No doubt you were shocked to suddenly be in the midst of a covered hand job when you were completely unaware that your penis was even outside of your pants.

    And along with sympathy for your plight, I could not help but also feel admiration for your restraint. Once unpleasantly surprised by the wildly unexpected HJ, rather than impulsively stopping it, you graciously allowed her to continue yanking your member for the entire song duration.

    Sir, you are a gentleman and a scholar.

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    haha......well it was more like confused and stunned...which may very well have been aided by the red bull+vodkas I'd been having. And she pulled the whole deal while she held my face into her boobs. At first i really thought she was just groping on me...and then...well....
    I mean, i dont care what any girl does. Thus why i'd rather be somewhat tactful about it. I'm not about to judge anyone, and if that's exactly WHY some dudes go to the club then more power to ya. Heck if anyone wants to know her name, phone# and the club so you can try it out let me know.....but it's just not my deal.

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    Default Re: How to politely slow down or stop an 'extras' girl??

    Dont post her name or even phone numbers, this isnt a site to guys lurk out dirty girls, they have those sites elsewhere.

    You should have gotten up and left if you werent comfortable, or said something. Its as simple a "No"

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    Ah, I understand now. You were so anesthetized by the alcohol that you mistook her pulling out your penis, after of course she had already taken your belt off, for over the pants groping. And obviously she was so lightening fast in putting on the condom that you didn't even have a chance to feel the naked air on your penis, nor any of the unbuttoning, unzipping or tugging that it took to free it from your pants.

    This girl is clearly quite talented, particularly if she managed to do all of this, completely without your knowledge, while at the same time smothering your face with her tits.

    This girl is nothing short of an HJ savant.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    Ah, I understanbd now. You were so anesthetized by the alcohol that you mistook her pulling out your penis, after of course she had already taken your belt off, for over the pants groping. And obviously she was so lightening fast in putting on the condom that you didn't even have a chance to feel the naked air on your penis, nor any of the unbuttoning, unzipping or tugging that it took to free it from your pants.

    This girl is clearly quite talented, particularly if she managed to do all of this, completely without your knowledge, while at the same time smothering your face with her tits.

    This girl is nothing short of an HJ savant.
    LOL!!! Rick you're starting to sound like one of the Pinkies

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    If this isn't a fake post then it's someone who feels guilty and wants to get it off his chest by demonizing the girl. It so totally wasn't his fault that this all happened! It so totally wasn't his fault that he misinterpreted the course of events without even asking what was going on. It wasn't his fault that it just didn't feel right for him to say "no" when it was all happening.

    Your post makes me angrier at you than it does at her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    LOL!!! Rick you're starting to sound like one of the Pinkies


    Too funny. Look at my last few posts in blue and you will probably feel differently - lol - but this story brings to mind the classic Shakespearean quote:

    Something is rotten in the state of Denmark.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tampa81 View Post
    how does one tell a girl that I'm not looking for extras, so please close my pants?? Preferably without making her feel like a total whore or something?
    But... she is a total whore. I'm sure she knows it, so I wouldn't really worry about hurting her feelings over it.

    If you don't want someone fondling your dick. Tell them so. Problem solved.

    I agree... it seems very unlikely that someone would be drunk enough to not realize their dick was getting pulled out... but still able to realize "Oh no! She got something on my shirt! I better go home, this is embarassing!" Lol.
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    Default Re: How to politely slow down or stop an 'extras' girl??

    Yeah, surprise hand jobs suck. Damn sneaky whores.

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    ^LOL!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    Yeah, surprise hand jobs suck. Damn sneaky whores.
    I would like to quote you in my signature, sir.

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    Eh, but in this guys's defense, I've hand a customer pull out his own dick and have it wiggle around my butt for possiblly up to 20-30 seconds before I realized that it wasn't the bulge in his pants I was feeling.

    Of course, dancers are very practiced telling their customers that handjob offers are not appreciated. "You need to put that away. Yes, I said PUT THAT AWAY." Of course, after putting it away, he neglected to zip up, so it popped out again soon afterward of its own accord and I had the misfortue at having to walk out of the VIP room before the time was up. I got to wave good-bye to the penis on my out out, at least.

    For you, next time it happens, practice saying, "put that away." It will ease the transition for the dick-hungry stripper from stroking your dick to saying good-bye to it by being able to fondle it on its way back into your pants. And if she pulls it out again, you can stand up politely and walk out. If it's a matter of principle, that is, and you're a man of principle, too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    Yeah, surprise hand jobs suck. Damn sneaky whores.
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    OP, I'm with Kaia, just block her from unzipping you & let her know you appreciate the offer but aren't interested, you are just there for some simple fun.
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    Default Re: How to politely slow down or stop an 'extras' girl??

    She sounds pretty forceful, just saying 'not interested' might not stop her.

    I suggest you fake a seizure.

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    heh, it's strange that some people think I'm trying to gain something by asking this question.....I don't know any of you so I'm not sure what I'd have to gain. :p
    Thanks for the responses anyhow!

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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    But... she is a total whore. I'm sure she knows it, so I wouldn't really worry about hurting her feelings over it.

    If you don't want someone fondling your dick. Tell them so. Problem solved.

    I agree... it seems very unlikely that someone would be drunk enough to not realize their dick was getting pulled out... but still able to realize "Oh no! She got something on my shirt! I better go home, this is embarassing!" Lol.

    but yet girls get "raped" and molested when their "too drunk" and everyone sympathizes with them. Oh, poor thing....how can anyone do that to someone??
    Yet, when the same thing happens to a guy, the guy is just a douche who should've known better.

    Not that I'm condoning that kinda behavior at all, just double standards it seems sometimes.

    I'm also not saying this guy was bombed and got raped..he could have politely asked this girl to stop like Kaia said.

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    im actually gonna side with the OP. assuming he is legit.

    idk... sometimes ill be out with a girl and she will just turn all rawr tigress on me and things move fast. and when i am sexually attracted to her, the little logical voice in my brain is like 'you know maybe we should stop..' but the horny pervert voice, which is often much louder than the logical voice, is like 'hello titties. lets not push her off.'

    idk, maybe im crazy but sometimes i think it is hard to turn down a dominating sexual woman.

    this is why i dont fault customers who recieve extras unasked for nearly as much as i do those who come into the club as extras hounds. those who receive extras they werent necessarily looking for are, well, horny men.

    however, OP, if you are as confident as you sound in your post you shouldnt have much trouble telling her no. i can see a lot of timid meek mild men being easily pushed into having a HJ etc.

    also i wouldnt worry about making her feel like a whore. if a woman in real life throws herself at you, then yes, you have to worry about hurting her feelings. but in the club, she made a conscious decision to be a prostitute and undercut all of the clean dancers in the club. she is in fact a whore. a whore who is ruining our industry too .
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tampa81 View Post
    heh, it's strange that some people think I'm trying to gain something by asking this question.....I don't know any of you so I'm not sure what I'd have to gain. :p
    Thanks for the responses anyhow!
    Actually, all we said was that your post sounds like bullshit. Only you can answer why you bothered to post it.

    And by the way, I guess that you should be grateful that the stealthy little vixen just went for the HJ. Who knows how tortured your delicate sensitivities might have been if she gave you a surprise BJ, or even - *gasp* - unexpected full service. After all, clearly this girl was so gifted that she could have done almost anything to you before you could have stopped her.

    And, of course, if she managed to pull off a lightening fast BJ or penile insertion on you, then I have no doubt that, being the gentleman that you are, you would have had no choice but to let her complete the act in order to spare her feelings.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    idk... sometimes ill be out with a girl and she will just turn all rawr tigress on me and things move fast. and when i am sexually attracted to her, the little logical voice in my brain is like 'you know maybe we should stop..' but the horny pervert voice, which is often much louder than the logical voice, is like 'hello titties. lets not push her off.'

    idk, maybe im crazy but sometimes i think it is hard to turn down a dominating sexual woman...
    His post would have been more credible if this is what he claimed had happened. However, what he said was that she managed to take his penis out of his pants, put a condom on and then start jerking him off before he even knew it was happening. I have to call bullshit on that.

    And then he stated that he let her continue the act for a full song in order to spare her feelings. He is obviously a a gentleman of the old school.

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    ^i took the 'before he knew what she was doing' to be more of an expression than a literal discription. as in it happened fast and was kind of blurry as many sexual encounters can be as opposed to 'wow i had no idea my penis was out and covered.'
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    ^Based upon the comments below I read it a bit more literally.

    Quote Originally Posted by Tampa81 View Post
    As soon as song 3 came on and before i even totally realized what she was doing she had my dick out, a condom on and was giving me a HJ. Seriously, I'll bet it took her all of 3 seconds to unbutton/unzip/install rubber.
    Quote Originally Posted by Tampa81 View Post
    ...And she pulled the whole deal while she held my face into her boobs. At first i really thought she was just groping on me...and then...well....
    Really???

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    oh i guess i kinda skimmed it. reading comprehension was my weakest point on the SATs .
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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