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    Thumbs up Private Striptease/ Social Escorting WIN!

    Dancing in clubs is the only work I have done yet in this industry. However, last night I had a major private striptease/ social escorting WIN!

    My customer and I were texting back and forth. The club where he met me is closing down and the other club where I work is further away than he would like to drive.

    I mentioned the idea of us spending some time together out of the club, just to do some dances, chat, and have him rub my feet (he loves this). He seemed very interested and suggested we meet at his house.

    I obtained his address and already knew his full name. I looked at his house on Google earth/ maps. I ran his name through the sex offender registry and typed his name and phone number into the yellow pages website to determine that the address he gave me was his own. At this point I decided that I felt secure going to this man's home. I put 911 on my speed dial, arranged to check in with a friend before and after the appointment and planned to arrive at his house early to scope the scene.

    Now here is where it gets cool! He asked what my "rates" were and I decided I would quote high because honestly I have nothing to lose and I'm awesome. I told him that I usually charge $300 an hour but since he was so cute I would charge him $250 an hour. This was all LIES! Haha, I had never done this before and he is not cute.

    He arranged to meet me for two hours ($500) and everything went very smoothly. Striptease, dances, conversation, and foot massages. So I suppose my moral here is - there IS a market for social escorting and private stripteases.

    However, to the more experienced ladies here I have a question. How did I do? I know that my screening was pretty much nonexistant and showing up to his home could have been risky. I had spent time with him on several occasions and so therefor already trusted him to a degree.

    I hope to start advertising such an encounter and would obviously have to change my tactics for someone I'm unaquainted with. I just thought I would share my story of what I'm considering a very sucessful two hours!

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    Default Re: Private Striptease/ Social Escorting WIN!

    First off, shop rates of others offering private striptease in your area. What you charge is really up to you, what you are comfortable with, & what you feel you are worth.

    Second, check your local laws. This is really important if you plan to offer any services to strangers because you don't want to get caught in a sting by vice. Find out if you need a license for social escorting or private dancing. Some places don't require any license, some require a single license, & some have separate licenses. You should also know the laws well enough that you could about quote them from memory, because you need to make sure you are following them in-case your client is actually vice.

    Third, you probably need better security. Dialing 911 doesn't cut it, I could go into detail but what I found out is that cell phones use multiple methods for location & none of them are really precise. Usually they are within a 30 ft range, but they also can't tell elevation which means if you are in a tall building & have an emergency you would be screwed. Decide how you want to adjust your security procedures. What I ended up doing was hiring licensed security (check your local laws to see if your security needs to be licensed), & depending on the client the security either roams up & down the halls, waits in the car, or in the same room (if I'm uncomfortable with something).

    Last, learn how to really screen clients. There are so many ways to check people out, & your first few steps were good but it sounds like you need to expand on them. I've turned down clients because I could tell they would be trouble or a pain in the bum based off of reviews from girls on other sites &/or from their social networking pages. Yellow pages & such won't give you client reviews, & sometimes you will need those to make an educated decision.
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    Thanks so much! I'm obviously not ready to start advertising to strangers with my current methods, so thank you for the input. I know there are lots of threads on here to browse for screening info and stuff.

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    That's awesome! I think your best bet would be to do the same with other customers you dance for at the club that want to see you again.

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    Default Re: Private Striptease/ Social Escorting WIN!

    ALWAYS start high with your rates. You can always lower them if you have to, assuming you want to. It's a lot better than starting low and then deciding it's not enough causing you to try and "upsell". Guys HATE upselling. Charge what the market will bear. $500 for 2 hours without sex of any kind seems reasonable. Generally charge AT LEAST what you would make for the same amount of time in a VIP Room.

    Having a security man with you is an excellent idea. Lots of "strip a gram" gals have "drivers" to look after them.

    Starting with well known custies is not a bad idea but BE CAREFUL.

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    Default Re: Private Striptease/ Social Escorting WIN!

    Quote Originally Posted by Eric Stoner View Post
    ALWAYS start high with your rates.
    Sorry hun.. but this is the worst advice ever. NEVER start with high rates because later on when you have to lower them.. or should I say, when you DO lower them gents will automatically think that there is something wrong with you. Lowering your rates always devalues your service. So again, Not so great advice there Mr.

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