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    sooo...my friend wants to try out and work with me at my club
    friday...DAY SHIFT. the day shift girls are bitches and dont like me and are just plain drama cuz the house moms not there. i work nights, my friend has to do day shift first and wants me to work with her. this is her second time stripping. she didnt do too well at my old club (not knowing how to ask for dances, ect). do u think shes gonna slow down my money and that itl be a big drama fest with the other girls? i just hope my friend understands that u just dont go in..dance..and boom ur rich, you have to hustle and workkk.ahhhh i just dont know!!!! im supposed to go to her house before work to get ready ect, then we ride to work together. i just dont know what to expect....so girls...have u been in this situation before? should i just risk it for one day and just go in and show her the ropes??? thats her pic...hopefully i downloaded it. shes beautiful..lol hope she doesnt make more money than me
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    She's very pretty!

    You're a big girl, you can handle this! Go in & show her how to be a pro... especially if it's only 1 day! Besides, if you believe in karma then you should always be working towards putting out good energy so it returns to you.

    If she does make more than you most of the time stuff like that is people taking pity on girls because it's their first time dancing... so chalk it up to beginners luck.
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    I'm always hesitant mixing friends with work. When I was dancing, lots of girls I knew were all like, "Ooooh, I've always wanted to dance! Can I come work with you? We can work all the same shifts and be hustle buddies!" And I was always like, "No...that's okay..." It's fine to work at the same place. It's even fine to sometimes work the same shift. But I would be wary of always working with someone. Girls at my club who always came in together would frequently have this epic falling out within a couple of months, causing a lot of drama in the club, and then one or both of them would inevitably just disappear. Why can't she work dayshift on her own?

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    thanks kylea...i thik ill take your advece


    and firemaiden: she just doesnt wanna work alone the first day, i think ill just go and help her out
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    The first day is totally different than completely changing your shift around. Sure, help her out on her first day, that's not a big deal. Just don't end up attached at the hip.

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    I don't see a problem with going in for the shift with her, or even for the bare minimum you have to stay for the shift and then her staying later on her own, and giving her some tips and maybe trying to double-team the first couple of customers. But it's important to set boundaries and make her go out on her own so you can hustle and make money as well - it's work, after all.

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    is this the club i htink it is?

    honestly, i dont think you should go in with her. why? because the day shift girls have already been vicious to you. if she goes in with you, they might be vicious to her.

    most of us started alone when we danced. i dont think that is a bad thing... part of stripping is about being independent IMO. tell her most of us started alone, and you get over it quickly.

    starting alone will probably be less scary than being chased out by the dayshift girls anyway :X.

    also i would try to shmooze the night shift manager to get her shift changed. or the house mom-- i was hired without an audition and i think it is because i spent like 20 min talking to the house mom while the manager was outside.
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    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    I took my friend in to work with me too, her first couple nights she was nervous, obviously, everyone is. It won't hurt your money if you don't let it. But don't expect to make quite as much because you'll be showing her the ropes and such. I was more concerned that my friend was ok the first two nights she went with me than making money, but if I really wanted to make more I think I could have, it wasn't a huge dramatic difference.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    is this the club i htink it is?

    honestly, i dont think you should go in with her. why? because the day shift girls have already been vicious to you. if she goes in with you, they might be vicious to her.

    most of us started alone when we danced. i dont think that is a bad thing... part of stripping is about being independent IMO. tell her most of us started alone, and you get over it quickly.

    starting alone will probably be less scary than being chased out by the dayshift girls anyway :X.

    also i would try to shmooze the night shift manager to get her shift changed. or the house mom-- i was hired without an audition and i think it is because i spent like 20 min talking to the house mom while the manager was outside.

    While I agree that they may take the same attitude against the friend, it's also possible that may not happen. It will give the friend options though.

    Personally, when I started I had zero advice. If I had the option though between someone showing me the ropes & learning on my own... I would opt for a bit of training - which is about all the 1 day shift will provide - just enough to give her friend some confidence to know what she is doing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    While I agree that they may take the same attitude against the friend, it's also possible that may not happen. It will give the friend options though.

    Personally, when I started I had zero advice. If I had the option though between someone showing me the ropes & learning on my own... I would opt for a bit of training - which is about all the 1 day shift will provide - just enough to give her friend some confidence to know what she is doing.

    Tell your friend the situation and give her the option of deciding, Go in with the mindset of helping her out and money you make is a bonus or I would give her help then leave her for an hour to practise then check in with her again.
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    I have done this many times actually. With some it works and others it didn't. It really ended up with how comfortable the girl was doing the job alone. Yes, it is nerve-racking going to any job on your first day, but you buck up and do it alone, because we are all adults. I think you should give her a crash coarse in all that is stripping but leave it at that. Then once she gets the hang of it on her own you guys can work together as friends and co-workers. That way she won't be relient on your hustle. When I started I had a friend who let me shadow her on my first day. Well, she was a HUSTLER and I couldn't have tried that shit as a newbie if my life depended on it, (she was so confident in her hustle). So I decided there is no use in hold someones hand. This is a job to learn individually how to hustle your own product, you!

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    Your friend is hott!!, go in the first day with her and show her the ropes, also tell her some stuff lbefore u work so to make it easier goodluck x
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