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    I recently got hired here via email and speaking with managment without a true audition in person. Can anyone tell me about this club? My friend said they are a picky club and there's lots of money there but that was two years ago. Anyone have any ideas? I'm coming over 8 hours away so, if its not worth my wild I won't bother.

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    hmmm, i know 2 girls that use to work there n they both said the same thing. money is very good but its a very different club. the customers look at your picture on a screen and if they want a dance from you they select your picture a ticket is printed out and then you get called to go for a dance with them. also i heard that you only work like 2 days a month because they have so many girls trying to work there. there was 1 thing that stopped me from going there to work but honestly i dont remember. sorry. o n the girl that i know that worked there pulled around 500 on a Tuesday night and no disrespect to her but she has a very hard time getting hired at clubs in both jersey and NY. but after that night they never let her come back i have no idea why.

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    One of my friends works there occasionally & says its good money. She didn't tell me much but her & another friend said they wanted their girls to be really tan... so I wouldn't stand a chance.
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    I work with a girl who also dances at the GogoRama, or "GGR"-she says she's never made less than $400 and occasionally can pull in more than a grand. But the shifts are long (9-10 hours), and you'll have your tits grabbed all night long (tit touching during a dance is de rigeur at the GGR). Oddly enough, there are pretty much no extras going on since the dances are so high contact. They do limit bookings to I think 6 shifts a month, but local girls get called in a lot apparently. She did mention management kind of sucks and yes, they want you to look perfect..even though she said half the girls there weren't very pretty. But they're tan, hah...
    I don't know..I've been curious about this club for years and yet I've never gone there to check it out. Maybe this thread will motivate me to try...definitely let us know how it goes!
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    Thanks girls! Wow a picking system for dances? Really strange, now I question if I will stand out. I am not tanned at all. I am a very light complextion, should I just get a fake tan to fit in? Every club I worked in I kinda feel like I stand out already with being my ethnic background (asian and puerto rican) and with long red hair. But should I change it? Sorry girls this seems weird to ask but its been a while since I travelled this far for work.

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    Can anyone tell how the club looks like?

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    Hey lady-if you don't want to tan, don't. The worst that can happen is they'll tell you to tan. I know they have a LOT of blondes there so I'm sure you'll stand out and make bank without having to tan As far as the decor-my friend told me it's kind of divey looking, really dark, and there's no pole. That's all I know.
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    Thanks sugar, I'm really feel like its so competitve. My friend said most girls have implants, blonde, and really tan. I feel like the oddball! I don't have implants, I am not a blonde and I am a fair complextion.

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    they touch your boobs. Its required, no joke. Even if the customer is buying one dance. And you have to put up with it for 5 mins, thats how long the dances are. you can work there 10 days a month max.

    yea its good money if you dont count the high level contact, dirty work place. I hated being touched by people. They choose you for the dance, so you dont even have a choice in who is touching you. Really it changed my self esteem, so much so that when i started working in a normal stripping envorment i was programed to hate it. The same music plays in both clubs and i get stressed out.

    really the great things about this job are freedom, and you lose that at ggr. Id rater work 2 nights at a normal club and make the money rather than being run down by the touching and the high stress of ggr. I went from loving stripping to really questioning what i was doing with myself and my body i loved so much at one point.

    work on your sales skills and make more money being in a club where you dont have to do this to yourself. i know you dont want to hear this and you found a shortcut to making a lot of money. I did this, i didnt trust my instincts. When i came home from ggr crying my eyes out from being molested all day i brushed it off. i mean i had a lot of money right? everything was going to be fine. instead, i ignored my intuition, and eventually my mind fought back.

    ill leave out how this effected my love relationship

    Working at ggr makes you worse at selling because you dont need to. 5 mins, 20 buck and i get to touch boobs, tug on your nipples? you dont need to sell those dances, and with the 12 gils max, yea you are buisy. It costs a lot more though. Mentally and that takes a long time to heal.

    i coped with it by eating and picking at my "acne" i know a lot of girls deal with it by drinking. Its not worth the pain. trust me. Ask yourself, what does money really mean to me and if im not happy while i make it what is it worth. how much is it worth.


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    i am telling you his from experience and because i care about you sw girls. Hopefully to save you from the pain i felt.


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    Thanks my dear for your concern. The club I come from is far worse. Blowjobs were given at $40 prices, and I charge that same amt for a nude dance. Guess how many guys would chose me over that. No matter how much I hustle it, I always end up being asked for extras. Fine grab my boob, my ass but don't you dare insert anything in me or try for extras on me. Girls would give right out cheaper dances with an exploding conclusion. Full on sex for less than a hundred. I charge $400 for a more private dance, no extras. I am forced to work a three shift week. Doesn't sound bad but I work a fulltime job and school so I'm glad at just twice a month working. I used to love my old club before the extras got waaaaaaay out of hands. I work hard and when I work all those hours and being groped I better have made decent money. But in my club, decent is not what I think is enough for me to waste my precious sleeping time.

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    Can someone pls give me some more input. My trip is coming up soon and I feel like my heads in a cloud.

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    So customers get to touch your tits and ass for $20? That shit don't sound worth it to me. No offense to anyone who loves it there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yogibear179 View Post
    i am telling you his from experience and because i care about you sw girls. Hopefully to save you from the pain i felt.
    I would've felt the same way.

    And OMG, $40 BJs. Those girls better get on that super stripper program. lol. Damn.
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    I don't think its worth the money for all that but in the end I do have to evaluate my reality. The closest state that 5hrs away. It doesn't matter if I work in the classist to the divy places its the same approach "how bout a little bloww on the stick for $40?" Tradition dances are almost nonexistance. I find guys tend to say I will dance can I fingerpop you or get a handjob for $20. VIP rooms are really reserved for sex and worse the state makes it legal behind closed doors.

    So ladies, that's why I don't mind the boob grabbing as much for a dance. Its waaaay better than being fingerpopped or touching another mans junk.

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    they touch your boobs. Its required, no joke. Even if the customer is buying one dance. And you have to put up with it for 5 mins, thats how long the dances are. you can work there 10 days a month max.

    yea its good money if you dont count the high level contact, dirty work place. I hated being touched by people. They choose you for the dance, so you dont even have a choice in who is touching you. Really it changed my self esteem, so much so that when i started working in a normal stripping envorment i was programed to hate it. The same music plays in both clubs and i get stressed out.

    really the great things about this job are freedom, and you lose that at ggr. Id rater work 2 nights at a normal club and make the money rather than being run down by the touching and the high stress of ggr. I went from loving stripping to really questioning what i was doing with myself and my body i loved so much at one point.

    work on your sales skills and make more money being in a club where you dont have to do this to yourself. i know you dont want to hear this and you found a shortcut to making a lot of money. I did this, i didnt trust my instincts. When i came home from ggr crying my eyes out from being molested all day i brushed it off. i mean i had a lot of money right? everything was going to be fine. instead, i ignored my intuition, and eventually my mind fought back.

    ill leave out how this effected my love relationship

    Working at ggr makes you worse at selling because you dont need to. 5 mins, 20 buck and i get to touch boobs, tug on your nipples? you dont need to sell those dances, and with the 12 gils max, yea you are buisy. It costs a lot more though. Mentally and that takes a long time to heal.

    i coped with it by eating and picking at my "acne" i know a lot of girls deal with it by drinking. Its not worth the pain. trust me. Ask yourself, what does money really mean to me and if im not happy while i make it what is it worth. how much is it worth.
    mandatory to let them grab your boobs? does the club say this? legally this is not the clubs place to say- they can recommend it and say customers expect it but they CANNOT force you to go past your own personal boundaries.

    mandatory to dance for a custie you dont want to- if you are an independent contractor, they cant do this.

    does GGR have the girls listed as something other than independent contractor? because if not, this doesnt sound legal to me...

    unless you are breaking a grand nightly, it sounds like its best to sell your own dances and go elsewhere.
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    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    I don't have big boobs and I have to say ever since I started dancing I don't want my guy to touch my boobs. It kinda reminds me of working. I wish noncontact clubs existed closer to me but since there's none close I have been accustomed to this nonsense.

    Besides the contact is that the only negativity

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    im guessing you are in providence, right?

    ive never worked at GGR, but i think yogibears point was that the club tells you that you a. have to dance for anyone who wants a dance and b. have to let all men who buy a dance touch your boobs. Now, if you are an independent contractor, both of these are illegal for GGR to do. you have the legal right as an independent contractor to refuse service and to set your own boundaries within the law.

    high contact clubs are much more manageable if you can choose your customers. i can deal with 2 way contact and boobie touching with select customers in the champagne room, but when i get that one customer who makes me sick to my stomach i like to have the option to not dance for him.

    having a club TELL me that i have to let anybody who buys grope me- blech. that would make me sick.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
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    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    True.. i am in providence. It used to be soooo good without any hustling or trying. But its gotten bad to worse to the unthinkable acts of nastiness for no money.

    I understand the deli like system. Its kinda nice knowing that you don't have to constantly seek your own customers since I am quite shy in the beginning of my shift. What I am concerned more with is what am I expecting customers to ask for? Like extras? I am not for one for extras, contact is fine but extras I am a big fan of NOOOOO

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    True.. i am in providence. It used to be soooo good without any hustling or trying. But its gotten bad to worse to the unthinkable acts of nastiness for no money.

    I understand the deli like system. Its kinda nice knowing that you don't have to constantly seek your own customers since I am quite shy in the beginning of my shift. What I am concerned more with is what am I expecting customers to ask for? Like extras? I am not for one for extras, contact is fine but extras I am a big fan of NOOOOO way.

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    when they gave me the walk through the first time i was told specifically that they allow boob touching here. He made sure i knew that before getting into it.

    It happens with every 20 dollar dance. I did try to stop it, trust me. I would ask that they put their hands on the side of my body instead. What are you suppose to do when ever single other girl in the place allows it. it wouldn't make sense to be there then complain about it to management because it just the way it is. its what the customers expect and get.


    you options are to 1) fight with every guy 2) hide out in the dressing room 3) get drunk and not have to care or face it.

    say you decided not to allow it, they cant force you right? So you fight. With EVERY guy that is conditioned and know that that is what the place offers. You are angry and frustrated. You get angrier when said guy makes a sly move and grabs your boobie harshly. They begin to catch on because it is a regulars club. You dont have much freedom, they pick you.

    Im not kidding or exaggerating. Its the truth, that boobs and nipples are touched and fondled for 20 dollars and the songs are 5 mins long. in every club there are those who dont want to touch (and in this case boobs) in general because of other factors for themselves, just keep in mind that most guys here are regulars, the club has been around forever and this is how the place is run and what most come here for.

    the problem with 1 is that you condition yourself. If you arent ok with it with it and force yourself to be ok with it it will come back and bite you. either in depression, your relationship, not wanting to be out on the floor, the way you work in a less harsh environment... I also have to explain how the club is set up. You can see most every other chair around you. This makes it harder for you to sell a non touching dance when other chairs are getting more touching.



    2.. you cant hide out for long, you do lose a lot of freedom there. If you hide in the dressing room, and your number gets called they intercom you or usher you out of the dressing room. They do understand the need for breaks but not going on the floor for too long is a problem. Also there is no paying out and leaving. Its a 9 hour shift. you get there at open (4 ) and leave at 2 or 1 depending on the day. Theres no coming in late or leaving early. every girl comes in and leaves at the same time.

    3... drinking at work can cause problems. Its been said so many times before but if you drink in order to cope with a situation theres an underlying cause that needs to be addressed. and can be understood. If you keep denying yourself your right to feel comfortable and happy in your work environment you will lose part of yourself. your suppressing instincts that there isnt something quite right and you'll end up never standing up for those instincts in other situations, you lose trust in yourself.

    Im not biased to anyone working there, im mostly posting as an information resource.

    there is always the fourth option, is that you enjoy it and that works for some people. The fact is you need to find out what you are comfortable with and set those rules early in this game. You will do yourself a big favor and save yourself a lot of heart-ship if you make your own rules and follow them, then put the work into it and fight for things that are worth fighting for.


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    extras... some girls do the handjob outside of the pants. Grinding to "finish" is very common and a baby blanket is used to put in between you and the customer (they sell them there). A lot of guys like the girlfriend experience and want to kiss. Kissing is something done more in the private rooms and more quick ones rather than french. Not everyone does the kissing thing but i was bugged a lot about it and it got so annoying.

    ok personal opinion time lol
    you can become a great dancer. I read about the shyness you experience. I became a worse dancer because i wasn't growing at this place. why dont you try to seek out a better club where you dont have to do so much for 20 dollars. plus chaffed tender nipples hurt.


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    Thank you all for helping with your opinions and thoughts. I just got back from working this weekend up there. I only worked one out of the two shifts I picked out. I could not believe how horrible some customers were behaving at the bar. Some idiots were gropping right on the bar without even tipping the girls. I drew final straw when some random [email protected]@ grabbed my chest from a far distant and ripped my favorite dress. I could not believe it, he didn't even say sorry. He said he wanted to see what my boobs. I told him, then he should get a dance instead, and of course he didn't. My chest ended up on fire by the end of the night. It was not worth all my efforts of traveling, hotelling, and booking. I had a huge allergic reaction from whatever nastiness some of the customers had on their face and I had to take benadryl. This was Friday and now its Monday and it still is sore. The manager offered me more days, I declined. Its good money without really hustling but at the end I can't stand ignorance and stupidness so I won't return. But thank you all for your wonderful insights. **hugs & kisses **

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    Sorry to hear it didn't work out Lady..but you did a damn good job trying! Best of luck to you
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    This is just wrong. I'm so sad that stripping in the U.S. has gotten to this level of degradation. I like that "deli" idea, but it's not really for dances.

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