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    I have a regular who is a sales guy and he brings his customers in all the time. The other night he comes in with his team and brings a group of guys who are his clients. He introduces me to their boss and asks me to take care of him.

    Normally the guys he brings in are excited and happy and liquored up. This guy is very polite, he has a few drinks, but he just sits down and starts to do email or something on his blackberry. Another girl sat in his lap and he politely asked her to get off him. I asked him if he wanted a dance or anything else and he just wanted another drink. I tried just talking to him because I thought he was shy but he didn't seem like he wanted to talk. He tipped me $100 and suggested I talk to one of the guys that work for him. My regular is upset at me because his client isn't having a good time, but I don't know what else I could have done.

    He didn't seem gay, he didn't seem upset to be there, but he didn't seem like he was enjoying himself either. I actually feel really bad about myself. Like I let down my regular, and I feel very unattractive and uninteresting.

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    Default Re: Taking care of a regular's client who isn't interested?

    You need to make sure you put in a good faith effort, if it doesn't work you can't blame yourself.

    What type of questions did you ask him?

    How did you try to engage him in conversation?

    Did you have anything in common with him?

    Did you ask him what type of women he likes?


    A lot of men aren't really into gentlemen's clubs but are still respectful of them. Some men also hate women who plop themselves down in the man's lap... so of course he asked her to move!

    Next time when you meet a guy like this first see if you can turn him into your customer, if you can't, try to pin-point a girl in the club whom you think he would like & introduce them.
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    That's the worst part. I tried talking to him, but I just felt so stupid every time I asked a question. I don't even know what I said that sounded dumb. I'm not the smartest girl in the world but I'm not stupid. When I talked to him I felt like I was a little girl talking to a teacher.

    I'm not used to getting rejected like that. It would have been better if he was grabby or an asshole, I know how to deal with that. But he was polite and dismissive at the same time. I felt like I failed a job interview and he wrote me off as a worthwhile person all at the same time.

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    Default Re: Taking care of a regular's client who isn't interested?

    Certain types of guys just use the strip club as their 'go-to' place to entertain clients.
    Just seems like the guy who wasn't interested was probably there for his guys to be entertained but wasn't into the experience himself.
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    Default Re: Taking care of a regular's client who isn't interested?

    Eh I wouldn't take it personally. I've gotten weirdos like that. Maybe he's married and doesn't want his wife to be mad for talking to a stripper or maybe he was under a lot of stress

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    Default Re: Taking care of a regular's client who isn't interested?

    Or maybe he didn't like SCs because he knows the attention we give is fake. I would feel that way as a guy

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    Default Re: Taking care of a regular's client who isn't interested?

    Knowing what I know about SCs, if I were ever reborn as a guy I'd never go to one. I think maybe he just wasn't into being there and was there for the other guys sake. I just wish I was able to engage him in conversation. I swear, if I ever see this guy again I'm going to make it a point to have a conversation with him. I don't care if it's in a grocery store, he's going to want to talk to me damn it!

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    Default Re: Taking care of a regular's client who isn't interested?

    I know guys joke or lie when they say "he dragged me here" but I think you have to be in a proper mood to be in a strip club.

    Maybe the guy was having a bad day or really didn't want to be there but did for the sake of the business relationship.

    The last time this happened to me - my regulars business friend was not happy. I talked to him like a normal person with no hustle and found that he would be very happy to just sit and watch.

    I arranged that for him and my regular was happy and so was his friend.




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    Default Re: Taking care of a regular's client who isn't interested?

    The unenthusiastic client is an idiot. If he's doesn't want to be there, he should have the balls to suggest a restaurant or regular bar instead. I mean ...isn't that what adults do ? I hate "pouters" in the club.

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