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    Default I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    This was said to me by a guy who supposedly wanted to date me. He wanted to bring his friends to my club. There's a long back story here which isn't really relevant, suffice to say the 2 wks or so he's been acting like a stalker and won't leave me alone. I finally lost it and told him I wasn't interested in being shown off to all his friends and that's when he said "Wait - I'm not trying to show you off, I'd never show off a stripper that's embarrassing."

    I'm so angry I'm seeing red and I don't even know how to respond, and he doesn't even realize what he's done!
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    Default Re: I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    Wait... so why the fuck would he want to bring his friends to your club... if showing off a stripper is embarassing? That makes ZERO sense.
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    Default Re: I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    omg. crazy guys are crazy.

    i don't think he wants to show you off. i think he wants to slut-shame you.

    that said, over half my potential relationships have ended when the guy wanted to come to the club. it's not going to happen. i have no idea why they even want to, though. do they want me to waste my time sitting with them instead of making money? do they want to know what i look like naked so they can dump me if i'm not perfect? do they want me to be really slutty? do they want me to be really slutty so they can hold it against me? or because they're into cuckolding? do they want to get some idea of how much money they can use me for? do they just think they'll be a big shot? are they a pimp? wtf?
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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    Wait... so why the fuck would he want to bring his friends to your club... if showing off a stripper is embarassing? That makes ZERO sense.
    No it doesn't make sense. Nor does it make sense that he's bringing them to my club which is the absolute furthest from where he lives. There are literally 3 clubs closer than mine. He's telling me it's their idea. Complete bull shit.
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    Default Re: I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    "Wait - I'm not trying to show you off, I'd never show off a stripper that's embarrassing."


    Fuck me but, I thought that was the point! You have the woman that all the guys want and can never get...........

    Somebody hit him already.

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    Default Re: I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    Ugh. What a fucking moron.

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    Default Re: I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    Could this possibly be the same guy from the "shared dildo" thread?
    Sure sounds like him
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    Default Re: I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    What a jerk...

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    Default Re: I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    he's treating you like arm candy. make him pay for that shit.

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    Default Re: I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    ^ LOL, damn straight. Next time he comes in, take him for all he's worth, then ditch him. Publicly.

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    Default Re: I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    I've seen your pics in another thread, you are gorgeous. Why anyone would think it's embarrassing to show you off, whether you're a stripper or a cleaning lady, is beyond me.
    Not that I like being displayed to any guy's friends like a trophy, just putting things in perspective here.

    Do his friends know you're a stripper? Or they think they're just going out to a random SC? If they do know, sounds like he IS showing you off, but he's saying that because he thinks it will bail him out. He missed the point where the excuse is putting him in deeper shit than the original problem, though.

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    Default Re: I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    What a complete douchebag.

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    Default Re: I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    Men get stupid after you insult them.. You told him off and he said that right off his head... Dont take it personally, it was just his way of getting back at you cause he got rejected

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    Default Re: I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    Ya right... Im pretty sure the first thing every guy does after he hooks up with a stripper is ring all his friends and brag. Once again... dont try and bull shit someone who makes a living from professional bull shittery. pfffft. boys = dumb. Sometimes I really wish I was gay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    Sometimes I really wish I was gay.
    Me too. God reading stuff like this just makes me even more disgusted with men. No dancer deserves to be treated like that.

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    Default Re: I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    This was said to me by a guy who supposedly wanted to date me. He wanted to bring his friends to my club. There's a long back story here which isn't really relevant, suffice to say the 2 wks or so he's been acting like a stalker and won't leave me alone. I finally lost it and told him I wasn't interested in being shown off to all his friends and that's when he said "Wait - I'm not trying to show you off, I'd never show off a stripper that's embarrassing."

    I'm so angry I'm seeing red and I don't even know how to respond, and he doesn't even realize what he's done!
    I think your response should be not speaking to him or interacting in any way with himespecially if he pops up at your club. Treat him like the nothing he is.
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    Default Re: I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    What a jerk. However I'm not surprised by this at all. Many men think it's hot to bang a stripper but introduce them to the family or friends? No way. Reminds me of a guy I dated years ago who wanted to have sex but could never be serious with me because I was a stripper. Yeah right, so I dumped him. Men like these have double standards and best to move on.

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    Default Re: I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    This guy is an asshole, no doubt about it,... but I'm confused. Is this someone you've been involved with?

    Are his friends buying dances or just wasting your time?

    Why do you care what this loser thinks? Can't you just ignore him?

    It sounds to me like he is definitely showing you off. Heck - I would, too, you're quite the catch (I mean this in a nice respectful way). But, when you called him on it, rather than man up to it, he lied like a little bitch (I use this phrase in its slang/vernacular sense, not meaning any disrespect towards women).
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    Default Re: I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    Well he thankfully never showed up at my club and I haven't heard from him in 4 days so maybe he got the message...

    It's a no win situation. Part of me wants there to not be any stereotypes about us at all and the rest of me knows that if we get rid of the stereotypes we stop making money... oh well. One less douchebag in my life.
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    Go go Gadget Bitch-slap!

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    If he comes in with his friends, pretend you don't know him. That will embarrass him,
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    Default Re: I'd never show off a stripper, it's embarassing...

    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    Well he thankfully never showed up at my club and I haven't heard from him in 4 days so maybe he got the message...

    It's a no win situation. Part of me wants there to not be any stereotypes about us at all and the rest of me knows that if we get rid of the stereotypes we stop making money... oh well. One less douchebag in my life.
    Keep weedin' em out girl. Each douchebag brings you closer and closer to finding the real thing!

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