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    Default Going to dinner with a regular....?

    Does anyone do this? How much do you charge?! I don't know what to do! Should I be doing this?! He's reputable ("google-able!") and I have his information, so safety isn't really the biggest issue... I just want to make sure this is like a several-hour VIP, only outside of the club... but I've never done this before so I'm unsure. Yeah.

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    Default Re: Going to dinner with a regular....?

    Girlie you can charge whatever you want!!! Remember that!!! Back in Chicago regulars were a big part of your job (not as much as Vegas) and I would often meet with my customers for lunches, dinners, or just drinks outside of the club. What kind of money does he give you in the club? That way you can guage what to charge outside of it. For example, with 1 of my customers I could charge $300 (and they pay for the dinner obviously) then next time I seen him $200 and maybe the next time after that I had a bill due for $500 so $500 is the amount. If they like you they will always give you what you want and need. Be fun and exciting company and he won't ever mind paying you. Also remember he is just paying you for your time outside the club so don't feel obligated to kiss him or anything like that, it's not a date. You are a stripper not a whore so know that you are in control and anything your not comfortable with doesn't have to happen (like say he wants you to hang out at his house afterwards). Good Luck girlie and definatley post how it went!

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    I've done this before. I just drove my own car there, didn't let him pick me up. I charged 250 (I told him I would usually make about 500 at a night of work and since I had to take the night off I needed at LEAST half)

    MAKE SURE he knows what to expect BEFORE the date. set your rules FIRST. I've had a customer willing to pay me 400 dollars to go hang out with him and then he texted me asking if I wanted to get a hotel and when I said no he called the whole thing off and I was really bummed out. if he's paying you, he's gonna expect SOMETHING. it could be sex or it could be he genuinely wants your company. make sure you're on the same page. chances are if he asks you to go out with him on a regular basis and he pays you, he's going to expect sex at some point.

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    Yeah, you have to set limits first and arrange your own transportation. I used to go on paid dinners with a reg and my biggest regret in my career is not getting more money out of him! I would charge him the same amount that he would give me in the club, but meeting up outside of the club is going above and beyond, so you should be charging even more. Don't be afraid to negotiate either. If you name a high number and he seems uncomfortable, you can still turn it around and tell him you'll do it for less just because you like him so much or something. Remember that you're worth it!

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    I would go out with a reg and get paid at the end of the night back at his hotel (no extras!) and have a coffee before breakfast. the last time we went out he bought another dancer with us and the three of us went clubbing then to the casino, we all passed out at the hotel and I woke up and left before being paid. Later that day I called him to find out when he would pay me and was told he put the $ in my bag... can you all guess where this is going? I don't know if the other dancer took it or whether he never put the money in my bag in the first place but I suggest;

    1 Get paid upfront and put a time limit on the night I was exhausted after three days of 6pm-6am+

    2 Charge overtime rates if you do exceed time limit I had set a rate early on and deserved more pay for the time and energy I allocated

    3 Safety Always a public place I would avoid going to his territory, stay in public places

    No naked time outside the club

    I should have set higher prices and stronger limits, if you value yourself highly he will too, if he doesn't then you are wasting your time. You are running a business, you are NOT taking a night off work because you will be working the whole time keeping him entertained.

    I would appreciate suggestions and advice from veterans on how I could have handled the situation differently
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