Let's see, I've seen that happen more than once! There was a discussion on the blue side about this awhile back where I mentioned this occurs. Some of the blues who didn't know this apparently thought I was nuts because they weren't privvy to the information. This does happen though, & I have been around as it was happening. I've actually had to turn down multiple "offers" & had managers double question me on why I don't do extras... like because someone I know does them I'm supposed to! Ugh. Sorry, not my game.
Often what happens is "John" (a well connected man with money) is planning to travel to a certain city that his buddy "Joe" (also well connected with money) travels to, so he asks "Joe" about a hook-up. "Joe" either tells "John" who to speak to at the local club in order to get an extras girl/prostitute, or "Joe" or will call on behalf of "John" to speak to the person directly. Normally the third party negotiator is a manager, bouncer or VIP host. Sometimes "John" will give a hefty tip to this club staff member when he comes into the club, receive said extras/OTC activities, then pay the girl. As a "thank you" for bringing her business the girl often tips the third party negotiator. Now obviously the girl isn't going to say to "John" "Hey, did you tip the negotiator?"... so a lot of times the negotiator is actually getting tipped by both parties involved! Suddenly you can see why there are many willing to do the job of third party negotiator.
Some guys find their own extras girl, or call their friend & ask which girls to be on the look out for a the club. This can be a sign that they are not well connected, or that they just like privacy. My experience though is the really well to do guys go through a club negotiator.
Yes, some clubs really do have pimps.
OP, what's done is done. However, if it were me I'd ask your manager about it, tell him you would like to know what they didn't like so you can work on improving it, or if they just wanted girls who would do extras. I would straight out use the word extras too. If there is something you can improve on, do it! Or if they wanted extras girls at least you won't be in the dark about it.
Where is it you are working? City/State?
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