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    Default Digging a hole

    Hello ladies i hope everyone has had a great year so far, recession is over and i hope whatever club u work at, picked up. However im in a pickle and being that i dont have many lady friends i need advice. Ive been with my bf longer before i began dancing and love him to death we live together share everything. Theres this custy same age as me and has been coming to see me for 3 yrs! Of course some relationship is going to build up. He's sweet nice and has money but i refuse to break up with my bf, im comfortable and happy. I made the mistake a year ago to see him outside the club,knowing that i shouldn't have i told him i cant leave i need to make my pay out. He said how much? I lied and he gave me more than enough. I liked the money and his personality. Its just wierd for me, but i continued cuz i liked that i do have fun with him. Because me and my bf stay home and watch movies i like that too but i like experincieng other ventures. So the other day i hung out with him and let me tell
    you, he does not have my number only email, its safer for me. However, i was joking with him cuz he said he liked to text me sumtime and i said "why dont you buy me a
    phone?" and u can".. Shit 2 weeks later he buys me one. I excepted it and have had it for a week. But im feeling like a shit head cuz i know my
    bf wont like it( but in my head i can use it for good clients) ahh its so wrong please help and thank you for your time.
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    3 YEARS this dude has been coming to see you? I'm sorry but have you ever heard the phrase "too good to be true"?

    something ain't right here. I don't care HOW pretty a girl is or how stunning her personality or how much money a guy has...unless the dude is really old (and he's not since you said he's your age) or knows he doesn't have a chance with you I don't see a reason for him to keep coming back unless he's gaining something out of it or THINKS he's going to.

    3 years is a LONG time to pursue someone and it seems like this guy has invested a lot of time, money, and emotion in you and since you say you're not going to break up with your boyfriend for him, he's going to end up getting hurt. you never know though. I would talk to your customer, see where his head's at. does he want a relationship? I have no problem with leading on customers but there's a certain point where it's just mean if he thinks he's going to get somewhere with you.

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    I got a customer like that. He's been following all over new england. He's younger than me but his dad pays all his bills so when I do see him its garunteed over thousand night. He's really sweet but boring as hell. he has spelt a good amt me from day one, but there's no connection. All I do is talk about my dog, my schooling, how horrible the club has become, etc. He's never even seen me topless or nude. I work in a topless bar and he would rather listen to me talk than dance. Great customer and he's not a bad looking kid but he's not my type. I know he wants more and I know he can give me same amt to chill with him outside but I won't. I am very in love with my man. If you love you dude. Is he more precious than any dollar amt? I don't know how your situation is with your man. Do you see him as the "one"? If he is then this decison will make ur relationship or break. its a choice u have to make. Just remember money come and go. True love is harder to come by. Good luck my dear

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    Does this regular know that you have a boyfriend?
    Don't you ever sleep?
    Not at night...that's when the stars have rather better things to do. They're coming out, shining, that sort of thing.
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