I am fairly new to stripping (5 nights over two weeks) and work in a bikini bar. I lost my job a year ago and need the money. On average, I've been pulling in about $400/night which I think is great. In the time I've been dancing I have had 2 VIP Room dances and 1 request for VIP which I turned down. The first (OMG) had me tie up his hands and feet and tickle him for the hour...nothing else! The second was a nice guy, we chatted, drank and I danced for him. I did remove my top and he was very respectful! The one I turned down was looking for sex (BJ) and I flat out told him; "sorry..no way!" He had come in 3 of my 5 nights and I lapped danced for him each of those nights. He seemed great until he asked if he could expect to ejaculate upsatirs! I was pretty repulsed and disgusted; probably because he seemed so great. I stopped working for a month after that but I am starting up again next week because I need the money.
My question is, what is fair game in the VIP? I'm not affraid of being topless and I don't mind touching a little bit on top. I know some girls do "extras;" I won't! I have made friends with a few of the dancers there who have told me in the VIP, "Chat, drink and dance...allow some touching and I should touch the 'custy' with butt, hair and hands." One also suggested flashing a bottom view for more money. I guess I would be ok with that if I was confortable with the guy, he didn't touch me and was willing to pay.
Your experience and feedbeack appreciated before I move forward.



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