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    Dizzy VIP Room Expectations

    I am fairly new to stripping (5 nights over two weeks) and work in a bikini bar. I lost my job a year ago and need the money. On average, I've been pulling in about $400/night which I think is great. In the time I've been dancing I have had 2 VIP Room dances and 1 request for VIP which I turned down. The first (OMG) had me tie up his hands and feet and tickle him for the hour...nothing else! The second was a nice guy, we chatted, drank and I danced for him. I did remove my top and he was very respectful! The one I turned down was looking for sex (BJ) and I flat out told him; "sorry..no way!" He had come in 3 of my 5 nights and I lapped danced for him each of those nights. He seemed great until he asked if he could expect to ejaculate upsatirs! I was pretty repulsed and disgusted; probably because he seemed so great. I stopped working for a month after that but I am starting up again next week because I need the money.

    My question is, what is fair game in the VIP? I'm not affraid of being topless and I don't mind touching a little bit on top. I know some girls do "extras;" I won't! I have made friends with a few of the dancers there who have told me in the VIP, "Chat, drink and dance...allow some touching and I should touch the 'custy' with butt, hair and hands." One also suggested flashing a bottom view for more money. I guess I would be ok with that if I was confortable with the guy, he didn't touch me and was willing to pay.

    Your experience and feedbeack appreciated before I move forward.

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    Generally the VIP is more contact but my club doesn't allow any contact. What I do in the VIP different from a lap dance is grind harder and after about ten minutes of dancing I snuggle up next to the guy unless he smells lol in which case I put my feet on his lap and smile and talk about how I'm soooo lucky that he took me into the VIP room

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sable4dance View Post
    I am fairly new to stripping (5 nights over two weeks) and work in a bikini bar. I lost my job a year ago and need the money. On average, I've been pulling in about $400/night which I think is great. In the time I've been dancing I have had 2 VIP Room dances and 1 request for VIP which I turned down. The first (OMG) had me tie up his hands and feet and tickle him for the hour...nothing else! The second was a nice guy, we chatted, drank and I danced for him. I did remove my top and he was very respectful! The one I turned down was looking for sex (BJ) and I flat out told him; "sorry..no way!" He had come in 3 of my 5 nights and I lapped danced for him each of those nights. He seemed great until he asked if he could expect to ejaculate upsatirs! I was pretty repulsed and disgusted; probably because he seemed so great. I stopped working for a month after that but I am starting up again next week because I need the money.

    My question is, what is fair game in the VIP? I'm not affraid of being topless and I don't mind touching a little bit on top. I know some girls do "extras;" I won't! I have made friends with a few of the dancers there who have told me in the VIP, "Chat, drink and dance...allow some touching and I should touch the 'custy' with butt, hair and hands." One also suggested flashing a bottom view for more money. I guess I would be ok with that if I was confortable with the guy, he didn't touch me and was willing to pay.

    Your experience and feedbeack appreciated before I move forward.
    Well, it all depends. What is legal in your club? Is it a topless bar only? Could you get in trouble for flashing your vag? Are you allowed to touch the customer during lap dances? In this day and age, it's really hard to tell what's actually legal and what isn't...

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    There is no nudity in my club, but evidently in the VIP it's kind of expected and not frowned upon by management. What about touching the client over his clothes. I'm ok with that but I do not want see his junk!

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    You don't have to do any thing you don't want to do.

    If a custy asks if he can get off either tell him that is not what you're there for and/
    or end the dance.

    Whatever you do don't let guys touch themselves! Your not obligated to be around that sort of behavior and they are not entitled to it either.

    "Chat, drink and dance...allow some touching and I should touch the 'custy' with butt, hair and hands." One also suggested flashing a bottom view for more money.
    Sounds good to me. Just be careful as you should never say "I'll do XXX for X amount of money".




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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    Well, it all depends. What is legal in your club? Is it a topless bar only? Could you get in trouble for flashing your vag? Are you allowed to touch the customer during lap dances? In this day and age, it's really hard to tell what's actually legal and what isn't...
    I'm so glad to finally have another person saying that on SW!

    OP, check your local laws. You can call the sheriff's department, sometimes a city or court clerk can direct you to who would know too. There's also www.municode.com. It is very important to know your local laws! Don't expect club management to know them or be honest about them. Often clubs let things slide that aren't legal, & if your customer is an undercover doing something wrong could land you a ticket.

    If something is legal & allowed at your club, but you aren't comfortable with it, don't do it. You don't want to be second questioning or regretting something in the future that could have very easily been avoided.

    On flashing your lady parts, that's really a thing with the law again. It's pretty rare that a club is topless only or bikini where full nudity is allowed, but it does happen. I just worked a club where we did topless stage shows, but legally we could show our pink parts, the club management just wanted girls charging more to do it & didn't want it on stage because it was something that could make us more money in private dances if we didn't flash them on stage.
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