I am fairly new to stripping (5 nights over two weeks) and work in a bikini bar. I lost my job a year ago and need the money. On average, I've been pulling in about $400/night which I think is great. In the time I've been dancing I have had 2 VIP Room dances and 1 request for VIP which I turned down. The first (OMG) had me tie up his hands and feet and tickle him for the hour...nothing else! The second was a nice guy, we chatted, drank and I danced for him. I did remove my top and he was very respectful! The one I turned down was looking for sex (BJ) and I flat out told him; "sorry..no way!" He had come in 3 of my 5 nights and I lapped danced for him each of those nights. He seemed great until he asked if he could expect to ejaculate upsatirs! I was pretty repulsed and disgusted; probably because he seemed so great. I stopped working for a month after that but I am starting up again next week because I need the money.
My question is, what is fair game in the VIP? I'm not affraid of being topless and I don't mind touching a little bit on top. I know some girls do "extras;" I won't! I have made friends with a few of the dancers there who have told me in the VIP, "Chat, drink and dance...allow some touching and I should touch the 'custy' with butt, hair and hands." One also suggested flashing a bottom view for more money. I guess I would be ok with that if I was confortable with the guy, he didn't touch me and was willing to pay. Again, there is no nudity in my club, but evidently in the VIP it's kind of expected and not frowned upon by management. What about touching the client over his clothes? I'm not certain I’m ok with even that but I do want to know from your experiences!
Your experience and feedback appreciated before I move forward.



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