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    Angry VIP Room Expectations

    I am fairly new to stripping (5 nights over two weeks) and work in a bikini bar. I lost my job a year ago and need the money. On average, I've been pulling in about $400/night which I think is great. In the time I've been dancing I have had 2 VIP Room dances and 1 request for VIP which I turned down. The first (OMG) had me tie up his hands and feet and tickle him for the hour...nothing else! The second was a nice guy, we chatted, drank and I danced for him. I did remove my top and he was very respectful! The one I turned down was looking for sex (BJ) and I flat out told him; "sorry..no way!" He had come in 3 of my 5 nights and I lapped danced for him each of those nights. He seemed great until he asked if he could expect to ejaculate upsatirs! I was pretty repulsed and disgusted; probably because he seemed so great. I stopped working for a month after that but I am starting up again next week because I need the money.

    My question is, what is fair game in the VIP? I'm not affraid of being topless and I don't mind touching a little bit on top. I know some girls do "extras;" I won't! I have made friends with a few of the dancers there who have told me in the VIP, "Chat, drink and dance...allow some touching and I should touch the 'custy' with butt, hair and hands." One also suggested flashing a bottom view for more money. I guess I would be ok with that if I was confortable with the guy, he didn't touch me and was willing to pay. Again, there is no nudity in my club, but evidently in the VIP it's kind of expected and not frowned upon by management. What about touching the client over his clothes? I'm not certain I’m ok with even that but I do want to know from your experiences!

    Your experience and feedback appreciated before I move forward.

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    Default Re: VIP Room Expectations

    Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with.

    First, find out what is legal in your area. You can contact the local sheriff's department to ask, try contacting the court clerk or a lawyer. Unfortunately this generally isn't a good question to ask club owners/managers because they sometimes don't really know the law or they allow more than is legal. You won't want to go past what is legal because you'll risk getting a ticket if the customer is actually an undercover cop.

    Next, ask the club owner/manger what they allow in the clubs. You still want to do this because then you'll know what other girls may be doing... & what you are competing with or what customers may be expecting.

    Most of my VIP rooms are lap dances, talking, beverages & social dancing. Rarely do I get the fetish customers, but it does happen once in awhile.
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