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    Angry dancing with an untoned stomach will I be hired?

    I"m just starting out and plan on auditioning at a club or a few this week. frustrated i have stretch marks on my stomach and am not toned around my mid section overall i look pretty good naked though and i"m pretty thin but it still has me worried about the audition process not to mention that the guy I was dating had an kinda issue with me dancing. Our first date was in a strip club and i was kissing the other girls with my top down for a good part of the night was he really that surprised? I never felt like crap trying to audition until then, anyway sorry about the rant.The good news was that the girls were actually encouraging me to work there. Anyway has anyone had this problem starting out then toned up afterwards

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    Default Re: dancing with an untoned stomach will I be hired?

    I'm in a similar boat GothicRose84. I start back dancing Monday after an 8 month hiatus from an outside of work injury. 5 months of laying on a couch has left me untoned, once again lol. But trust me, it's intense excercise. I was soft and squishy when I first started dancing. 2-3 weeks of that and the softness toned up well. I just have to start the process all over again lol (admittedly, the idea freaks me out and is causing a good amount of worry lol)

    As for the clubs, knowing what type of club it is will give you a better idea about how they run and their "standards" come audition time. Are they uptight? Laid-back? Do they work with the girls to make them feel at ease? Are they picky?etc. Just something to consider.

    Another thing you might try, is if you are a bit self-conscious about auditioning, is to wear an outfit that compliments and draws attention to the parts of your body you are confident about. I like to wear skirts instead of booty shorts, seems to flatter my hips better, and goes with my boots . One girl at my club has stretch marks (since that is something you mentioned being frustrated about), and she wears the fish-net like shirts, with a triangle top underneath. It looks cute, and makes everything else unnoticeable.

    (long post, I'm sorry lol)

    Am sorry you feel crappy about the audition process though , I can definitely sympathize with your plight. But listen to the girls that are encouraging you. They will provide great morale support and other advice. (don't let the boyfriend/date bring you down though. If you want to do this then he will have to understand or get lost. Never let a guy make you think less of yourself.... guys irk me like that lol)
    Anyhoo, sorry sorry for the chattiness. And if you dance, you'll tone. That's pretty much a guarantee (as long as it's not just 1 day a week or something, then it'll be a slower process heh). All in all Good Luck and think happy, positive, money-making thoughts

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    Default Re: dancing with an untoned stomach will I be hired?

    Quote Originally Posted by Morayna View Post
    I'm in a similar boat GothicRose84. I start back dancing Monday after an 8 month hiatus from an outside of work injury. 5 months of laying on a couch has left me untoned, once again lol. But trust me, it's intense excercise. I was soft and squishy when I first started dancing. 2-3 weeks of that and the softness toned up well. I just have to start the process all over again lol (admittedly, the idea freaks me out and is causing a good amount of worry lol)

    As for the clubs, knowing what type of club it is will give you a better idea about how they run and their "standards" come audition time. Are they uptight? Laid-back? Do they work with the girls to make them feel at ease? Are they picky?etc. Just something to consider.

    Another thing you might try, is if you are a bit self-conscious about auditioning, is to wear an outfit that compliments and draws attention to the parts of your body you are confident about. I like to wear skirts instead of booty shorts, seems to flatter my hips better, and goes with my boots . One girl at my club has stretch marks (since that is something you mentioned being frustrated about), and she wears the fish-net like shirts, with a triangle top underneath. It looks cute, and makes everything else unnoticeable.

    (long post, I'm sorry lol)

    Am sorry you feel crappy about the audition process though , I can definitely sympathize with your plight. But listen to the girls that are encouraging you. They will provide great morale support and other advice. (don't let the boyfriend/date bring you down though. If you want to do this then he will have to understand or get lost. Never let a guy make you think less of yourself.... guys irk me like that lol)
    Anyhoo, sorry sorry for the chattiness. And if you dance, you'll tone. That's pretty much a guarantee (as long as it's not just 1 day a week or something, then it'll be a slower process heh). All in all Good Luck and think happy, positive, money-making thoughts
    You mentioned that a girl with stretch marks wears fishnet shirts... I am looking into dancing and have stretch marks (as well as being a little overweight). If it's an all-nude club, don't you have to take everything off?? Or do you always wear something? Say if I were to get an underbust corset, would I have to take that off or does that stay on? It would hide most of my imperfections but not all. I know nearly nothing about stripping but am trying to do my research!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lacey24 View Post
    You mentioned that a girl with stretch marks wears fishnet shirts... I am looking into dancing and have stretch marks (as well as being a little overweight). If it's an all-nude club, don't you have to take everything off?? Or do you always wear something? Say if I were to get an underbust corset, would I have to take that off or does that stay on? It would hide most of my imperfections but not all. I know nearly nothing about stripping but am trying to do my research!

    It does depend alot on the club, their rules, and the custy expectations.
    Example 1- the Main club I danced/dance at wasn't full nude. Got down to everything but a thong. However, the girl I mentioned would just push aside the triangle top underneath the net to expose her breasts, removed the booty shorts/etc, and left the fishnet on. Guys sometimes seem to like it when girls leave an article of clothing on... Was once told by a custy that it gave the fantasy of "i'm so hot for you right now that I don't have time to remove everything before we get down to business" lol.

    Example 2- The sister club of the main one i worked at was full nude, and I danced there a few times. They were private back area nude dances, not on the main floor. You took everything off. That was the general expectation. Club rule however was whatever the custy wanted. If he (and most of them did) wanted a nude dance they expected everything off. However, some did not mind if you left a skirt or shirt on. As long as the main goods were shown (aka boobs and kitty). An underbust corset/waist-cincher could work. It'de be cute. Just have to see what club requires and what custy Expects.

    There might be some threads on this somewhere. I don't really know how this posty thing works. Am not really forum savvy per-se

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    i find that lacy slips, skirts, lacy bras, & thigh highs help with hiding the stretch marks on multiple parts of the body. Plus, they accentuate different parts of the body. I normally don't wear bikinis usually unless I weigh much less than what I weigh now. It just doesn't suit. Plus, I am not the "bikini type". I like skirts better than boy shorts because it hides stretch marks on my upper inner thighs (they're in the purple stage..embarassing!) and the red-violet ones on my hip bone area. It makes my butt looks better, too.

    But I use Palmer's Stretch Mark Oil. It's in a white box and it's an actual oil that you rub into your skin. It's like a golden oil in a clear bottle. I LOVE IT. IT HAS WORKED WONDERS. The only other thing for stretch marks is Mederma and just plain time for them to heal. They'll go from red to purple to white I believe. Usually, the more deflated the skin, the more purple they get...which actually means purple is a good thing.

    But anyway, I think that a lacy slip that hugs your curves, comes down just above the bottom of you ass, and has actual cups for the boobs and some ruffles or lace to make your butt look bigger (in a good way) are great ways to accent and bring attention to the best parts of your body. :-P

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    Quote Originally Posted by GothicRose84 View Post
    I"m just starting out and plan on auditioning at a club or a few this week. frustrated i have stretch marks on my stomach and am not toned around my mid section overall i look pretty good naked though and i"m pretty thin but it still has me worried about the audition process not to mention that the guy I was dating had an kinda issue with me dancing. Our first date was in a strip club and i was kissing the other girls with my top down for a good part of the night was he really that surprised? I never felt like crap trying to audition until then, anyway sorry about the rant.The good news was that the girls were actually encouraging me to work there. Anyway has anyone had this problem starting out then toned up afterwards
    I know how you feel. They might hire you a little heavier than your optimal weight but they probably know you'll tone up and lose weight once you start and go full throttle with your dancing career. If they give you a hard time, you probably may wanna point out that you will lose weight once you're on your feet working for up to 8 or 10 hours. You can tell them "Look, you can either hire me and speed up this weight loss progress or you can just turn me away. Either way, I need a job, so I need to know NOW what your decision is." That is what I said....and he gave me a job right then and there.

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    stretch marks are pretty inconspicuous in dark clubs...it's not like they glow under a black lights.
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    Thank you all so much

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    Default Re: dancing with an untoned stomach will I be hired?

    The dim club lights can be very forgiving, and dancing will certainly help tone you up.

    I'm more concerned about this guy you're dating. Are you two serious? Do you see yourself with him long-term? It's good that he's honest about how he feels about dancing upfront, but be prepared to have to pick him or dancing.

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    Just depends. If all the girls at the place are SUPER thin ... probaby not. If there is a variety, you'll probably get hired.
    Don't stress if you don't get hired ! Sometimes just catching the manager is a bad / lazy mood is all it takes to not get hired, so don't obsess over it ! There are always other places.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Italian_Bombshell849 View Post
    ps:
    stretch marks are pretty inconspicuous in dark clubs...it's not like they glow under a black lights.
    Omg, my stretch marks light up like a christmas tree when im within 3 feet of the black light, I dont know if its visible to the rest of the club so I just stay away from it. I do notice that i never see any stretchmarks on the other girls on stage who i know also have stretchmarks, but theres no way for me to check myself from a distance and be sure o.O I also noticed that if a guy is sitting near the stage/blacklight all the scars on his face look lit up, like in those photos that highlights sun damage. Whats weird is they arent even that visible in normal lighting, something about scar tissue and black lights I guess?

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    Quote Originally Posted by dawnfire90 View Post
    Omg, my stretch marks light up like a christmas tree when im within 3 feet of the black light, I dont know if its visible to the rest of the club so I just stay away from it. I do notice that i never see any stretchmarks on the other girls on stage who i know also have stretchmarks, but theres no way for me to check myself from a distance and be sure o.O I also noticed that if a guy is sitting near the stage/blacklight all the scars on his face look lit up, like in those photos that highlights sun damage. Whats weird is they arent even that visible in normal lighting, something about scar tissue and black lights I guess?

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    I pray to God I am not screwed in the senese that my stretch marks show up under the blacklight......because I have them...a lot of them. It's never happened before...but there is a first time for everything.
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