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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    ^^^ Haha - that's amusing! Well, at least Anna Nicole did...
    That's true she did. Maybe I should have dated one of the old guys who were my customers and married them. I have to admit it did cross my mind once (met a rich old man) but he was also sexually active and the thought of having sex with him but having lots of money made me creep out.

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    ^^^ I have a half potential solution for you:

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    2.) Compare to the "Celebrities I've Met In the Club" thread
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    The dancer who thinks because we both are strippers that we have the same lot in life and that I should be able to relate to her crazy drug, pimp, run ins with the law type stories. Even though I never respond and try tune her out she is somehow convinced that I know and/or care about what she is talking about because I work at -" insert club name"-too

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    delusion:
    oh i don't do dances, let me know when you're ready to be real.

    real? what's real? i'll answer "aw baby, i real. a real stripper. in a real stripclub. you need to work on your understanding of reality."

    they usually shit bricks.


    also, the guys who tell us really outrageous lies, and think we believe them. maybe girls who are massively fucked up do, but most don't. if your wife was a crazy horny lesbian who fucks you nonstop, how did you even have the strength to get here?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    Another one: that many customers think the dancer is looking to be a trophy wife. I recently ran into an old friend (who knew I was a stripper). He asked me where my husband was. I asked him what husband and he said "all strippers end up with an old husband with money".
    yeah, that would probably explain why so many think that they just have to offer to "take care of" us. to hell with dances and stuff. why would i want to be my own person, when i could be someone else's captive? sounds fun.
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    Strippers really are from Venus. And you guys are from Mars. And if you don't believe all that, you are out there trying to get me.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by she sells sanctuary View Post
    delusion:
    oh i don't do dances, let me know when you're ready to be real.

    real? what's real?
    'I'm really working' ?

    They just don't get it, that it is a job. I didn't get it, when I was a puppy dog fresh out of college, that's for sure. But they need to get a clue if they are going to spend any time in the club!

    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer View Post
    Strippers really are from Venus. And you guys are from Mars. And if you don't believe all that, you are out there trying to get me.
    I'm not trying to get you--and I do think there are fundamental differences between men and women. The chemicals our bodies produce guarantee that, alone. Even without the massive social conditioning that starts from day 1 of your life.

    But I could never buy into that Men are from Mars shit. It always seemed a bit too contrived to me. Please don't take offense, I am not trying to argue with you.
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    ^ well, guys who say the "be real" stuff know what they're doing. they aren't out of college. jail maybe. they don't do it because they believe it. they do it because they think we're weak and they can break us.

    i've seen lots of newbs that were just clueless, and there's a huge difference in how they act. they'll say they don't do dances because that's what they've heard from other guys, and they don't want to break rank, or they heard that that's how to get a dancer to respect you so she'll want you to fuck her, even though they totally want a dance. it can be hard to get them to admit it, but once they give in, they're hooked.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Christyismyalias View Post
    ^^Good point. I hate when they say that stuff. Sometimes I am actually enjoying myself and then they piss me off with that shit. Then I get annoyed and don't want to give them a good dance b/c they are going to think Im full of it anyway.

    Same with my info. Name, where Im from, what I do outside of work, school, and so forth. Why even talk about it b/c they think im lying anyway. Grrrr.

    Exactly. I AM LYING and get so pissed they even ask. Like stupid asshole, do you really think I'm going to tell you my personal information???!!! Oh and here's my last name AND a map to my "other" place of employment and ta-da my house!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kat w View Post
    Haha this thread reminds me of a pretty funny YouTube video ...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75_gs...e_gdata_player
    That YouTube is so good, I put it on my Facebook page. Everyone loves it!

    But now we need more! Like ones that show the idiot DJ, bouncer, manager types in action. They are out there too.


    Oh and let's not forget the waitresses! I have run into some real basketcases there as well.

    Like the vapid waitress that complained to me for stopping a guy who was about to beat shit out of one of our customers. The guy and his friends eventually got thrown out because I stopped him and he didn't like it.

    "Those guys were Navy Seals. They just got back from deployment, and they are friends of the manager!" (they weren't that good of friends, either). What the fuck difference does that make? I am not letting them run rampage in my club.

    She pulled the same shit on me when I stopped some guys taking pictures in the club (strictly forbidden). The one guy was laying on top of the bar with his ass in the air like he was ready to get buttfucked, and wouldn't get down, and his friend tried to take a picture again right after I stopped him the first time. I threw them out. She came running up all snotty, like I had done something wrong, telling me they were friends with the bartender, one of them managed another club in town, etc.

    I don't give a fuck, doesn't mean they can do whatever they feel like in this club, especially after I tell them to stop.

    I know you all have seen the waitresses that think they are/want to be dancers, giving the guys free lapdances when they bring them drinks, etc. We don't get that in my club here, but I have seen it elsewhere plenty of times.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post

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    But I could never buy into that Men are from Mars shit. It always seemed a bit too contrived to me. Please don't take offense, I am not trying to argue with you.
    You really aren't because I was just kidding.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    agreed with the delusional bouncer statement....
    Just because I'm new to YOUR club, doesn't mean I'm STOOOPID. Like I'm going to give you my real number and 'holla' at you....(what grown man says 'holla' anyway?)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    ^^^ Haha - that's amusing! Well, at least Anna Nicole did...
    I think her husband got the last laugh, so to speak.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    ^^^ I have a half potential solution for you:

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    3.) Scheme to meet





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    Plus if you travel, they ALWAYS think the club actually helped you out by either driving you there ( yes I've heard this hundreds of times ... ) or by a combo of driving you there and then paying for your hotel. I kind of hate to be the one providing the "this is how clubs work" education but I've done it many times because I think it's important that customers know about the work it takes to get to places and that we pay clubs to work there. I don't do it in a pity way but if they say stuff like that I do set them straight..
    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    Customers are also often delusional in thinking that house dancers get an hourly wage! They often feel they can just come in, watch for free without buying dances or tipping on stage, because they think the clubs are paying us.

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    It's not really a delusion but it also drives me crazy when customers say stuff like " so are you working the circuit " ? I guess they think all clubs are friends and there is a rotation of a solid sort. I just couldn't even get through one time trying to tell a customer that I just go places even though they are not part of an organized "curcuit" of clubs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    It's not really a delusion but it also drives me crazy when customers say stuff like " so are you working the circuit " ? I guess they think all clubs are friends and there is a rotation of a solid sort. I just couldn't even get through one time trying to tell a customer that I just go places even though they are not part of an organized "curcuit" of clubs.
    Yes or the other one "hey do you know so and so from that other club". Apparently some customers think all dancers know each other.

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    Not to mention to delusion that traveling dancers would love company AFTER a shift which is AFTER a drive. Why isn't anyone smart enough to ask when work starts tomorrow and ask to take me to dinner BEFORE my shift so that I only have to get done up once?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post
    It really is a strange environment at times.
    You have essentially summarized why I spend little/no time in SCs. I see enough delusional behavior in the fitness/bbing world. There's a reason these two industries tend to have so much cross over, as they both attract delusional dysfunctional people. There's always jems among the crap of course, but it's hard not to be jaded at times. Good write up!
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    See, I'm not sure that the business attracts the delusional people, staff and customers alike, so much as it is an environment that fosters delusional thinking in a big way. I suppose you could make a case either way; from what I've seen I'd go with environment, but it does attract some strange people too--especially in Florida lol.


    Oh here's a small example of customer delusion, the guys who think you're going to bust your ass finding some strange song for them for no money at all, or one fucking dollar maybe. Sometimes they stand there waiting for amazing periods of time to see if you are looking, or if you have found it, or they keep coming back asking long after anyone with any brains would have figured out I'm not going to fuck with it.

    If I am really busy, which is more often than not on my shifts most of the year, I don't waste much time being accommodating/humoring to these idiots, unless I know they are spending a lot of money on the girls maybe in which case it's a different story.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post
    See, I'm not sure that the business attracts the delusional people, staff and customers alike, so much as it is an environment that fosters delusional thinking in a big way. I suppose you could make a case either way; from what I've seen I'd go with environment, but it does attract some strange people too--especially in Florida lol.
    Chicken or the egg conversation is always there with such things, but the answer is probably both: it attracts a personality type then fosters the behavior.

    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post
    Oh here's a small example of customer delusion, the guys who think you're going to bust your ass finding some strange song for them for no money at all, or one fucking dollar maybe. .
    Delusional: I get emails constantly from people who think I will figure out for them a personal diet, workout plan, and supplements, because they took their valuable time to ask. I either ignore them (if their email is rude) or respond nicely that I don't have the time to figure out individuals programs (for free no less) and I do have many free articles, and several paid programs, etc. on my sites.

    Response, is more often then not an insult of what a jerk I am, etc, etc, which always makes me regret having responded in the first place.

    I'm always happy to help people were I can (as members here have experienced) by giving advice, directing people to resources, etc, but random emails from strangers asking for a personalized plan for free? How delusional is that???!
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