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    Duh Ugh!! What's the deal??

    I've been dancing for 10 years and I recently moved to a new state with my family. The plan was that I was NOT going to dance any longer. Well, we are facing financial issues and I need to get back to work and he is very supportive of that. Always has been. No drama there. However, I thought I was done with this chapter of my life and every time I get ready to go to work I talk myself out of it I feel I truly am over the lying, and manipulating and in transferrance to becoming a bigger better me. I rationally get that while in transition sometimes we have to still do the things that pay the bills. But this is killing me and getting a "normal" job that pays crap and takes my time away from my family doesn't sound to wonderful either. HOW do I get my brain wrapped around this mental block Im having on getting my ass to work!!!! Has anyone else dealt with this type of crossroads in our business??!! Any advice? Things that got you through it? Thanks!!

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    Default Re: Ugh!! What's the deal??

    You need to have some sort of accountability to motivate you. Either get a written schedule from the club manager for the first week, or take a strip trip somewhere. The strip trips are nice because they keep you focused, & if people call wanting to do something fun you don't get distracted.
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    Default Re: Ugh!! What's the deal??

    a strip trip? I haven't heard of that. =)

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    ^^^ Strip trip is when you go on like a working vacation. You go to another city for like a week to a month & focus on working w/o all the distractions.
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    I vote yes on plan strip trip.

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