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    Duh my ex and his new girlfriend friended me on facebook

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    Last edited by Athenathefabulous; 02-25-2011 at 03:04 AM.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Last edited by Athenathefabulous; 02-25-2011 at 03:04 AM.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Okay, I had to go see what she looked liked and OMG....(I will be nice)...she's just, um...ISN'T attractive at all.

    Looking from her profile, it seems like right after she changed her status to "in a relationship" she became friends with you.
    and it's seems kinda weird to me how she comments on your photos/status' more than anyone else.

    I think it's one of those things that she was curious about his past and wanted to see if she "measures up" to you...(which obviously, she doesn't).....and now she wants to appear like the "cool new girlfriend" who's totally fine with ex-girlfriends.

    I really don't know, but it's fucking weird to blurt out being kidnapped and sold for crack....wtf?!

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    Seems odd to me how he MSGs you first, then strangly his GF following. Even though you may not have feelings for him, he does for you and he told you. I think its best just to delete them both and move on. All he is doing you is dragging you backwords, and his girlfriend is showing jealousy signs already (by stalking) your profile. Even if you remain friends with them, the gf might get worse and your ex could move forward to you, isn't a good sign.

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    I say just delete her, and not him. Doesn't seem worth the drama.

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    ^ Isn't that suppose to be the other way around?

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    I agree...not worth the drama..

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    Here's how it sounds to me:

    You broke up with him, he didn't get over you then he dated a girl who hurt him more and probably didn't measure up to you in his eyes (and in general). So, after he got out of an unsuccessful relationship he went looking for something that reminded him of the gf he never got over, aware or unaware of that as he may be. So he found New Girlfriend. I reckon he mentioned you to her and perhaps she felt threatened by the image of you he still holds and wanted to see what you're like for herself. Now she's probably trying to push some supah dupah FB friendship with you to put herself at ease and to show her bf what a cool chick she is, look she's friends with his ex from high school!
    Your ex still having feelings for you after 4 years is not THAT shocking to me. Nor the fact that he thinks you're still the same. In his mind you ARE the same, he thinks about you like you were in your relationship, and the fact you didn't communicate for so long is just helping that.
    I admire your patience. If a new gf of my ex from many years ago, with whom I'm not in contact for a long time, added me on FB, no way I'd accept that friends request, I'd just think it's creepy and stalkerish. And after her posts (mentioning kidnapping and raping casually on someone's FB wall is too much for me, but some people are really socially unadapted and have no idea that's awkward and unnecessary and it doesn't help if they're stupid) I wouldn't be comfortable with having her as a friend on FB anymore.
    If you wanna stay friends with your ex...don't know. If she would continue commenting, I would probably do what BuffyLovR says, delete her from my friends list and tell him you weren't comfortable with her commenting on your stuff. If he can handle it, great, if he can't, lose him too. Why the drama?

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    I'm going with the answer "remove her from your friends list" for five. LOL Seriously though, this girl isn't your friend. You've never met her, don't actually have anything currently in common with her, & it's not like you are running some sort of fan page. She did her snooping, now she's just being immature. Actually, if it were me I might even message her before deleting her so that you can let her know you were willing to let her snoop, but she crossed the line into immature disrespect.

    On your ex himself, I don't really see any reason why you would need to be friends with him. Again, you aren't the same person & neither is he. What he loved about you may not be anything close to what you are today, he's taken anyhow, & you obviously lost interest in him already.

    I say wish them both all the happiness in the world, be done with them, & maybe just say hello to him at your 10 year high school reunion.
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    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Their facebook pages please!

    Lets step on the gas and shift this mutha into overtroll!

    They don't know the kinda posse you have.

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    Can't you add them to a different group that doesn't get to read your updates?

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    lol. i'd keep her around for the entertainment. i know that's kinda drama-ish, but then again it gets boring between cam breaks.

    i agree with everyone else about the issues the new girl has.

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    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    If you don't have kids by him he needs to be out of your life now.

    otherwise if your crazy like me, string him along for bullshit talking to him and his new girl, make him think he's going to get some good nookie from you again, send 'hey baby' and 'it was great seeing you this week baby' messages on his facebook, so the new girl can see and get hell of jealous! if she ask what's going on say 'ask your man that!' (own the suspense^_^) then cut all contact with them and move on.

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    You sure have a high tolerance for nosy idiots. The girl is obviously obsessed that she has to stick her nose in your business.

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    I can't believe that girl was talking about your nether-regions! Seriously, after looking at everything they really don't have much class.
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    HA! Chris dated a an *ahem* significantly thicker goth chick with a unique nose. I like to think he's upgraded

    she wants to be a voyeur let her be a voyeur
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    Dude she is fugly!!!!! OMFG!
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    ^^^ Right?! Not to mention she totally set herself up...
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    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    That bitch is fucking psycho!
    Wow...!

    an ugly ass psycho...I've really never seen someone as ugly as her.
    This picture reminds me of her soooo much! :

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    That bitch is fucking psycho!
    Wow...!

    an ugly ass psycho...I've really never seen someone as ugly as her.
    This picture reminds me of her soooo much! :
    Sorry hon, but I have the gold medal for fugly exes on this one.......just ask Kylea. I made her tummy hurt from laughing so hard last night.
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    I am lol'n so hard right now. She actually posted on facebook that she was an escort and stripper.. ? That's the part that got to me. Yes he sure got the winner!

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