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    so this guy was a regular customer who used to buy 3 or 4 dances whenever he came to see me. For a few months he always bought drinks and dances and now he stopped spending completely. Now when he comes in he expects me to sit with him all night and gets annoyed when I ask him for dances, he thinks he's my best friend. So I try to ignore him but he walks by when I'm sitting with a customer or gives me dirty looks. I'm so annoyed I wish he would stop coming in. Should I keep ignoring it or what could I say to him I've been talking to him for months I don't get it.

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    Ask him what his understanding is of why you are there, & how you're compensated for working.

    I guarantee it will be a good laugh!

    Remind him that you don't get paid an hourly wage, & you have a certain number of hours to make money for bills.

    Then say "You wouldn't want me to lose my _____, _____, & ____... would you?" (bat eyelashes) "Good, then I'm going to get back to work!"

    He'll get the idea.

    I'd almost bet money that he read one of those "How to pick-up a stripper" websites.
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    Ugh been there. I just totally ignore the guy if I can't get any money out of him. Men don't understand strippers.

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    Been there too. I just make it well known I am there to make money, and I don't mind sitting for a drink or a song or two but other than that I need to be compensated. Ask him if he would like to go to work for free?

    I could care less if they think I am a money-hungry bitch - in fact, that works better!

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    Lol @ him giving you dirty looks.. reminds me HS haha.
    Seriously just ignore him, whenever you do have free-time or when its dead and he's there. Go up to him for laughs, ask him wether is he done being jealousy and ready to go to the VIP. If he says, yes then great, if no, then ignore and move on - no need to be wasting time. He's nothing more than money and he should realize that!

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    Quote Originally Posted by jasmine22 View Post
    so this guy was a regular customer who used to buy 3 or 4 dances whenever he came to see me. For a few months he always bought drinks and dances and now he stopped spending completely. Now when he comes in he expects me to sit with him all night and gets annoyed when I ask him for dances, he thinks he's my best friend. So I try to ignore him but he walks by when I'm sitting with a customer or gives me dirty looks. I'm so annoyed I wish he would stop coming in. Should I keep ignoring it or what could I say to him I've been talking to him for months I don't get it.
    regular in love that thinks he is special. sigh
    don't even ask him anymore just ignore. he gives you dirty looks while with a customer? when you have a chance go over to him and say hey i noticed you seemed upset when i was over there are you ready for a dance.
    if he says no, say oh ok sorry i have to go work now let me know when you are ready. smile and walk away. he will get the hint.
    do NOT let these guys make you feel guilty. really? 3 or 4 dances a night does not a regular make.
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