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    I did a search on this topic, but so many irrelevant posts came up that I figured I'd start a new one.

    Does anyone have tips on hustling them? My main problem is that I have no idea how to respond when they tell me what they do--I only know one guy in the military in my personal life and I have nothing to talk about with him anyway. You can't exactly say, "Oh really! how was Iraq!?" I know nothing about the differences between the sections of the military, except the Infantry I guess, and that's even worse because it's like "Hey, how was dealing with death all the fucking time!?" Last night a guy told me he was in the infantry and showed me a tattoo of the names of all his friends who died. I was just like, "Yeah... That's a tattoo you'll never regret I guess!" It was horrible. Plus, you never know if they love what they do or if they have PTSD or something terrible, so I always feel like I'm walking on eggshells.

    So yeah, any advice on establishing rapport? I have nothing against them but they're one the group that I'm absolutely clueless about, and they can have some of the most money.

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    90% my customers are Military dudes. If they are just back from deployment they spend good amount. My converstation turns around my nationality because i am foreigner. Also they love to talk about football and video games. When i tell them i play video games which it is true i love games .. they are interested in too much. Just tell games like Modern warfare , Halo REACH, Red Alert...etc. just get lil bit knowledge about it thats it! Sometimes i ask about Iraq too after that i add" i ll entartein u hunney dont worry about it". Pretty much they travel, loves sports and football games and sexy girls off course... i focuse those type of things because in real life they really cant get any girl easily.... it is easy to get them for me unless someone is really crazy asshole

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    I'm always a bit cautious about them, because most of the military guys I've met at work have been a bit messed up in their head. They come across as really nice and friendly but then start telling these weird stories and try to get my pity. I've had several guys tell me how their families and wives have died which later turn out to be a complete lie. I try to get emotionally as little as possible involved with them, so it doesn't affect me too much, but once I had a girl doing a double dance with him and he almost made her cry with his sob stories which were all made up. They've got money, yeah, but they can also be very manipulative. Maybe I've just come across the weirdos, but that's my experience.

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    I start with 'Oooh that's like the sexiest job ever!!!' then treat them like any other customer. I guess I never ask anything deep about their work, but I wouldn't with anyone. Bring up the positive, ask if they get many holidays - thats an easy direction to go in cause you can then ask them where they go, what they do, where they'd like to go....

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    I married one and dated another one. both of them I met in the club. They were closet bisexuals with nasty cocaine addictions. Do what I do, take the money and run as quickly as possible lol.

    They love tattoos.

    Sigh, they are such hardbodies. Fantastic fucks too. We used to have orgies all the time. I also dated a female E-5 that I met for a couple of months until her ex husband ratted us out fucking prick.

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    My experience with military guys is that once they start talking about their war experience, they become too sad and melancolic, the last thing they want to do then is go for a dance. I try to keep the topic very light, saying stuff like "omg I love a man in uniform that's SO hot and masculine! You must get a lot of girls right?"
    I had quite a few experiences where the guy just had too much on his chest and talked in detail on how his friends died while in Afganistan etc... My stripper self wanted to leave but my human self couldn't stop him from talking because he seemed in such despair. Anyway, kinda killed the mood so I try as best as I can not go to down that path!

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    Yeah, change the subject. Steer the conversation AWAY from deployment or the action they've seen. Maybe try the air-head approach like Jewel21 said: "Ooooh, I love men in uniform, you must get so many girls..." And they WILL try to play you, cause they know a lot of people don't know how to react to the sob stories. My dad was a pilot, I know all about enlisted guys.

    Also, a failsafe: get them drunk. REALLY drunk. Then they kinda shut up and get a little looser with the spending.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Purrfect View Post
    I'm always a bit cautious about them, because most of the military guys I've met at work have been a bit messed up in their head. They come across as really nice and friendly but then start telling these weird stories and try to get my pity. I've had several guys tell me how their families and wives have died which later turn out to be a complete lie. I try to get emotionally as little as possible involved with them, so it doesn't affect me too much, but once I had a girl doing a double dance with him and he almost made her cry with his sob stories which were all made up. They've got money, yeah, but they can also be very manipulative. Maybe I've just come across the weirdos, but that's my experience.
    this. especially if you aren't near a major base. the ones who've spent money on me haven't really talked about their service. the ones who talk are usually just assholes looking to waste my time. they capitalize on people being patriotic.

    you got to realize that a lot of the people who join the military do it because they're too fucked up to do anything else. especially since we went to war and the military lowered their standards. if a guy says he's military and starts jerking you around, he's probably just a jerk, and there really isn't a hustle that works.
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    Meh, I never had much luck with military guys. So many are lonely and they don't get paid very much. NOT a good combo. They want to talk your ear off all night then make your their gf. I pretty much ask for a dance right away, then leave if they don't say yes. With all due respect to their difficult jobs, I don't want to get sucked into a pity party while I'm trying to work and so many of them are NEEDY for an outlet. I'm not there to be a free shrink.

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    All I gotta say is that Navy guys are the best.




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    Like some1 mentioned they love to try and make you their girl, but it seems to me a lot of them love women of color i.e blk,hispanic,asian...any color,lol they just like color,from my experience anyways. They make a lot of homosexual jokes too which like some1 also mentioned makes me think most are Bi. I just tell them oooooh I love a guy with guns and how badass they are,or strong,brave,and masculine. They have big egos and they like them stroked. I always play the over sexed kitten role with them,I think most of em' are horndogs anyway lol. Oh and lastly don't let them get in your head like some1 also mentioned they like to play sick weird mind games too.
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    I usually wind up fucking them or marrying them... -_-
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    Quote Originally Posted by she sells sanctuary View Post
    this. especially if you aren't near a major base. the ones who've spent money on me haven't really talked about their service. the ones who talk are usually just assholes looking to waste my time. they capitalize on people being patriotic.

    you got to realize that a lot of the people who join the military do it because they're too fucked up to do anything else. especially since we went to war and the military lowered their standards. if a guy says he's military and starts jerking you around, he's probably just a jerk, and there really isn't a hustle that works.
    Most r assholes. They go out to sea and come back so much that many end up divorced, cheating, or cheated on. or else they r young and naiive. Many r very tight on money and come nto the clubs but rarely spend. There is alot of military around here. They seem willing to spend on alcohol but not dancers.

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    Same way you hustle any other guy, talk about sex
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    its why you go for officers. lieutenants make like 40k but they get above captain they bank.



    Quote Originally Posted by Zabrina View Post
    Meh, I never had much luck with military guys. So many are lonely and they don't get paid very much. NOT a good combo. They want to talk your ear off all night then make your their gf. I pretty much ask for a dance right away, then leave if they don't say yes. With all due respect to their difficult jobs, I don't want to get sucked into a pity party while I'm trying to work and so many of them are NEEDY for an outlet. I'm not there to be a free shrink.

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    Like some1 mentioned they love to try and make you their girl, but it seems to me a lot of them love women of color i.e blk,hispanic,asian...any color,lol they just like color,from my experience anyways.
    totally agree with this. several of the military custies who've been assholes to me have spent pretty good money on black girls. other races too, but esp black girls. but a lot of them have just been cheap/broke assholes. if you're not white, it's probably more worth it for you to talk to them than it would be for a white girl.
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    Tonight I had a young military guy who had just flown in from Afghanistan. He was nice, but dropped the occasional war talk in the conversation, but he was tipping me well by the stage, so I thought what the heck.

    I got him to the VIP, talked, gave him a massage, etc.. then he fell asleep. I woke him up in a few minutes and told him that his time is up. Then he slapped my ass (I don't mind it, but it wasn't the naughty sexy slap but rather a violent one) and told me that he has killed more people that I've ever met. And then he apologised and was all frustrated that he felt so relaxed with me that it actually freaked him out, as he is used to being alert to make sure no one is shooting him. Our time was up and I didn't want to stay with him, so we left VIP and I went on the stage. He came by the stage, tipped again, was really nice, and then, out of the blue: "You're never been shot while you're on the pole, have you?"

    Left me quite speechless, I must say.

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    I am a bit blown away by all the rather negative comments about military men. I am married to a military man. I have had plenty of customers who were military. Most of my family was military or is still. Just because a person joins the military does not mean they are too fucked up too do anything else. When I first started dancing in Chicago all my customers were military except for a few through out the week. I am a petite white girl. Not of color. To be honest they just want some attention from a woman. Let them talk while you dance. Just try to make them feel comfortable and keep them happy, after all this is a service industry. I'm not saying they are all saints but saying most are fucked up to join in the first place is dead wrong. Also the military has raised their standards in the last few years. I just find that seeing people say these things about the military employees to be rather offensive.

    They put their lives on the line in a really dangerous job. That doesn't make them fucked up. There are fucked up people in all kinds of jobs. Profiling them by their job isn't right.

    Anyways.

    Hustling them is really easy. Be sweet and kind, listen well and don't ask too many questions about over seas. For starters they can't talk about it all anyways. Secondly they may start feeling uncomfortable, you don't want that. These guys will go a few ways. They will either get a dance right away and be done with it. Or have you hang out a little and get a bunch of dances. And my faves are the ones that have you hang out for ten 15 minutes and then get a few hours in the CR. Sure there are jerks in the military, but what career field doesn't have jerks? Just have to know what kind of person you are dealing with, not what they particularly do for a job.





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    here is a thread that is helpful.

    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthr...light=military
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    The majority r assholes I am from a huge navy army airforce area maybe even the largest n the world the last time i checked--The minority r good people the majority r selfish pricks who just want a piece of ass or someone to listen to them for free.

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    Thanks to everyone who responded, but especially those of you who reaffirmed that most of them should be treated the same way as any other customer, or to say something positive and avoid it afterward. I wrote this in a moment of frustration after watching a couple of girls make bank off two young military guys after they had each taken a dance with me, so obviously something was lacking, and I think it was probably my hesitant responses to military-related statements. In better news, tonight a military guy tipped me very well

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    Quote Originally Posted by Purrfect View Post
    Tonight I had a young military guy who had just flown in from Afghanistan. He was nice, but dropped the occasional war talk in the conversation, but he was tipping me well by the stage, so I thought what the heck.

    I got him to the VIP, talked, gave him a massage, etc.. then he fell asleep. I woke him up in a few minutes and told him that his time is up. Then he slapped my ass (I don't mind it, but it wasn't the naughty sexy slap but rather a violent one) and told me that he has killed more people that I've ever met. And then he apologised and was all frustrated that he felt so relaxed with me that it actually freaked him out, as he is used to being alert to make sure no one is shooting him. Our time was up and I didn't want to stay with him, so we left VIP and I went on the stage. He came by the stage, tipped again, was really nice, and then, out of the blue: "You're never been shot while you're on the pole, have you?"

    Left me quite speechless, I must say.

    Wow. Wow. Fucking wow. And this here is why military guys get "all these negative comments" it fucking kills me how people hate to be stereotyped or hate it because they know a handful of people who are of the same said stereotype,when really these people put it on themselves. C'mon stop being such a fucking american! Lol a sterotype is a stereo type because of group of people have rightfully put one in place and those "opposite of the rest" people you know are a minority. Damn when did strippers become so easily offended.
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    Military guys are THE BEST! They tip well, they get dances and CR's. If I know they are in the building I get the DJ to play music out of my file that I know gets them pumped up. (Bad Company- Five Finger Death Punch gets em' every time.) I always sincerely thank them for their service, whether I believe in the shit or not is irrelevant. Stroke their ego, crank up your charm and you got em' hooked. I think they are the easiest custys. Tattoos help if you have them, most military guys have at least 1 so that usually gives you something to talk about as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MOP View Post
    Wow. Wow. Fucking wow. And this here is why military guys get "all these negative comments" it fucking kills me how people hate to be stereotyped or hate it because they know a handful of people who are of the same said stereotype,when really these people put it on themselves. C'mon stop being such a fucking american! Lol a sterotype is a stereo type because of group of people have rightfully put one in place and those "opposite of the rest" people you know are a minority. Damn when did strippers become so easily offended.
    That is like saying all stripper put it on themselves being stereotyped as all drugged out whores. So before you go off on a rant remember where people put us in the adult industry and what we have to deal with on a daily basis. I sure as hell don't like being stereotyped as some druggie whore because I know I'm not. While I know that they do indeed exists, that does not automatically make them strippers, cam girls or let alone anyone in the adult industry. A druggie whore could and is anyone in any job. Just as is a complete jerk exists in any job. Also, I for one will never stop "being suck a fucking american." Thanks. And there is a minority every where in every stereotype. Instead of us focusing on the assholes that we have met, even those in the military, maybe we should be focusing on the good ones that tip well and spend money...

    The OP was asking about hustling military guys, not their stereotype. So on that note....
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    i dunno, i've generally had good experiences with military guys. i just do the whole "omg a man in uniform is really hot." i'm also generally a lot sweeter and pleasant with military guys...being an aggressive bitch (which is how i generally am) doesn't work as well ime. i'm kinda surprised to see such bad experiences. they were generally respectful, got multiple dances and tipped (sometimes well, sometimes not...but still tipped). and out of any other group of guys, if they didn't have money, they used the atm...and this occurred a lot more with military guys than with a guy the same age). occasionally got the "i'm in the military do i get a discount/free dance" but a lot less compared to the amount other military men have spent.
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