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    I was at a club last night, and spent most of my time and money on this one girl who I was just completely smitten with. I could could see myself becoming one of her reg's...

    The time spent with her consisted of some time in the VIP, (where I told her she could sit and chat, or dance, her choice) and LD's.

    I am a very respectful customer, I kept my hands to myself and enjoy my time with her for what it was. I ask no personal questions, and have no allusions of seeing her outside the club. She tells me several times that I should come in more often.

    All that being said, at the end of the night I asked if she had any schedule so I could come see her again, she says no. I ask if she will be working the next night, and she says she may be at one of two clubs, which are about 40 minutes apart...

    So WTF gives? I am *trying* to guarantee you a relatively quick and easy $200 - $300 bucks for any day in the next week. With the opportunity for it to become a semi regular thing. Why are you making it so hard for me to give you my money?

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    She isn't organized. Your best option is to give her your contact info w/ multiple options (phone/email/etc) & ask her to let you know when she figures out what she's doing. Make sure your phone accepts blocked numbers since she might call from one.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    She isn't organized.
    You know, I never even considered it could be something that simple... occam's razor I guess...

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    ^^^ Not being organized is probably one of the top faults of most strippers. I can be organized, but I'm not on a schedule I literally may not know what I'll be doing or where I will be at until the day of or minutes before.
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    It could have been that was her sales pitch for the evening : to make you think there was some sort of connection that would be capable of repeating itself when she has no desire to cultivate regulars. They are certainly in the minority but there are girls not interested in regulars according to posters here. Personally, almost all the dancers I know prefer the "regular" route but there were a few who wanted to just go to work and deal only with people with whom they weren't familiar, even if that familiarity was confined strictly to the club..
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    Maybe she doesnt like regulars or maybe its a sales technique. You are disappointed right? You maybe even now more than ever want to find a way to see her again... I personally wouldnt use it as a technique but some girls use the same kind of games you play dating for regulars.

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    It wasn't a technique, she just didn't know what she was going to be doing the next night. Some strippers don't have a consistent schedule or a lot of goals for their stripping, they just come in and work as needed. Its not exactly the greatest strategy for profit maximization, but it worked for me considering I had other things going on and other income streams.

    Better that she was honest than told you to show up somewhere and she decided (for her own reasons) not to work that night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TeddyKGB View Post
    You know, I never even considered it could be something that simple... occam's razor I guess...
    Its as true with work for some dancers as well.

    If I need 40 dancers for a party I have to book 80, because even though they will ALL say they are coming half of them won't show up on the night in question.

    Now this is a known private party with an upscale guest list, with a great reputation for dancers making money, yet half will decide they'd rather go out with their GF's that night because they've made enough $$$ that week. It doesn't matter to this type of dancer that she made a commitment to be somewhere else. It's all no planning and how she feels at the moment [side note: the few SW dancers who work the party have always shown up if they said they were attending. So kudos to the women of SW for being professional].

    I accept it as the nature of the business and leave it at that.
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    I wouldn't read too much into it. She may have a lot of other things going on in her life and simply doesn't know yet if she will be working or not.

    I have a fav now who is a single mother with a kid and she also takes classes. She texts me to let me know when she is working. If it fits into my schedule and I am in the mood I go see her. Otherwise I don't. Simple.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TeddyKGB View Post
    I ask if she will be working the next night, and she says she may be at one of two clubs, which are about 40 minutes apart...

    So WTF gives? I am *trying* to guarantee you a relatively quick and easy $200 - $300 bucks for any day in the next week. With the opportunity for it to become a semi regular thing. Why are you making it so hard for me to give you my money?
    So let me get this straight. You wanted her tell you exactly where she was going to be in 24 hours and you think she was giving you a hard time by being honest with you and saying she wasn't sure? OK, got it!
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    Classic sign that she doesn't see the job as a business.

    Also, perhaps it isn't her hustle style to accrue regulars. She may just not have experience with them. Girls who do accrue regulars tend to dance at a certain club on the same day every week, making it easier for regulars to follow.

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    I don't like regulars. I do what I can to suck them dry while I have them in my palm, but make no attempt to see them again. I hate it when guys are like "I'll come see you every Wednesday, okay?" because it means I have to be there every Wednesday or deal with his bitching and moaning. What if I have a test to study for? What if I have a second job and I'm too tired to go in? What if I'm legitimately sick, or have made enough money that week and don't want to go in?

    Sorry, I know it sounds rude and jaded, but that's how I work, and I know of other girls who work like this too. Still, a lot of girls do like regulars, it's possible she just didn't know when she was working next.



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    maybe she doesn't want a regular because regulars turn into stalkers. she doesn't know that you're respectful and have a realistic expectation of her. most regulars will start by keeping their hands off and spending a lot of money. then they'll start spending less money and expecting more. eventually they stop spending money completely and want to see the girl outside the club and date her and sleep with her. sounds like she just wanted to nip it in the bud. possibly not a smart move on her part, but maybe she makes so much money that she doesn't really care.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    So let me get this straight. You wanted her tell you exactly where she was going to be in 24 hours and you think she was giving you a hard time by being honest with you and saying she wasn't sure? OK, got it!
    No, she had just told me, for the second time that night, that I should come in to see her more often. I was just trying to figure out when/how I could make that happen.

    I didn't think she was giving me a hard time, I was just curious as to why she would say something like that and not have any general information as to when/where she was working in the upcoming week.

    I have a bad tendency to read into things too much and over analyze conversations. That's pretty much what was going on the night I started the thread.

    (yes I know I am late in responding to this, I have not been back to the boards since I made the original post)

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    $200-300 is not a reg that I would bend over backwards for. Sorry to say.

    The only regulars that have my schedule spend a lot.

    $200-300 is a lot of money for some guys but for most strippers it not anything to get all excited about.

    Sorry. That's the truth.




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    ^ Though wouldn't you rather have the $2-300 than not have it at all? If all you had to do was tell the person your schedule?

    The only issue I'd have with that is if I didn't like having to deal with regulars (who are, by nature, higher maintenance). I personally like having them, but I know girls who don't.

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    You are making something out of nothing. She was being honest with you. Where I work, we don't have any schedules. We can come and go as we please. The majority of my coworkers work at damn near every other club within a 50 mile radius. When they hear about a big event or big guest going to a club, then they work that night at that club. Some girls will even come to my club and then leave if they hear about a better event going on elsewhere. Not every girl works at just one club and has a set choice of days that she will come in for. It's better that she told you the truth that she might not be there, instead of having you go there and not seeing her. If you want to see the girl more than you should just frequent that club more. If God forbid you go there one night and *gasp* she's not there, I'm sure there will be someone else to keep you entertained.

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    Just tell her, id love to regularly spend hundreds of dollars on you, and give her your cell#/card if you have one and tell her to text you next time she is working, that simple and worth a try, dont make it a big deal most of these girls work when they need the money, most dont have normal schedules..

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