Two days ago the most horrific thing happened to me. I got in a huge car accident with another car and it was my fault. My insurance covered the other vehicle but my rates are going to skyrocket. My car is totaled and that is not covered. So I have to buy a new car and get ready for my new and improved insurance rates. I was hurt pretty bad I have a concussion and some internal bleeding and burns from my car because it caught on fire. Long story short, I'm in a really fucked up situation financially. Which I already was anyways because I'm a full time student and I commute to work and to school. This is just the icing on the cake to a lot of bad luck recently. One of my hugest concerns is that I had 4k in my savings but I loaned it to my friends almost a year ago for their house payment. I asked for it back before my accident and now I REALLY need it back. However they are dancing around it, avoiding me and giving me excuses for why they can't even pay SOME of it back now.
I know we are all stressed out and we each have our individual problems and my problem is no big deal compared to some people.. However I feel like because I'm in such a horrible situation, I've become desperate for money. This is never a good thing, no matter what profession you are in. I have called a couple friends who have always asked me to do private shows for them.. I always decline because I don't want to mix work and friends but I need the money. I'm just scared I'm going to start fudging my morals because of this. It's a lot of money. I have no car. I have no help. I just want to know if YOU have ever been in a situation like this, desperate, losing hope.. and how did you manage to get through it? Or even if you haven't been in a position like this, how would you deal with it?
I'm in no physical condition to do anything but I really just want to work.I regret not saving more. I regret always giving out money to my friends. I regret loaning out that lump sum.
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I regret not saving more. I regret always giving out money to my friends. I regret loaning out that lump sum.

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I'm sorry about your situation.



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