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    Default Dealing with an annoying regular?

    I have a regular that takes me to VIP once a week and spends a lot of money on me, but he's been driving me crazy. He's nice, but he's very clingy and always talks about wanting to do things with me outside of the club. He'll say he wants to fall asleep next to me, watch movies together, go out together... and he'll go on and on the entire time we're at the club. He doesn't have a wife or girlfriend, and he says he's never been on a date in his life, so I guess he just has issues.

    Anyway, he really wants to go out to a fancy restaurant this Friday, and I *did* already agree to this... (arrrgh!!!), but I really want to back out and just never see him again. It's SO stressful to deal with his obsessiveness. He's a nice guy, and he spends money on me, but I feel like it's not worth it.

    Advice? I've never met with a regular outside of the club, and honestly, I'm scared to. I was thinking that I could just have some other friends/my boyfriend nearby at the restaurant, and get a ride home with them, but I don't know... ugh.

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    Default Re: Dealing with an annoying regular?

    Are you charging for the dinner? If he's not paying you be like shit I totally forgot my aunts birthday or some bullshit like that is coming up so I need to work tonight. He'll either let you back out or pay you. Keep business business. I wouldn't try to lose a good customer just because he's clingy it could be a lot worse. Be nice to the poor guy. Money is money.

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    Default Re: Dealing with an annoying regular?

    Yes be grateful you have him. Yes, regulars are usually annoying and clingy but they are also there when times get rough and slow.

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    Default Re: Dealing with an annoying regular?

    Regulars usually do have a shelf life, especially if they start seeing your relationship with them as a more romantic one (they think that they are special and dear to you), so weigh your options and tread carefully. Don't do anything you wouldnt be comfortable with and know that if they get hurt and stop seeing you, theres always the next regular out there waiting to be baited and hooked

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