this is probably going to sound a little conceited which is not my intent, i just need help or advice or a different perspective please... i work in a more upscale club and i carry myself as if i belong there. however, i notice there are 2 main types of girls, and then there's me. at our club, there are v.i.p. girls - the girls who act snobbish and do not dance out on the floor. in fact i rarely even see some of these girls on stage b/c it's pretty much a waste of time to rotate between the stages for 4-6 songs for maybe a total of 20-30$ tops! guys act like they are doing you a favor by bringing you a dollar and expecting a motorboat or pulling your g-string way to the side practically flashing the club for 100 pennies! or sending wifey up there with the dollar shoved in her cleavage so you can get it out with your mouth (i never never do that! that dollar bill is so filthy and i always whisper that too her so you knows why "i'm not being fun!") i feel like i am trying to remain classy and smile and thank them etc. while other girls put on a "better stage show" but i don't want to work that hard for a single dollar because i got it for just being me and i would still get the same 1 $ tip from the guy if i'm waving my va-j by his face or not. now let me go back to the other type of girls we have at the club... the hardworkers. these are the girls who are climbing on the guys laps during a floor tableside dance which is supposed to be NO contact. in fact, that is how we are supposed to upsell to the v.i.p. area for 1 song, because we are allowed to give an actual lap dance. now, this is where i start to get lost. i want and expect the same respect from the customers as the "snobby" from a customer. i have a harder time now because i feel like i am being too nice? if a guy asks for a dance i will always try to sell the v.i.p. dance but if he is adamant on the 20$ dance i comply and thank him and hope that his business created interest in another customer on the floor. i just feel like i am a big bore to the floor customers since i don't really want to sit on their lap if there is an open seat and they have not spend any money on me. i don't really feel like i should work for free because if you give it away for free they expect it for free. i always have a hard time asking for money either for just sitting there or for a generous tip after the dances. however, once i can get a man one-on-one in the VIP area, i can usually get him to buy another song or renew the room. i feel so fake though walking around the floor area, sitting down, going through the motions of the small talk, i guess in my mind, being nice and working a customer service angle but i cannot just create that "whatever-it-is" that makes them want me by selling myself. i cannot make him believe i want him unless he more or less initiates the interest or i do equally well when a group of guys comes in and they just "need an extra girl" once up there we have a great time but i am never ever the one looking for other girls to bring up to a room i sold. what gives?
and i say snobby as a generalization as these girls are usually very sweet, or have been so at least to me but they will pretty much not even blink a customer's way if they do not see potential. they will not take their clothes off for a menial amount of money. they do not circulate around the room or even smile often, but as soon as their money men for the night come in they wast no time bringing him upstairs and often stay up there all night until the club kicks out the other patrons and just keeps the spenders for the remainder of their room time.
i also respect the hustle of the girls who portray that fun, wanna party, i'm naked just give me money, will cut deals with the customers because our prices are so steep so at least they bring home some kind of money... even if they have to work twice as hard to leave with half as much as they could if they could get the guy upstairs. (although we know how frustrating it is to sell when the options go from 20$ - 1000$). i just charge the fair club price and always smile and thank them because i know it's alot of money they're already shelling out i would feel too greedy begging for a tip but i guarantee some of those girls are getting paid.
i feel like i'm being too wishy-washy.
i think maybe they think i don't want to be there but that is not the case. i love my job, i just don't like feeling worthless.
i really wish we could get some kind of customer feedback card or something to see how what we could have done to maybe make his sale or what we need to improve on since they're the one's we're having interaction with....
and i'm not trying to be judgemental of the other girls, i'm just trying to paint the picture of how things seem



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