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    Default Have you ever bought a dance for another guy?

    After a very passionate date a couple of weeks ago, I stopped at a regular SC to chill out. At the bar, I was asked by another man if I was in the service (I get asked that or cop a lot since I am tall, thin, in shape, clean looking, with short hair). He was with a stripper at the bar. It turns out that he is just back from Iraq. Obviously, I tell him my appreciation for his service.

    The club has no VIP. Somehow, the dancer who I think is the hottest looking there that night is talking with me, dancing, have a couple of drinks, more dancing, and talking. This involved me making an unplanned trip to the ATM. LOL. PL.

    At one point, the waitress shows up with two gin & tonics. I was drinking that and the stripper tried it and had started drinking it with me. So the waitress pointed out to me who had sent over the drinks: the Iraq vet. Pretty much, he had been watching the dancer, who was providing a very hot, yet clean, dance, dance for me. I assumed that this was his way of saying thanks to her. Her ass was a very fine asset.

    I gave the dancer money for a dance and tip and sent her over to him to thank him for his service and thoughtful consideration of a drink.

    Of course, he had her dance another time or two. She came back after that for some more conversation and dances.

    This was the first time that I have bought a dance for another guy.

    Have you ever bought a dance for another guy, or girl for Lopaw? Any good stories?

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    Default Re: Have you ever bought a dance for another guy?

    I've bought some dances for my customers but never a random guy no matter how friendly he might seem. And lopaw, ha, she gets her mileage and doesn't need a subsidy from me

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    Default Re: Have you ever bought a dance for another guy?

    I've danced many times when the dances are bought by other people. It could just mean fun between new friends , birthdays, other occasions. The most frequent occasion seems to be .... that's my BOSS .... dance for him ( and then they all hoot and holler while watchin' boss man get a dance). We have a lot of blue collar work crews where I usually go and that's their favorite thing - "embarrassing " their boss.

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    Default Re: Have you ever bought a dance for another guy?

    Attended a bachelor party at a SC once and bought a couple of dances for the groom.

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    No.

    I club alone; I don't care to risk the consequences of someone who doesn't know how a strip club works.
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    I think thats awesome of him doing that and you getting him a dance in return. It was respectful.

    I had guys who bought other guys (co-workers, friends) dances. Usually its for payback cause guy A did something for him, such as paying for drinks, did a favour, did work with him etc. But never just for the heck of it.

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    Default Re: Have you ever bought a dance for another guy?

    That was a really nice gesture, Redwolf

    I have bought many a dance for buddies/co-workers of mine when we were all out in a big group @ a SC for someone's birthday or bachelor party, or if a co-worker was leaving to take a new job. Other than that, no.

    I have tried several times to buy dances for the rare female co-worker that was brave enough to come along on one of those types of outings. But I have yet to have any of them actually accept it. Soooooo disappointed in my gender sometimes .


    Aww c'mon FBR - I'll buy you one if you buy me one !

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    lopaw, if FBR won't take you up on the offer, I should one of these days

    At my old bikini-bar stomping grounds it wasn't uncommon for regulars to buy dances for one another (this was a no-contact, $5 chair dance mind you). As far as laps, once I bought a dance for a random guy at the next table, as a means of getting the dancer's attention so she would dance for me next. The only other time was a couple years ago, on my birthday, when my 21yo cousin had eyes for a dancer but was low on cash. I gave him enough for a couple dances - he ended up with her phone #.
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    Nope, never. I don't even talk to other guys when I go to clubs. The last thing I'm going to do is buy them a dance.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw View Post

    Aww c'mon FBR - I'll buy you one if you buy me one !
    Is this kind of like "I'll show you mine if you show me yours?" Seriously, I'd probably make an exception for you in terms of buying a dance It's fun talking turkey with a woman who likes women as much as I do

    Hey, I have a fun siggy line for you. "SCJ Blue is a state of mind. Penes are optional".

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    I've seen it many times. Its kind of weird, but I'm getting paid either way. This is in regards to strangers buying each other dances from me. Friends and colleagues buying each other dances is completely standard. I buy my friends dances all the time.

    On at least one memorable occasion, I double booked two regulars that were both totally RIL over me. Instead of them freaking out and getting jealous, they became friends and spent a few hours taking turns paying me to dance for the other one. So weird, huh?

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    Maybe for a friend. Never for someone I don't know. I rarely go with friends now, in fact, when I do go, it has to be with someone that has proven themselves, for example, my buddy when I was in Vegas.

    Never go with a rank amateur, never ever. Its just too embarassing when they open their mouth and say the wrong thing
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    I've bought dudes drinks in bars for different reasons before... I suppose if the same situations happened in a SC I might send a dancer over. Little weird, but as long as I didn't stare at them while they got the dance I don't think its all strange.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoeUnCool View Post
    Never go with a rank amateur, never ever. Its just too embarassing when they open their mouth and say the wrong thing
    When I go with an "amateur", I just assume its gonna be a different type of trip than when I go alone. Kinda like when I take my nieces and nephews to eat at a restaurant.

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    I've bought one friend ... wingman for an evening on a Guys Night Out ... a couple dances to get him started.

    I had never had a lap dance when some complete stranger bought me a dance several years ago. Broke the ice for me, too. I've not stopped since.

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    I've considered buying friends of mine visiting the club dances with girls with whom I'm friendly but I have no desire to deal with the fallout if things don't go smoothly.
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    When the sailors & marines doc in NYC, they come in broke(sorry to say) in the club so sometimes I see regular customers who they don't know buy them dances or beer.

    Oh and recently, I saw someone buy a random stranger a dance bc it was his bday. My club has a restaurant, so he saw the lit bday cake brought to his table.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The_Oceans View Post
    lopaw, if FBR won't take you up on the offer, I should one of these days

    I look forward to it.
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    I have a friend that always manages to buy me dances with girls he knows I am not attracted to (we've hung out enough he knows what I go for) just to see my reaction.

    Backfired on him once though as one of the girls turned out to be one of the coolest people I've ever met, and is now a great (platonic) friend of mine outside the club ...

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    The first dance I bought was for someone else. I paid and tipped before the dance, after the dance I found out she shook him down for then she shook him down and made him pay for it as well.

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    Yes, for a buddy's birthday, bachelor party, a guy's first trip, the usual. .

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    I don't chat up other guys in the Strip club, some try to chat me up (WHY?? im not here to make friends dude..wtf) i end the convo asap, not interested in talking to other guys when im at the club buddy, but if i came across a vet and he was legit id buy him a dance $20 is just chump change, fuck it, welcome home!

    Plus with the amount of cash i like to blow at the SC i don't go with a wingman like some others do, for a bachelor party or Bday, that's fine but for a norm visit its useless, im in the VIP the entire time, i'm ridin' solo

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    I had one regular who bought dances for other guys all the time. Of course, he had won the Kentucky lottery a few years before (he also bought his friends, trucks, jetski's etc. Boy do I miss that one ) He was a bit odd actually....he was a leg man and was enamored with my little short legs, sorta in the worshipy way the footsie guys get. Odd duck to say the least.

    Had another who's boss bought him dances because the guy was so shy and was never was interested in the dancers, so the boss thought it was funny when he got drunk to tease him about having a crush on me and buy him dances. This is the young guy that taught me NEVER to believe a custie actually wants to date you. lol

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