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    Default Regular Wants to Give Me a Phone

    One of my regulars wants to give me a cell phone. I was trying to decide what I should do, should I take it? The phone would be on his plan so any and all calls I made would appear on his bill. Also I am wondering if with GPS technology it is a way for him to track down where I live. At first I thought it would be harmless and I told him I would accept, but I think this is another trick of his. He is devious. Any advice? The one post I found that was helpful went along the lines of work is work, home is home, I leave work at work, no talking on the telephone with a regular.

    I do like the guy but I feel as long as I am having to work as a stripper I need to maintain a strong boundary in order to protect myself and my sanity.

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    Default Re: Regular Wants to Give Me a Phone

    If he wanted to get you a pre-paid phone or something to contact you/find out when you were working... that would be fine (if you were willing to be annoyed (when the phone wasn't turned off. ) when you aren't working).
    But I, personally, would absolutely not accept a phone on a customers plan.
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    I wouldn't accept it. There are way too many strings attached. It sounds like how abusers control their victims under the guise that they are 'giving' her things that she should be grateful for. If this guy has seemed devious to you in the past, then you are likely correct about his intentions.

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    better to get your own cheap phone.. I have this thing about being stalked and being on a regs phone plan is a red flag to me. I had a phone from my parents once, got rid of it a week after getting it, cause they can track you down to the exact address and with alittle google work they find home phone numbers and such.. with a info site they can even find police records and family names. Before I go into rant mode I'm just going to repeat.. Get you own cheap, no contract, cell phone.

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    Hah. Would he pay you by the minute/txt or something?
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    Oh hell no. A phone isn't expensive. I have Boost with unlimited talk, text, and internet for $60 a month. That's 3 lapdances. You have to buy the phone with them because its month to month but you don't have to get a fancy one.

    He absolutely wants to keep tabs on you. The owner of a plan can see all call records and even texts exchanged. If he wants to get you a phone just for HIM....tell him you are already stuck with a contract with your existing carrier, and that you would rather give him a great time with dances for some extra dances or tip. Then just use a cheapie pay-as-you-go cell if he wants phone correspondance. Or hell, use Skype or Google voice, its free.

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    Don't txt him even if you get your own phone. If he wants to know when you are coming in you can get a twitter like I have and tweet your schedule. Txting is free conversation that isn't worth it most of the time. The only time it came close to paying off for me was a guy who always spent $400 an hour without any chatting up beforehand. He would text 30 mins before he came in on a whim at random times out of the year. Most of the time he texted I couldn't go in to work anyway, so it was useless.
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    I like cheap cells better, I tried twitter but I don't do the internet on my phone so it only gets updated at the end of the day. I never do last minute join ins so I would just tell them to enjoy themselves and hopefully next time I will be there to keep company. If they are expecting me to answer back the second they text I believe they don't understand the reason they got a phone number after spending 1500 between three visits.

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    Three words: Don't do it. This guys sounds pretty creepy...

    In the future look into Google voice if you really want to communicate with a reg. It's easier to regulate calls/texts/etc. and block someone if you have to.

    Just my experience.

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    Virgin Mobile offers a $25/month plan with unlimited texting, e-mail, internet and 300 minutes.

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    Thank you everyone for the great advice I am glad I joined this site. I never get good advice like this from the girls I work with.
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    ^Haha, it took me awhile to figure out that that smilie indicates that you're rolling your eyes (i.e. sarcasm). I used to think it was just innocently looking up at the sky....

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    Quote Originally Posted by sananeko View Post
    better to get your own cheap phone.. I have this thing about being stalked and being on a regs phone plan is a red flag to me. I had a phone from my parents once, got rid of it a week after getting it, cause they can track you down to the exact address and with alittle google work they find home phone numbers and such.. with a info site they can even find police records and family names. Before I go into rant mode I'm just going to repeat.. Get you own cheap, no contract, cell phone.

    YES... you never know what other technology this person may have their hands on... i know someone who owns a private investigation agency who could literally know anything about anyone within 5 seconds from his blackberry. obviously not everyone knows someone who owns a private investigation agency but i don't give out ANY personal information to ANYONE unless absolutely necessary. i wouldn't give out my height and weight and natural eye color if i didn't have to LOL

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    I agree with the other ladies. Don't accept it. Especially if you think there's the smallest chance he can use it to track where you live. If he somehow forces you to accept it just leave it at the club if you have a locker or lose it or say someone stole it.

    There are other, less dangerous ways to keep your regs updated, twitter, facebook, myspace. Just create an account for your stripper persona with no personal information on there and make sure you have no friends in common with your actual account.

    Was curious about this:
    Quote Originally Posted by lifetravelergirl
    At first I thought it would be harmless and I told him I would accept, but I think this is another trick of his. He is devious. Any advice? The one post I found that was helpful went along the lines of work is work, home is home, I leave work at work, no talking on the telephone with a regular.
    What else has he done that's devious?

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    ^Haha, it took me awhile to figure out that that smilie indicates that you're rolling your eyes (i.e. sarcasm). I used to think it was just innocently looking up at the sky....
    Oops, fixed it. I meant to just use a smilie

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    Quote Originally Posted by Amareth View Post
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    What else has he done that's devious?
    I didn't want to say too much because knowing him he has an account on this site. Essentially in the past he has pressured me, given me ultimatums and then when I refuse to cave in, after being absent from the club for a while, he comes back and admits that he was playing me. He seems to have zero concern for any stress or hardship he causes me. But each time he "makes up" the good times that follow are shorter than previously. Also during these times he will come into the club and try to emotionally drain me, like he is a psychic vampire who is feeding off me. Honestly he is no longer worth my time, neither as a friend nor as a customer. I do care about him but... So anyway, I guess that just rams home the advice everyone has given me already. I need to be done with this guy let alone accept a telephone from him.

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    Yeah, unless he's the only source of income in the club ignore him. Turn bitch on him and let him know if he wants a dance then fine but don't put up with anymore shit, if it's causing you stress that will affect your earnings from other guys so it's not worth it.

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