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    Quote Originally Posted by xoAnnaBanana View Post
    What the fuck is wrong with you...?

    That's disgusting and so so so wrong.
    Yes i did it .. sorry only it was for same person and guy made me so angry i borrowed a safety pin from my friend and i did it...It wasnt a regular needle and i did for same guy actually not everyone of course i am aware about risks... it worked wery well .he did not touch me more and danced for 20 songs...i know i agree thats crazy but he made me crazy he deserves it... last time he visited me he gave me big bruise on my neck or always tries to touch me sneakily on the floor or when i dance.... i do not regret

    he is my regular he makes me push him for 15 min to get a dances, finally as soon as we go for LD he buys a lot... but very hard to convince him i think he likes when i force him over over again. BUT i feel like i m beggin him and gettin angry. I hate that guy but he drops good money.. either i whip him with his belt or smack him i used safety pin one time.. i cant dance otwerwise he licks,grabs, touches try to finger me .. or pull my thong...suck of my neck which i got big bruise last time i could not save myself easily.Thats only way i can control him if i hurt him very bad...
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    Quote Originally Posted by MarvelGirl View Post
    Do you really stab multiple people with the same needle? Do you realize that you could give someone a very serious or even lethal disease by doing this?

    And people thanked you for it... No wonder people think strippers are disgusting whores, some of us are actively trying to infect people with AIDS and hepatitis. Jesus Christ.
    That guy tried to finger me multiple times and he was my regular i hate him his finger could give me disease too. he sucked my neck last time i could not stop him and i have hugee massive bruise . of course i was angry and i used safety pin and he stopped finaly. I am not a whore i m just givin people what they deserve yes i am not Angel and never will be

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    Umm.. Is it really worth to put up with such abusive behaviour to get some dances out of a regular? I'm sorry, but what you wrote is REALLY bad and wrong.

    He is clearly upsetting and stressing you, why would you bother? Make money from guys who don't make you so angry. It's wrecking your own mental health and you're going to be the loser in the long run. If anyone did to me anything like the guy you describe as your 'regular', he would be out the door. Please don't lower yourself to their level by stabbing them with a safety pin (???). That could get you in a lot of trouble if someone finds out.

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    I mean u are right but he follows me everywhere ... even i told him he should leave out of club or get dances right away without makin me crazy. One night i even screamed at the club because he keeps tellin me same things over over again.When he sees i am angry he just enjoyes and think he does sometin good. Bouncers are not really get involved anything untill there is a money issue.

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    Quote Originally Posted by missplayful View Post
    I mean u are right but he follows me everywhere ... even i told him he should leave out of club or get dances right away without makin me crazy. One night i even screamed at the club because he keeps tellin me same things over over again.When he sees i am angry he just enjoyes and think he does sometin good. Bouncers are not really get involved anything untill there is a money issue.
    I had one of these regulars back in 2006... I would make like $1000 a wk off of him, great fucking money...sigh... however, I wasn't "allowed" to talk to any other guys even when I went onstage! If he saw a guy stop me to talk to me he would get mad at me and just become a real prick and make me feel bad and worthless.. I put up with it for awhile because it was such good money. The final straw was when we had this huge VIP party and I was up in the VIP section and regular (who I had no idea was even coming in that night) storms up and screams at me. He was like "get your fkng ass down there by me now!!!" I was embarassed and told him to go fuck himself. He got management who sided with him and escorted me back downstairs!! They told me that since he had spent so much money on me that I was going to sit down there with him. I wanted to cry. I sat with him at a table and he starts yelling at me, telling me how ungrateful I am, etc... So this guy sees I'm stressed, cuts into our convo and asks me for a dance. So I went and regular follows us into the booth, starts yanking on me and telling me to get up and off the guy, they start arguing and trying to push each other around me, so I ran to the dressing room, mortified. I didn't come out until regular left. I haven't seen him since. I will admit that I miss the money though.. But the emotional stress isn't worth it.

    Sorry for T/J

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    I hate when regulars get territorial....Especially with how dead its been in most clubs around here..Sometimes regulars think bc they r the only ones regularly tipping u that somehow they own u. They throw temper tantrums, walk out sometimes..Its irritating and stupid..childish behavior.

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    I had a guy follow me around for a few weeks everytime I worked. He would blatantly walk into the private area as well when I was there with someone. He would try to sit at the table next to me whenever he could.

    He ended up getting 86'd and havent seen him since.

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    Lol I love how ppl are saying stabbed with a needle....isn't it more like a prick or poke,that feels like a pinch? I think its hilarious,in fact I wish I had a safety pin for some of the suckers,and if it made the health freaks feel any better I would color code each pin according to person lol! Man that's priceless! I'm glad you poked the guy! Seems like he likes it actually. I'm the really uber sweet girl at work,this is y I find it funny! Sometimes I jus t wanna breakout of that role,and have rightfully been doing so lately.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MOP View Post
    Lol I love how ppl are saying stabbed with a needle....isn't it more like a prick or poke,that feels like a pinch? I think its hilarious,in fact I wish I had a safety pin for some of the suckers,and if it made the health freaks feel any better I would color code each pin according to person lol! Man that's priceless! I'm glad you poked the guy! Seems like he likes it actually. I'm the really uber sweet girl at work,this is y I find it funny! Sometimes I jus t wanna breakout of that role,and have rightfully been doing so lately.
    She said it was a needle in her first post. If you do this, you could be charged with a very serious crime. You don't have to draw blood to infect someone with a disease. I don't think I've ever bled after getting a shot but that doesn't mean it's ok to reuse the needle. Worrying about being infected by a stranger who likes to stab people with pins does not make one a "health freak". It just means that we understand how these diseases can be transmitted and you don't.

    You might think it's funny, but if a customer calls the police about getting poked with a safety pin, they won't. They also won't give a damn about your little color code.

    Seriously, how would you feel if a customer poked you with a pin or needle? You don't know him and you have no idea how many other people he's stuck with that needle. For all you know, he could have AIDS and sticking himself and then other people to spread his disease gets him off.

    Customers don't know us. They have no reason to trust that we're not psychos, especially if we start sticking them.
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    You know I have noticed girls doing this and they do pretty well and I also see girls that do it and don't. I feel like you should try what feels comfortable with you and makes you money. I find that alot of guys want girls that tell them what they need instead of asking them what they want. My hustle changes from what night it is. During the week there's alot of guys that are here on business and they like to spend time with girls that are sweat and sexy and they spend. Now on the weekends when its all packed with tourists partying I totally see that grab and your getting a dance attitude totally suitable.
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    Marvel girl thats my baD i m foreigner i kmean it wrong it wasnt needle it was safety pin. i know thats wrong but thats what he deserves i cant handle anymore. Also he likes pain and finally he slows down if i hurt him. Otherwise he does some crazy shit.I did not poke him for no reason everythime he tries to finger me i tell him safety pin is comiiingg. and as soon as he does sometin bothers me i poke him otherwise i cant give him dance he is too grabby licky.. or whatever botherin me a lot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by missplayful View Post
    Marvel girl thats my baD i m foreigner i kmean it wrong it wasnt needle it was safety pin. i know thats wrong but thats what he deserves i cant handle anymore. Also he likes pain and finally he slows down if i hurt him. Otherwise he does some crazy shit.I did not poke him for no reason everythime he tries to finger me i tell him safety pin is comiiingg. and as soon as he does sometin bothers me i poke him otherwise i cant give him dance he is too grabby licky.. or whatever botherin me a lot.
    I understand what you're saying now, but I didn't in your first post. Hey, if you've got a customer who likes being poked, by all means, go for it just don't use the same pin on two people.

    I was just a little concerned about other girls trying it randomly. I can see a customer totally freaking out and calling the cops if a girl stuck him with a pin with no warning.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xGigi View Post
    my usual hustle style is to act really confident because as you've probably heard over and over guys love a girl who has confidence in herself.

    I noticed though that one of the top earners at my club is so confident she borders arrogant.

    so I tried a little experiment. last night I tweaked my stripper persona confidence to the extent that I was giving off this extremely arrogant vibe and I made a pretty decent pile of cash for a monday night.

    I literally dragged guys into the lap dance room with me. if a guy seemed unsure I'd be like "come on, I'm like the hottest girl in here. you see those bitches on stage? what the fuck do they have on me? I'm not taking no for an answer let's go already!"

    I had one guy who was droning on and on and on about his children and I was like "how the fuck am I supposed to turn you on if you're just gonna sit here and talk about your kids? I'm gonna go to the bathroom and when I come back I'm taking you for a hot lap dance" and when I came back he was actually still at the bar waiting for me and we went off for a dance!

    I think I may have found an effective hustle style. thoughts on this?
    i think arrogance works well at a strip club. i think a lot of guys who come in like being bitched at. it works well for me. I am actually the least confidence person ever but in the club i seriously am in SHOCK when you say no to a lap dance from me. In the club i believe im the shit and everyone should love me, and it works a lot of the time.
    i only use it on arrogant people though. im nice to those who are nice to me and bitchy and arrogant to the guys who think theyre too cool to be in the club.
    Dont try this in real life though!
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    Quote Originally Posted by MarvelGirl View Post
    Do you really stab multiple people with the same needle? Do you realize that you could give someone a very serious or even lethal disease by doing this?

    And people thanked you for it... No wonder people think strippers are disgusting whores, some of us are actively trying to infect people with AIDS and hepatitis. Jesus Christ.
    eh any asshole who tries to get a freebie deserves aids. sorry to say, its not politically correct, but its how i feel.
    im not the one who brings a needle to work, but i think that if you're a douche you deserve to be treated like one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lagirl View Post
    eh any asshole who tries to get a freebie deserves aids. sorry to say, its not politically correct, but its how i feel.
    Does his wife deserve it too? How about his kids?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarvelGirl View Post
    Does his wife deserve it too? How about his kids?
    yeah probably, for marrying a douchebag.and if hes that douchy he probably has something already. sorry i cant feel bad for girls who date idiotic men. they chose to date them! I have personally never had an abusive or cheating boyfriend because i dont put up with that crap.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lagirl View Post
    yeah probably, for marrying a douchebag.and if hes that douchy he probably has something already. sorry i cant feel bad for girls who date idiotic men. they chose to date them! I have personally never had an abusive or cheating boyfriend because i dont put up with that crap.
    Wow, that's pretty cold. What about all the other no-nonsense girls like you he violates after you've infected him?

    Call me crazy, but infecting a predator with a deadly disease sounds pretty stupid.

    Do the kids deserve it too? You know, for having a douchey dad. If your dad was a douchebag, would it be alright for someone to infect you?

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    "What about all the other no-nonsense girls like you he violates after you've infected him?"
    pretty sure you cant get aids from getting your ass grabbed

    im sorry i dont make the rules. kids are born with aids every day, its not a perfect world, and im not the one that can fix it. none of the kids born into aids deserve it but thats not going to stop them from being born.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lagirl View Post
    "What about all the other no-nonsense girls like you he violates after you've infected him?"
    pretty sure you cant get aids from getting your ass grabbed

    im sorry i dont make the rules. kids are born with aids every day, its not a perfect world, and im not the one that can fix it. none of the kids born into aids deserve it but thats not going to stop them from being born.
    Red herring, false dilemma. There's a difference between simply not taking action to solve a problem and worsening it.

    If someone ever poked me with a random fucking needle, they'd be maimed and dead on the spot.

    Anybody who does that should be fired, arrested and sued.

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    Lol I think its funny....ugh I hate how some people on this thread just can't agree to disagree,its like getting a fucking lecture from your nagging ass grandma! Jeez gives me a fucking headache....then they write you in your personal inbox abt how your soooooo wrong and should reconsider your staments......fuck off.
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