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    Angry INLAWS. Im ganna shoot a bitch =[

    Hehe ^^
    Ok let me give you a little info on whats going down.
    me and my inlaws have never gotten along they made me stand out in the cold
    PREGNANT
    They tryed to get my husband to ditch me PREGNANT and convince him the baby wasnt his.
    NOW
    My hubbys father just got cought HAVEING a affair with someone for 4 YEARS
    and guess what , they have a 1 YEAR OLD SON!! And his mom still wont divorce him

    his father told my hubby TO LET THE DAMN BITCH claim my son (who they have nothing to do with) on there income tax (either because they have a split bank account and he wants half, or so he dosnt have to worry about giving her his money)

    can you beleave that crap. IVE been supporting my husband , whos jobless(although he trys)
    and the dumbass daddy wants his nutshell of a mom to claim him and MY SON!

    URGGG
    this was a much needed vent.
    im leaving the misspelling to show my utter rage while typing =P
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    Default Re: INLAWS. Im ganna shoot a bitch =[

    My future in-laws are pretty nutty. The mom is a clinical hoarder. Like, really really really bad. She could be on one of those TV shows about it. The father works for GE and is a total workaholic. He is extremely sexist and misogynistic. He has been continuously telling my fiancee not to marry me, because all women only want to marry men so they can then divorce them and take half their shit. Like, he seriously believes everyone with a vagina comes out of the womb with this on their minds. He also says women are all whores, liars, cheaters, drama queens, etc. By the way, these people are not actually his parents: biologically, they're his grandparents; their only daughter got knocked up with Joe when she was 18, and her parents took him. This woman actually had 5 children total, and hasn't raised a single one of them--the grandparents took them all. And the people he calls his parents got married when the dad knocked up the mom when he was 19 and she was 14. They've been married since then, and they hate each other. The mom is also sexist; whenever she doesn't like something Joe does, she starts calling him a chauvinist and a bastard and all sorts of shit. She randomly freaks out and will call him fifty times in an hour at like 4 a.m., screaming and swearing. She lies constantly, about serious stuff. She told everyone that Joe's little sister has fetal alcohol syndrome and that she got it from the father. First off, this is physically impossible. Secondly, Bella was never tested for anything like this. She may have a learning disorder, but I find it extremely offensive that her mother has decided to label her with something so serious. His entire family guilts him constantly, especially his three sisters. His mother made up some weird lie about me calling one of his sisters fat and making her cry to try and get him to dump me. If he pisses the mom off, the entire family freaks out on him because they have to live with her. No one has ever addressed the mother with logic, i.e. telling her she has a problem and needs help. It's completely outrageous, and I am NOT looking forward to having to deal with these people for the rest of my life. Luckily, Joe acknowledges they have these problems, but unfortunately, he gives in to them way too often. We're trying to work on that.

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    Default Re: INLAWS. Im ganna shoot a bitch =[

    Maybe I've been lucky but I've never dated guys with horrible parents. Oh sure a few had fathers who were slightly sexist, but never that terrible (and this is just going by things they've said or done so maybe they weren't sexist). My brother has great in laws and my parents are great to my sister in law. This scares me about marrying someone. What if I find the right guy and his parents are horrible? The guy I want to be with has a controlling mother which could be a problem if we get married but once again no idea if it would be a problem.

    I do know several people who did marry into horrible families so I've seen this. Things like the in laws buy their son fun stuff like CDs but the daughter in law household items for Christmas. Or worse yet, not buying anything at all. Or calling the daughter in law bad names.

    I trust me I feel for people with bad in laws because this is one issue you may not know one has until after marriage when the claws come out.

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    Default Re: INLAWS. Im ganna shoot a bitch =[

    firemaiden04 You should wait until your guy is strong enough to resist their bullshit before you marry. Before he gets the prize ( a lifetime with you) is when he is most likely to man up and improve. It would suck to walk down the aisle and have nothing change and have to live with that emotional circus forever.
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    Default Re: INLAWS. Im ganna shoot a bitch =[

    ^^^ Yeah - it only gets worse after, from what I've observed. He has to set the pattern and push back. If he doesn't do it now, he never will.

    Personally, my in-laws are the greatest, so all I can do is put in a good word for them. I really got lucky on that front! When they leave after coming to visit (they live on another continent, so it isn't often), I'm actually sad. My friends think I'm insane when I tell them this!

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    The other day Joe stood up to his mom...told her that her behavior had been unacceptable and had made a terrible impression on me, and that it was her own fault. She said she didn't want us to be enemies and blah blah blah...but when Joe brought up that story she'd made up about me calling his sister fat, she magnanimously said she'd "forgiven me" and "let it go." Which means she's not going to admit she made it up. Which is unacceptable.

    So Joe says that until she admits it, she's not invited to the wedding. Which is a HUGE step, and I'm very proud

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    Yaaaay, Go Joe Go!

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    Default Re: INLAWS. Im ganna shoot a bitch =[

    Sorry to hear about your inlaw problems BuffyFlame. How much contact do you have to have with them? Maybe if you moved somewhere you could minimize it?

    That said, I almost married a guy with INSANE parents. His mom actually tried to physically attack me once for absolutely nothing. Even when they lived in a different country they caused so much drama! He'd have screaming fights on the phone at least once a week. It was one reason I didn't marry him.

    Now I am married and I love my inlaws. After that mess, marrying a man with a good relationship with his parents became a priority.

    Does your husband stick up for you, or does he side with them? He needs to be on YOUR side. He chose to marry you, and he didn't choose who his parents are.
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    Default Re: INLAWS. Im ganna shoot a bitch =[

    My grandmother is a bitch. And has treated my mom like shit the entire time she's been married to my dad.
    It's been 25 years and it hasn't really gotten any better. I'm sure sometimes it does... but realistically... I think the only thing you can do is minimize contact.
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