Okay sorry but the current stereotype placed on dancers just irks me
Stereotypes are for people who have NOT been in our shoes (literally ow! lol) and therefore making it impossible to completely know the business. Not ALL strippers enter drug addictions or prostitution. I have faith that most of us believe there is a solid thick line between the VIP and paid sex acts. That said, I hold no judgment toward escorting. I just think that it is best to keep it out of the clubs; separate from dancing. I believe a person can be strong enough to learn, know what they want, set their own boundaries and act accordingly to their own values.
What infuriates me about this "nasty" negativity is the belief that all sex workers should be pitied...ashamed of what we do...etc. Because what we do reflects our being...that we lack self-control. I say for what I've seen (or read via stripperweb), we are not weak-minded. We are NOT sad. In fact, ALL of us are STRONG/STRONGER for what we have gone through/been through. What the fuck? I could go on about this more. I'm just fed up. Yes, I'm a bit insecure. Yes, I doubt myself sometimes. These are the reasons...because idiots like that feel they need to judge other people or change them. THEY are the ones that are lacking self-esteem issues! Just remember that. THEY are the ones that feel they need to change other people's lives or things because they lack control in theirs.
K I am done. I just thank all you lovely ladies and gents here with your open-minds and big hearts. Corny but I literally don't know what I'd do without these forums (btw hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving!).



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