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    i know i will probably get blasted for this thread but will do it anyway. I have noticed in the past couple years that girls who do extras like bjs and full sex don't consider themselves hookers,escorts at all, even the ones who do otc. If i even casually mention it they get really offended, are they delusional or u only a hooker if u are standing on the street corner or on craigs list. I am not a fool i am still a john or trick if i pay for sex in a club or in my car.

    I remember specifically a girl telling me she doesn't have sex for money, but at the same time i have been having sex with her in vip for months.Then their is another dancer i know who only fuck a few customers. She told me if she was fucking a lot of customers she would feel like a hooker. So if u fuck 3 customers u are a innocent stripper, but u have sex with 6 customers u are a full time prosititute lol

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    Default Re: girls who do extras don't consider themsevles hookers

    Yea I don't understand that theory either. If one has sex for money, that isn't a stripper lol. Stripper means dance and strip off clothes and get naked for money, not have sex. o.0





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    Penguins engage in prostitution. They trade stones in exchange for sexual favors.
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    Default Re: girls who do extras don't consider themsevles hookers

    Well, exchanging money for sex is prostitution in the eyes of the law. What the ladies think they are doing or not doing is inconsequential if they ever get busted or the club gets raided. That being said, It's not really a topic that comes up when I am spending time with either strippers or hookers regardless of what we are doing at the time. My personal feeling is that there is nothing wrong with two adults engaging in a mutually beneficial relationship that happens to include sex and money as two of it's primary components. Furthermore I don't really care what a woman calls herself as long as she is not trying to fool herself.
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    Default Re: girls who do extras don't consider themsevles hookers

    I don't like extra girls but I don't feel they are hookers always. I've known a couple dancers who did sleep with customers but this wasn't a regular thing. Hookers? perhaps but to me someone who has given a bj or fs a few times I would hesitate to call a hooker. If she's doing it regularly, then yes she's a hooker.

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    Default Re: girls who do extras don't consider themsevles hookers

    hooker, prostitute, escort, who cares what you label it? the girl is having sex for money. if she's comfortable being a prostitute, then good for her. if she wants to pretend she isn't a prostitute to help her sleep at night, fine.

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    Default Re: girls who do extras don't consider themsevles hookers

    It's just a word. But people object to it because of its connotation. They probably realize, in the back of their heads, that the same kind of exchange is going on as in prostitution, but they don't like to associate themselves with the word.

    It's also a two-way mental trick that allows her to make (probably) more money than she would in prostitution, because she sells under the guise that she is a dancer and not a prostitute. It's a less obvious sex-for-money exchange, which increases the value of the product for many.

    Honestly, I think stripping (oops, I mean dancing) is very similar to prostitution...especially in clubs that allow contact. Even more so in two-way contact clubs. The entire sex industry has a million shades of grey.

    Personally, I consider myself a sex-worker, which is more of an umbrella term.

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    I think the PC term is "commercial sex worker"
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    Default Re: girls who do extras don't consider themsevles hookers

    ^ Oooh...also good!

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    Default Re: girls who do extras don't consider themsevles hookers

    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    Honestly, I think stripping (oops, I mean dancing) is very similar to prostitution...especially in clubs that allow contact. Even more so in two-way contact clubs. The entire sex industry has a million shades of grey.
    The line between what constitutes prostitution and what doesn't can be drawn in a lot of different places depending on who is drawing the line.
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    Default Re: girls who do extras don't consider themsevles hookers

    I have heard some variation of "I don't do this all the time" more times than I can count. Sometimes I believed it and other times I did not.

    With my current local fav it took 3 months before it happened, and only after I was about to move on to other pastures. For a variety of reasons I won't get into here, I believed her when she said that this is not routine for her and I'm fairly sure that I am the only one she is doing this with at the moment. I have no doubt that she does not view herself as a prostitute.

    Now obviously it is sex for money, but I am one of those people that sees some difference between a girl that does opportunistic OTC and one that advertises on Eros and Backpage. Not that there is anything wrong with either person IMHO, but there it is.

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    Default Re: girls who do extras don't consider themsevles hookers

    If I was comfortable having sex or performing sex acts on strangers for money, then I would just go be an escort and make a TON more money than these girls who are giving $20 handjobs in private dances. Maybe they can fool themselves into thinking it doesn't count. But I'm a fairly logical person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OmarJones View Post
    .......If i even casually mention it they get really offended, are they delusional or u only a hooker if u are standing on the street corner or on craigs list.

    So......why are you "casually" mentioning it to them? You're obviously trying to get a reaction from them. Why?


    If I'm with a woman that is providing a service for a price what do I care what she does or does not call herself? That's her business, not mine. She can call herself a social worker, astronaut or sous chef for all I care. If she is comfortable with whatever it is we are doing, and we both walk away with our needs met - that's all I care about.

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    ^Yeah, but that kind of shit should not be happening in a SC, where it undercuts the girls who are actually doing what's legal.

    The issue the OP has with the woman is completely understandable. This woman is clearly in denial about her situation, and can't stand the idea of associating herself with a category of people she considers to be below herself. Which is ridiculous.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    ^Yeah, but that kind of shit should not be happening in a SC, where it undercuts the girls who are actually doing what's legal.

    The issue the OP has with the woman is completely understandable. This woman is clearly in denial about her situation, and can't stand the idea of associating herself with a category of people she considers to be below herself. Which is ridiculous.

    charlie,

    I was focusing on the terminology itself, rather than where the act occurred.

    I know that extras girls make it harder for the clean dancers, but in the context of this thread I still maintain that the use of certain words (hooker, escort) applied to "dirty dancers" serves no purpose except to make them defensive and put them in complete denial about what they are doing. Why would someone seek out extras in a club, receive them, then question the girl as to whether or not she considers herself a hooker? What kind of reaction did the OP expect to get?

    If the OP isn't careful he might ask that question to the wrong girl one day and find himself in the ER with an 8" stiletto up his ass.

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    I love penguins. And their hooker ways.





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    let me clear something up it's not like i casually mention it like after they finish sucking my dick i say thank u do u feel like a hooker now? It comes up in casual conversation where i can tell they think they aren't hooking. For example one girl i see otc constantly has her phone off, i jokingly text her she needs to just get a second phone just for my calls. Her response was i don't need a second phone and that she isn't some whore.

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    ^ Then the girls you are frequenting are weird.

    I always hate strippers who are so easily offended. You kind of have to have thick skin in order to do this job...if every little thing pisses them off, they'll be miserable.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw View Post
    charlie,

    I was focusing on the terminology itself, rather than where the act occurred.

    I know that extras girls make it harder for the clean dancers, but in the context of this thread I still maintain that the use of certain words (hooker, escort) applied to "dirty dancers" serves no purpose except to make them defensive and put them in complete denial about what they are doing. Why would someone seek out extras in a club, receive them, then question the girl as to whether or not she considers herself a hooker? What kind of reaction did the OP expect to get?

    If the OP isn't careful he might ask that question to the wrong girl one day and find himself in the ER with an 8" stiletto up his ass.
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    Quote Originally Posted by OmarJones View Post
    let me clear something up it's not like i casually mention it like after they finish sucking my dick i say thank u do u feel like a hooker now? It comes up in casual conversation where i can tell they think they aren't hooking. For example one girl i see otc constantly has her phone off, i jokingly text her she needs to just get a second phone just for my calls. Her response was i don't need a second phone and that she isn't some whore.

    Well, according to Slick Willie (Bill Clinton), oral sex isn't sex anyway....

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    Default Re: girls who do extras don't consider themsevles hookers

    In my opinion once you start even just giving hj's or bj's or whatever for money than youre a hooker! And hookers should go to jail. If you want to be a legal hooker come to Nevada and work for sheri's or the bunnyranch.

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    lol I was contemplating whether or not to change it up again.....but I think I'll keep it a while longer

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    lol I was contemplating whether or not to change it up again.....but I think I'll keep it a while longer
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