I don't know whether to laugh or cry but I've been hit on by the dregs of society. People question why I'm waiting for the one I want but it's because sometimes I feel he's the last never married no kid guy out there, though I know he's not. Here's just a sampling of some of the "winners" who've hit on me.
1) My one neighbor I'll call Bubba keeps asking me out. What's wrong you ask? Let's see, he drives a truck with a Confederate flag and has a hanging of Obama being lynched. If that wasn't bad he has long greasy hair, almost black teeth and creepy all around. He's also on probation for selling drinks at his house to minors. Real winner. I'm pretty sure he's a country song waiting to happen (no offense to country lovers).
2) A guy I'll call baby daddy. I used to get asked out all the time by this guy who had four kids by four different women, and of course he didn't marry any of them. He was pleased with this.
3) Perverts in general. I've been asked so many times just walking and it's creepy. I wasn't in known hooker areas, nor was I dressed sleazy. I suppose it's possible a few may have seen my modeling or dancing but this was never referenced. I was once asked for a quickie in front of the Sears Tower, a place NOT known for that (it's called Willis Tower but I refuse to call it that).
Then there are the decent men who aren't for me:
Obese men. I have no problem dating a chubby guy, though I prefer skinny nerdy types. However I get approached often by 300+ pound men. When I turn them down they get upset like how dare I. I have to mention none of these guys were nice to me either when I told them no thank you. If they had been nice I may have considered.
Dads. I know there are some great dads but this is the one rule I can never bend. I've stated why repeatedly why I don't date them. Yet it never fails, these are the guys who hit on me. I turn them down or say we can be friends but not good enough.
When I did online dating guess who responded? Yep, perverts, obese and dads. Same thing at singles groups. There can be 10 decent looking childless guys and they'll bypass me but the guys I want are never interested. I don't get this either. I am attractive, look younger, etc yet it seems the guys I want never want me. This seems to be something I've noticed with my other attractive friends, especially the dancers and models.
Btw, I mean no offense to either dads or obese. These are just dating preferences and in the case of dads, unbendable. I might consider an obese man if he was working on losing weight.
Does anyone else have this problem?It frustrates me because I feel like I'll either be alone or have to settle if the one I want never comes around.



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