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    The other night I was in a club I go to now and then. A dancer came on stage who was incredible -- great body, extremely classy outfit, fine moves. I made it clear I was into her and tipped well. When she left the stage I sat at the bar so I could tip her again during her "tip walk" and I told her how much I enjoyed her show. Yet she was pretty standoffish and did not ask if I wanted a dance. If she had she could have cleaned out my wallet; I was that taken with her. Why wouldn't she have asked? I know I could have asked HER but I find it sexier when the dancer asks ME (I like being hustled). I can't think of anything I did that might have turned her off. I am a decent-looking guy and always go to clubs clean and well dressed. I was more than polite to her; I never get "handsy" with dancers or do anything they would dislike. So why wouldn't she have read my signals? After she was all done she sat with the other dancers at one end of the bar and none of them approached any customers (there were only a few of us). Maybe it's the club -- perhaps most customers are so cheap they never buy dances, so why would the girls beat their heads against the wall? Come to think of it I have rarely seen anyone besides myself buy dances there. But maybe if they asked more, there would be more dances. I know hustling dances is not barred by law because I have been hustled at this place. How could a true stunner like this lady be such a poor business person?

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    maybe she just wasn't in the mood to be at work. dancers ARE people. we have personal lives and emotions just like everyone else. maybe something bad had happened to her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by inawe View Post
    I sat at the bar so I could tip her again during her "tip walk" and I told her how much I enjoyed her show. Yet she was pretty standoffish and did not ask if I wanted a dance. If she had she could have cleaned out my wallet; I was that taken with her. Why wouldn't she have asked? I know I could have asked HER but I find it sexier when the dancer asks ME (I like being hustled). I can't think of anything I did that might have turned her off.
    You wanted a dance, didn't ask her for a dance, so she is a poor business person?

    Dude, just ask, they don't bite. Though some will if you pay extra...
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    You wanted a dance, didn't ask her for a dance, so she is a poor business person?

    Dude, just ask, they don't bite. Though some will if you pay extra...
    She was standoffish enough so that I did not feel a request for her company would be welcome.

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    She might have been shy or still new to the business? I know for the first year I danced I almost never approached anyone! I probably seemed standoffish or stuck-up, when I was really just nervous and shy.

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    There has been a rash of "Why wouldn't she pay attention to me?" posts around here lately. Either someone is having a lot of fun posting this drivel and reading the responses or these are actually different people who are really just that needy. I'm not sure which is more disturbing.

    But in the spirit of good sportsmanship...

    Believe me when I say that she would not turn down your money if it was offered. For whatever reason, she was either not motivated to sell dances or she was avoiding you for some other reason.

    Now as a matter of policy I never chase after any girl, but neither do I get overly worked up if a girl that I like does not approach me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by inawe View Post
    She was standoffish enough so that I did not feel a request for her company would be welcome.
    It sounds like you made the right call in that case. I'm still not seeing where this is any sort of bad business practice from her perspective. It sounds like she knew exactly what she was doing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    Now as a matter of policy I never chase after any girl, but neither do I get overly worked up if a girl that I like does not approach me.
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    I stopped biting when I realized custies dont taste like chicken!


    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    You wanted a dance, didn't ask her for a dance, so she is a poor business person?

    Dude, just ask, they don't bite. Though some will if you pay extra...

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    Its likely the custies at her club dont tip that well or something close to that. So tip well and you wont have that problem!

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    Yeah. If you liked her, just ask. We LOVE being asked to dance. Like.... it makes my night.
    Reason I might not have asked myself :
    *I'm assuming people are still "settling in". I don't ask much in the initial hour because I had a habit of hitting too hard too fast and getting frustrated fast. I have to force myself to "take it easy " for the first hour or two to last 8-12 hours ( yes ... at one place I go ... it's sometimes 12 hours ) .
    * Maybe I'm in a frustrated spot where I've gotten 10 No's. This happens. Maybe catching breath.
    * Maybe hungry and headed in back.
    * Maybe not feeling well but don't want to pay " leave early " fee.
    ^ The list can go ON!
    So ... point is .... just ASK. Tell her you'd love a lapdance if she's ready but you'd also buy a drink if she wants one. Ask next time.

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    At my club most girls do not hustle for dances. The customers dont like it there. Its a slow-paced club. I always change my style to suit the club I work in. I dont think Ive asked anyone for a dance in 5 months, but I am still a top earner. When I start hustling... I cant make any money, the guys see through it. In fact I have a running joke with one of my bouncer friends. When I frown at customers and turn away from them when they approach me... I almost always get a dance. It is hilarious. Maybe something similar is going on at this club...

    And I agree with everyone else... just ask her. Shes not going to say no so its way less scary for you.

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    It may sound lame, but for really shy guys stripclubs its a great place to practice asking girls to dance, like in a real club. You are guaranteed 100% a YES from a stripper, don't be shy just ask.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    You wanted a dance, didn't ask her for a dance, so she is a poor business person?

    Dude, just ask, they don't bite. Though some will if you pay extra...

    Yep, they do, and I will!

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    Ok- The nect time I go to mu local SC and see a dancer that I would like to buy some dances from I will manup and ask.

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    We customers are never happy. If we go to a car dealership, we bitch about the salesman running over and hassling us before we even find a parking spot. If the salesman leaves us alone to let us look around a bit, we bitch about not getting any service.

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    Quote Originally Posted by inawe View Post
    She was standoffish enough so that I did not feel a request for her company would be welcome.
    maybe you seemed standoffish yourself, and she didn't think you were interested, but just came to the stage for a better look.

    last night i didn't hustle at all. i took off a week, and if i take off more than a couple days i'm always oversensitive my first night back. it was slow, but i could've made at least 300 if i'd tried. i barely talked to anyone because no one looked interested. i'd smile, but they would just look at me like they were afraid i was going to kill them or something. i mostly just walked back and forth and sat by myself. plus, even good stage tippers have almost never wanted dances from me. they just wanted to tip, then not have me bother them ever again.

    maybe she was just off her game and couldn't tell you wanted dances.
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    How come you didn't ask her for a dance? When guys approach me I'm flattered and they get special treatment.




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