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    Question Deposits for escorts?

    Even though Ive been in the business for quite a while Im still pretty inexperienced when it comes to traveling with clients, and traveling to meet clients. I know that it's wise to get a deposit up front of 30-50% in order to pay my own air fair, and accomodation if Im traveling to then, but what is the best way to do it? Bank transfers? Email money transfers, or sites like alert pay. And if I do use something like alert pay and the client uses a credit card, how do I avoid chargebacks? It would be brutal to travel across the globe, only to have the guy no show and charge back the deposit!

    Does anyone have any ideas/ or experience with this?

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    I really wish I could help you, but I can't. I have traveled with clients, but the few trips I have been on, they were local and I actually flew with them to our destination. I did have one client years ago, he was from Chicago and I had seen him numerous times, when he was in my area for business. I did go to Chicago to visit him, and he mailed me my airline ticket.

    I'd love to see what type of responses you get, as I would like to know myself.

    Where has Kayla been? She would know. I haven't seen her around the boards lately. Does anybody know? I miss her!

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    Quote Originally Posted by mischa_5 View Post
    Even though Ive been in the business for quite a while Im still pretty inexperienced when it comes to traveling with clients, and traveling to meet clients. I know that it's wise to get a deposit up front of 30-50% in order to pay my own air fair, and accomodation if Im traveling to then, but what is the best way to do it? Bank transfers? Email money transfers, or sites like alert pay. And if I do use something like alert pay and the client uses a credit card, how do I avoid chargebacks? It would be brutal to travel across the globe, only to have the guy no show and charge back the deposit!

    Does anyone have any ideas/ or experience with this?
    Get a deposit. The simplest ways are cash via Fed- Ex or Western Union. Some gals use Green-Dot.

    Some custies don't like any method where you can see their real name or get a work address. Most of the time that is BULLSHIT because your screening should have given you their REAL name and some personal info anyway.

    HE should be paying your air-fare and hotel if you are traveling just to see him and/or if you are traveling with him.
    Last edited by Eric Stoner; 12-02-2010 at 12:42 PM.

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    Default Re: Deposits for escorts?

    Thanks for the responses

    I agree with you Eric, I wouldn't see anyone that didnt want to provide proper screening info especially if I were traveling to meet them. Ill take a look at Green dot, or Fed-Ex.

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    I use greendot, fed ex and niteflirt.

    Kayla got banned. Add her on yahoo:camwithkayla

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    Ok traveling rule number one:
    He is to pay for your complete travel and accomodation if he expects you to travel.
    Plane ticket and hotel conformation is to be sent to you via e-mail and you are to call both to confirm the payments.
    Second:
    He is to send you a money transfer of 50% (which takes 5-10 business days) of the fee and have the other 50% up front in cash in an envelope the moment you meet with him - make sure this is clear.

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    Quote Originally Posted by exotic0690 View Post
    Ok traveling rule number one:
    He is to pay for your complete travel and accomodation if he expects you to travel.
    Plane ticket and hotel conformation is to be sent to you via e-mail and you are to call both to confirm the payments.
    Second:
    He is to send you a money transfer of 50% (which takes 5-10 business days) of the fee and have the other 50% up front in cash in an envelope the moment you meet with him - make sure this is clear.
    Of course.

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    Speaking of Kayla anyone know why she got banned???

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    Ooh it was pretty funny. On another thread in ladies lounge I think she yelled at some chick for wanting to do x at work then she said something like if you do drugs you're a druggie. Everyone got butt hurt and told the mods to ban her. She also said something like she didn't think she was coming on stripperweb to get advice from a bunch of druggies because the majority of the ladies on that thread were advising the girl to do x at work. It was pretty shocking. Good thing the thread is closed now and I didn't show up early enough. They would have banned me too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MsOfficer View Post
    Ooh it was pretty funny. On another thread in ladies lounge I think she yelled at some chick for wanting to do x at work then she said something like if you do drugs you're a druggie. Everyone got butt hurt and told the mods to ban her. She also said something like she didn't think she was coming on stripperweb to get advice from a bunch of druggies because the majority of the ladies on that thread were advising the girl to do x at work. It was pretty shocking. Good thing the thread is closed now and I didn't show up early enough. They would have banned me too.
    Damn.

    I miss her. Her posts were quite interesting to read.

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    ^^^ While I didn't agree with her on everything, I saw her significantly mature during her time on SW. We generally have many of the same tastes too it seems, so I will second the opinion of missing her, I need more uber girly-girls around!
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    Quote Originally Posted by MsOfficer View Post
    Ooh it was pretty funny. On another thread in ladies lounge I think she yelled at some chick for wanting to do x at work then she said something like if you do drugs you're a druggie. Everyone got butt hurt and told the mods to ban her. She also said something like she didn't think she was coming on stripperweb to get advice from a bunch of druggies because the majority of the ladies on that thread were advising the girl to do x at work. It was pretty shocking. Good thing the thread is closed now and I didn't show up early enough. They would have banned me too.
    No, they were reporting her posts for being rude.
    Not just the "druggie" comment.
    For saying certain SW didn't contribute anything.
    There were plenty of other girls who didn't agree with doing X at work, but they were polite about it. Not condescending and rude.

    Anyway though, I'm pretty sure she's back.

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    Yes Avery I'm pretty sure she has apparently made it back as well. She can't live without SW.

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    No, they were reporting her posts for being rude.
    Not just the "druggie" comment.
    For saying certain SW didn't contribute anything.
    There were plenty of other girls who didn't agree with doing X at work, but they were polite about it. Not condescending and rude.

    Anyway though, I'm pretty sure she's back.
    You just accused me of being MalayaTaylor on another thread. I have asked you
    to ask the Mods IF this is true. They have the ability to check IP addresses. I am in contact with malaya and maybe we share the same views but not the same computer/not from the same state and but I am not her. You also accused another girl of being Malaya. Naughtia was also accused of being Malaya because of her views. This is just sad. Yall just can't take criticism. Yes I agree with everything she said on that thread. Avery you're the only one that is being rude and yes you asked the mods to ban her for her druggie comment.

    Lilmissunshine, She is working and has no time for sw. She has moved pass sw and does not need this site. She was the one that encouraged me to join and I am glad I did. You all need some serious help!

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    You sure know alot about her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilmisssunshine View Post
    You sure know alot about her.
    Of course sweetie It was her thread that brought me to this site. Everyone's entitled to their own opinion.

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    Interesting..people say escorts are mean/catty and manipulative but the ladies in the escort-only forum im apart of sure are much more friendlier than you guys!

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    You all need some serious help!

    Really? Interesting...

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilmisssunshine View Post
    Really? Interesting...
    Yes!!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MsOfficer View Post
    You just accused me of being MalayaTaylor on another thread. I have asked you
    to ask the Mods IF this is true. They have the ability to check IP addresses. I am in contact with malaya and maybe we share the same views but not the same computer/not from the same state and but I am not her. You also accused another girl of being Malaya. Naughtia was also accused of being Malaya because of her views. This is just sad. Yall just can't take criticism. Yes I agree with everything she said on that thread. Avery you're the only one that is being rude and yes you asked the mods to ban her for her druggie comment.

    Lilmissunshine, She is working and has no time for sw. She has moved pass sw and does not need this site. She was the one that encouraged me to join and I am glad I did. You all need some serious help!
    Really? I went to the mods and said, "Omg, can you PLLEEEAAASSEEE ban Kayla?"


    You have to get a certain amount of flagged posts before you get banned, so you must've got a lot. I flagged 3 of your posts in that discussion, so there were others.

    But once again, go ahead go on acting like you know it all.

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    Avery, I really do not care who banned who... I really don't. I didn't come to this site to argue. I was intrigued by the bodyrub thread that is why I decided to join not because you thought doing drugs at work was ok.

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    Alright Kayla...

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    Call me whatever you want..... I understand pregnant women have mood swings. Go ahead and ban me too. I do not care.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MsOfficer View Post
    Call me whatever you want..... I understand pregnant women have mood swings. Go ahead and ban me too. I do not care.
    How is this a mood swing?

    We're just stating the obvious.

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