Just want to share what I've learned so far hopefully this helps other newbies or girls interested in dancing!
Stand out! My 1st couple nights I noticed that all the girls wore similar outfits, had similar hairstyles & did all the same moves on stage! So I purposely try to be different. It seems like guys are more drawn to me because the other girls just kind of blend in with eachother. I don't care how great your outfit/hair/pole trick is, it's not gonna impress anybody if they've already seen it 5 times that night!
Be friendly, but stay out of the drama! When I say be friendly, I don't mean tell the other girls your life story & make plans to hang out outside of work! I mean smile say hello, be generous when tipping out & avoid confrontation. I tipped the bartender $5 my 1st night cause I kept asking her for water. None of the other girls tipped her (it's not required) and she stayed an hour after we closed to teach me some pole tricks! When the other dancers are bitching at eachother, which they do often, I get out of the way before they find a way to get me involved!
DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT let custys talk you into things you aren't comfortable with. In only 3 nights dancing, I've had like 15 custys either ask for my #, ask for sex, or ask to hang out outside of the club (which is the same as asking for sex! lol) Thankfully I joined SW a few weeks before I started & got it drilled into my head that these are major no-no's! It's not smart, it's not safe & it's not worth it!
Ok that's all I got for now! Feel free to add your own![]()



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