Ok, let me preface this by saying I never EVER see any customers outside the club. Ever ever. I've been dancing for 5+ years and not ONCE have I met up outside the club with any customers.
That being said, I fell for a regular of mine and met up with him a few times this week. I feel really weird about it, but no money was involved and the most we did was kiss--and it was a dating situation, nothing else. I still feel really awkward about it--how do I tell people we met?--but I **REALLY** like him, lots and lots. I've been dancing for him for about a year now, and on our dates he was very sweet, loving, and funny. Also very smart, very driven, basically everything I've been looking for in a man.
BUT--there's more. He's going through a nasty divorce and has two kids, and is 16 years my senior.I usually date older men, but not THAT much older. Plus, I've never dated a man with kids, but he (from what I can tell) is a good dad, but is in a NASTY custody battle with his ex-wife. Which is obviously a baggage/drama overload. Plus, of course, he's a customer. Urgh.
I just feel like I wish I'd met him outside the club, because I definately would have hung out with him then too, and not had to feel so weird about him being a customer from the club. I'm not thinking of this being a serious thing, just seeing where it goes, but I do really like him.
And, I hate to say it, and honestly this does factor in a bit, but not as much as it would for some I imagine--he's loaded. Like 10+ million. Has a private driver, lives in the Hills, ect. This actually freaks me out a lot. I've never dated a man with money--never ever.
SO--my point is: what do? Should I keep at it? Or not? I'm really confused.....never dealt with this situation before.....?



I usually date older men, but not THAT much older. Plus, I've never dated a man with kids, but he (from what I can tell) is a good dad, but is in a NASTY custody battle with his ex-wife. Which is obviously a baggage/drama overload. Plus, of course, he's a customer. Urgh.
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