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    Arrow Rookie question & what to ask stripper to get her talking..

    #1. How do you get the convo going with a stripper who doesnt talk that much without crossing a line by asking personal info ..and #2 how often do strippers kiss/make-out with customers in the vip? (most strippers ive been with really avoid lip2lip,tounge2tounge action. not that i go looking for it but one can tell when you are that close to someone, lol.)

    Thanks any help is appreciated and hope to add some reviews later on and share some more experiences.
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    Default Re: Rookie question & what to ask stripper to get her talking..

    Also another question for any dancers here.. what do you like customers to say/tell you in general and during a VIP dance or is silence prefered? I mean of course i tip so she knows i must of enjoyed it but i thought it would be nice to verbally let her know that she is doing a good job or that i appreciate it. or should i keep my trap shut.
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    Default Re: Rookie question & what to ask stripper to get her talking..

    Were not there for you to get personal information or to talk! Were there to make money! We dont come to your job and waste your time do we?

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    Default Re: Rookie question & what to ask stripper to get her talking..

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    Maybe i should tip when shes sitting next to me? (not being sarcastic..) What would be a good amount... how much convo should i expect for say $5? $10?...
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    Default Re: Rookie question & what to ask stripper to get her talking..

    And I wasnt trying to be a bitch but seriously if were talking to you for more than a few minutes it cuts into our income. And it depends on if the club is busy or dead or in between, if its totally dead than yes I may spend more time with you but I still want money and if its busy or I have regualars coming in or privates waiting then it costs more.

    Every girl in the business is different. This is just how I am! So its hard to say because Im sure that 95% or more of the girls in the business dont come on sites like SW! Most havent heard of it or want to keep a low profile or whatever reason.

    That said its hard to say what the going rate is.. I 'm there to make money not friends.

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    Default Re: Rookie question & what to ask stripper to get her talking..

    Thank you for your input, appreciate it.

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    Default Re: Rookie question & what to ask stripper to get her talking..

    If you just want to get the conversation rolling before dances to see if you think she's nice you can ask:

    1. Where else have you worked?

    2. Do you like working here?

    3. Do you have any hobbies/interests?

    4. If you could make money off of anything, what would you be doing? (Double score if she says dancing )


    As far as kissing, most dancers don't. I think it is sort of regionalized but in most places it's illegal, & so the girls doing it are providing "extras". In some parts of the country it's common though, particularly dancer to dancer or dancers who take female patrons on stage.
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    Default Re: Rookie question & what to ask stripper to get her talking..

    and if she looks bored its probably a sign from god that shes bored with you, especially if youre not paying for her time or just plan boring (not saying you directly but customers in general) because if I get bored I will leave and move onto greener pastures and bigger wallets.

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    Default Re: Rookie question & what to ask stripper to get her talking..

    So what kind of tip would you guys reccomend when a dancer sits and talks with you for say 5min, 10min? Does buying her drinks count if she keeps accepting them or should i also tip and not consider the drinks as included in tip just a nice gesture since she didnt ask, i offered.

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    Default Re: Rookie question & what to ask stripper to get her talking..

    tips really depend. if it was slow and you were buying drinks, getting dances, and tipped extra for the dances, i'd say that 5-10 min of talking beforehand are just part of the deal. but i actually like to build a bit of rapport with a custy before i dance for him if i can. that's how i am. but it depends on the club a lot, how much the dances cost, how much of that the dancer keeps, etc. tips are always nice, though. if tipping is expected at the club, i'd guesstimate that a fair tip would be around half of what dances would cost for the same amount of time. 10 min would be 2-3 songs.

    kissing is extremely uncommon. even girls who give really raunchy dances will talk shit about a girl who kisses custies. it's not as bad as sex or a bj or even a hj, but it's still pretty bad.

    as for what to talk about, it really doesn't matter. anything you want really. the important thing is to not give her shit if she doesn't know what you're talking about, or decide not to get a dance just because now you know she doesn't give a shit about sports or politics or whatever. and don't hold it against her if she does. and if you don't believe her, don't give her shit for that either. if you don't like her answer, it's your fault for asking.
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    Default Re: Rookie question & what to ask stripper to get her talking..

    im new to the scene so anything helps, honestly i thought it was harmless and fine since she iniatated it i didnt really think it would be grouped in with any "extras" I mean don't get me wrong it seemed very playful and innocent and all but Is this normally a no-no that can get you kicked out/banned?

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    Default Re: Rookie question & what to ask stripper to get her talking..

    I have seen guys lick the butt holes of dancers on stage. ASK me if I would put my mouth on one of the men in the clubs. That is just nasty. As far as wasting time talking to a customer who is trying to befriend me really. How lame is it to come to a strip club to pick up women. You want a want to sit and chit chat with YOU???? then I suggest you go to your nearest bar. Buy that fully clothed woman a drink ask her a bunch of personal questions and let it move from there. IN a strip club remember the women are working straight for tips and if they don't make the money then their children don't get feed. Please do not waste the dancers time.

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