I'm sure you know this by now, but I'm pretty slick. I don't stall on my sales & I always find a way to ask. See my statement again.
If you come into the club I don't know you from anyone else, therefore I don't know how much you've spent at clubs in the past. There's no membership card for high rollers who spend in strip clubs to identify themselves - & the closest thing to that would be a black AMEX card, which still doesn't guarantee he'll spend at the club. If there were such an identifiable card, trust me, I'd be on you like white on rice.

It doesn't exist though, therefore I have no way of knowing.
Kylea I wish theyd have a system like the casinos do for whales and high rollers. If the guy comes in they could tell a hostess or someone.
While I do love talking to customers, if I talked to each one of them for 10 - 15 minutes I would lose out on a lot of money, particularly in clubs that don't offer any sort of VIP/Champagne room. AGAIN, when I say "close out the conversation" that doesn't mean that I say "Hey, I've got to go do this dance. Enjoy your drink", nor do I say "Well, I need to go do this dance... unless you want to take me back" - both of those would be tacky.
I've already told the second customer that he needs to wait until I'm finished with my first customer, I put no time restriction on how long the second customer needs to wait. I will operate on the exact same time & conversation schedule that I normally do,
but I will ask the customer again if he'd like to go for a dance, even if I've already asked. If he says no, but seems cordial, I usually tell him that I'm going to give him a chance to talk to some of the other ladies & I will come check back in on him later. That's an easy way of saying "It seems like you are still window shopping, so I'm going to let you look around, & then I'll come talk to you again to see if you are ready to buy".
Exactly!
You both need to re-read what I wrote the first time though. To re-iterate:
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