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    Default boyfriend doesnt call back

    i know, its classic. He says he'll call back later then doesnt. Is it a guy thing?

    no -_-

    bleh. dont know if he does it on puropse or unitentionally. stillll -_____-

    i will NOT facebook him asking why he didnt call. Ill just leave it at that


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    Don't call him. People who do this are showing they have bad communication skills & are disrespectful. I've been there/done that with ex's. There's a guy that I'm friends with right now who does that, & I know he wants more - which is funny since he does this. I mean honestly, why would I consider him for something more when he can't even do what he says he's going to do?!

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    Been there. I never understood how can you be in a relationship with someone and show them lack of basic respect. Back in the day, when it would happen, I'd call until he'd answer, because I'd get worried. Then I started to ignore it and wait till he'd call back or turn off my phone when I'd go to sleep, which I didn't do before, since he calls at odd times (different time zones). A few times he got upset and worried that I didn't answer his calls and these days he's much better about calling back when he said he would. Still happens sometimes, but eh. Nobody's perfect.

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    Some people just hate phones. Sometimes "i'll call you" means "i'll call you if i have anything important to tell you", and the answer is usually no.

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    Been there too. It's one of only two things. Bad manners - or he's just not that keen. Incredible isn't it....they either do this...or they're so clingy it gets creepy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pussyinboots View Post
    Been there too. It's one of only two things. Bad manners - or he's just not that keen. Incredible isn't it....they either do this...or they're so clingy it gets creepy.

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    Yep. I hate both extremes. I once had a boyfriend who called me every single day and stopped by everyday. Drove me nuts but so did the guys who said they would call and never did (or called months later, no kidding).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    Don't call him. People who do this are showing they have bad communication skills & are disrespectful. I've been there/done that with ex's. There's a guy that I'm friends with right now who does that, & I know he wants more - which is funny since he does this. I mean honestly, why would I consider him for something more when he can't even do what he says he's going to do?!

    If I'm going to be in a relationship with someone I expect them to be honest & respectful to me. If they can't do that then they don't deserve me.
    i've had guys like that too. it's so funny.

    i remember one at one point complaining about his ex and how she always wanted attention, and how i was so cool because i didn't. like, dude, i don't mind you not calling me because we're just friends. if i started dating you, you'd be bitching about me being needy too.

    i basically don't date at all anymore, but at this point i give them one chance. if they do it once, i warn them that i'll walk away if they do it again. then if they do it again, they know they deserve it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by yogibear179 View Post
    i know, its classic. He says he'll call back later then doesnt. Is it a guy thing?

    no -_-

    bleh. dont know if he does it on puropse or unitentionally. stillll -_____-

    i will NOT facebook him asking why he didnt call. Ill just leave it at that
    Yes, it is a guy thing. The phone is a device we use to get quick answers and confirmation, then we're done. At ten minutes your just warming up and we have said everything. At fifteen minutes our ear hurts and we have to switch. Then it is time.......................... sorry mid wandered. Yes, love it honey. Thats great.

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    ^ After knowing my ex, I've became like that. Its nothing personal either, when I get random calls from friends, I do enjoy the talk (but remember its female-female) conversations can go on and on. While when a male friend, or a male in gerenal that calls me, it will be a 5 min conversation, "Hi, how are you, this time, ok cya then" Thats it hah.

    I've been there, having guys telling me they would call and didnt. It shows their respect level. If he isnt a phone person, he should at least let you know. My ex has said it to me many times, he doesnt like the phone, and I didnt understand and wanted to talk everyday (woo me) that I annoyed him. I see how that feels now.. I would just lay low, keep busy and when he calls and says sorry, you gö "Im sorry, what, Im busy" I hate it when a man says that though, and doesnt call, at least say you'll "call later on in the week" or something... If it bothering you, do bring it up when you see him so you both undestand what level you two are on.

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