








i guess IMO i dont see the point of coming onto SW to con a board.it seems like there are much better groups to con in real life. like real strippers at a real strip club. i dont see him reaping any benifits if his posts were manipulative. His OP was just thanking us for being around when he was dating his ex and she dealt with the struggles of being a stripper--- i dont see what is unrealistic or manipulative about this. SW has helped most of us at one point or another with the more difficult parts of stripping.
The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.









Who said he's trying to 'con' the group? I see no reward for doing this. Maybe it's just opinions of the jaded people vs. the sensitive people.
I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.
Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.
NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.




I didn't say he is, I was just pointing out that the fact that he appears genuine does not mean he is not a con man. It may just mean he is a good con man.
I'm not jaded - there really are such things as PUAs. And because some are good at it, it's hard to tell them from genuine guys. I'm not passing judgment on this one, I just commented on the very obviously suspicious things about the guy. They could mean nothing, but they are suspicious to me nonetheless.
If he does have ulterior motives, he could believe his own BS, so it wouldn't necessarily be a black-and-white case of malicious intent. As someone commented earlier, some of these guys believe their own BS. We are all prone to that.Even malicious people justify their actions to themselves. And so they can appear genuine, because to themselves, they are genuine at some level.
Welcome to politics.




Yet long-time members here can remember it happening a number of times, and working very well.
What would be some benefits of being a PUA at a stripper site? Well, many of them are hot girls. And you know there are such things as trolls, right? Some people do it just for fun, or to feel clever, because they have nothing else important to do.
Yes, his story might be genuine. Or it could be flim flam. And in either case a good PUA could use it to get more strippers. Just saying! How can I know what the guy thinks? I'm not his psychiatrist. Like I said, you can't tell the good PUAs from genuine guys and sometimes they don't even know what they are.
If I may try a little amateur psychiatry, though: The strippers here generally think deadxstop is "hot" and a nice, sensitive, devoted guy etc. Hence many would like him to "pick them up". But they would never like to admit that they are being picked up through deceit. And even granting the possibility that he is manipulative, they would like to hold on to the other possibility: that if they were picked up, he would turn out to be that guy - their guy. It happened to his ex, so it could happen to another lucky, special stripper. So for these reasons it could be in the self-interests of strippers here to resist the idea that he is manipulating them.
Don't tell me none of you were at least thinking this. You think he is hot, and you think he is sweet.
But I welcome the guy too. Let's see what happens.



Regardless of anything I enjoyed reading his post.




Here's the thing about this guy, he seems to be going for the triple play. Not only does he get to stalk out his ex-girlfriend's past online haunts and paint a vivid image of a "rarely sober," alcoholic, drug-addicted stripper whore, whilst portraying himself as the steadfast white knight boyfriend who tried to "coach" her.... But he also gets to promote his books and website. To top it off, he might just be able to reel in some more fresh meat to be the surprise subject of his next chapter (physically or even just virtually).
I can recall some recent issues (and I won't name names) where one girl's ex came on here trying to harass her and call her unappreciative (even though he used her money for his family's business). There was another where her exes parents came on here and started exposing all of her personal stuff. This guy is doing the same thing, he's just packaged in it vivid writing. (Even I'll admit it is talented writing, but it's poetic sans the justice).
I surely hope other poster's exes won't come onto SW and tell us all their personal, private dirty laundry without their permission.





Wait, so because I think he's a good looking guy, I'm being manipulated and want to date him?
I didn't even read his post until now.
I am suspicious of this type of OP to be honest but I will allow it to play out for a while.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
I don't have any background information...I was just going by my gut after being here for so many years. Closing this thread. The OP will prove himself out one way or the other.
FBR
Last edited by FBR; 12-11-2010 at 06:59 PM. Reason: .
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
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