I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months, we've had our ups and downs, and i have found out today that he has been cheating on me, weekly, with different girls the wholetime.
I went away for the weekend and when i came back he wasnt back from work...he ame home an hour later...it was fine but i was so paranoid i went thru his phone to find, in a nutshell he's been texting ringing, pic msging girls the whole weekend. He shagged one on sun morning and got sucked off by another sun evening while i was travelling back to him.
I asked him and he confessed all...
I am so hurt, i know ive been stupid cause i knew something was going on but i loved him so much i let it go, i thought i was going crazy, i wasnt, it was all true.
I gave up dancing, my family, my friends, my job, my whole life to be with him, and he has thrown it back in my face, ive moved out and am at home but im really really hurting, i cant believe how humiliated and embaressed i feel, and even more fucking stupid, id go back to him in a heartbeat...
just needed to get it off my chest and hopefully get some msgs of love from you girls, i know weve all been there, help me stay strong cause im flailing a bit at the moment, cant eat, cant sleep, just want to fade away to be honest..
sorry for being so miserable im just so hearbroken its killing me..
xxx



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What a jerk! *hugs*
is it sad that i read ur post and ive just tear-ed up like a saddo! I knew u guys would make me feel better! Least i can go back dancing now, im so glad i can come on here again, and buy 7 inch shoes! First thing i did when i get home was have a cigarette and get onto the clubs in my area!
I know it's not much of a consolation, but at least you found out about his cheating ways fairly early into the relationship, and you hadn't invested years in to it, or got married or anything.


. Anyhow, people tend to always put on weight when they are in relationships. We get comfortable, we eat meals on a more regular bases, & we often base entertainment around eating. Don't think he had the right to cheat on you because of that! Chances are he slowly changed too & you probably didn't even notice. Just take the extra time while you are single to tone up again, part of which will happen naturally.


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