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    On TER, a provider could potentially receive a 10 without anal if she offers DFK, BBBJ, and is really bi. There aren't a lot of 10s and 9s. And escort could offer DFK (and no anal nor BBBJ nor bi) and rock guys world with her service and still be able to get 8s, which is very good.

    In reality, the rating system is not much more than better-than-nothing. Most of the TER reviews are worthless (fake reviews for good or for bad, poorly done, little info, wrong info).

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    Quote Originally Posted by genevievela View Post
    True. There is something to be said about a board where their reviews (higher ratings) are dependent on the level of "service" an Escort provides. Example - A girl can only receive a 10 if she provides anal etc. The ratings are based on and are higher when a girl offers unprotected services - bbbj and higher risk services - anal.
    NOT TRUE ! I personally know several ladies who routinely get "9" 's and even "10" 's without offering bareback sex or anal. Yes. Generally the higher the score for performance, the more "adventurous the provider. So what ?

    Are there some phony reviews on TER ? Probably, but a few providers have been kicked off and banned for self posting reviews.

    Do some hobbyists routinely give inflated scores to providers ? Yes but the discerning can usually pick them out .

    If TER were so "terrible" and so "worthless" then why do so many hobbyists and providers participate on the boards ? Why are the M & G's so uniformly successful ?

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    I have 2 reviews on TER, an 8 and a 9 respectively. I dont offer bbbj or anal. It's all about your attitude. I'm very nice, very friendly, and just a really sweet, genuine person. One client even wrote that he forgot he was using a service. That's how I play the game, and I haven't had any complaints as of yet. I guess everybody's take on it is different. All I know is that I will continue to be true to myself, and I'll be damned if some stupid review board is going to pressure me to do anything I don't feel comfortable doing. If somebody's that desperate for cash, or has such low self-esteem, to the point where they will break under pressure to perform certain acts they don't feel comfortable with...they need to GTFO quick!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gabrielle_xoxo View Post
    I have 2 reviews on TER, an 8 and a 9 respectively. I dont offer bbbj or anal. It's all about your attitude. I'm very nice, very friendly, and just a really sweet, genuine person. One client even wrote that he forgot he was using a service. That's how I play the game, and I haven't had any complaints as of yet. I guess everybody's take on it is different. All I know is that I will continue to be true to myself, and I'll be damned if some stupid review board is going to pressure me to do anything I don't feel comfortable doing. If somebody's that desperate for cash, or has such low self-esteem, to the point where they will break under pressure to perform certain acts they don't feel comfortable with...they need to GTFO quick!
    Exactly ! with one little quibble. It's not the review board that generates the "pressure". It's the clients. I know several "safety girls' who routinely get good reviews on TER and another board.

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    Off topic, but funny non-the-less. Last night I received a text asking if I did bbbj. (Why are some guys sooo stupid? I don't care how "cool" this guy may have been, doesn't he realize I will NEVER see him now, and forced to block?) Anyway, I texted him back explaining what he was asking for was illegal, and I offered companionship services only. I said good luck in your search, and have a great night! He then counters with..."Well lets just say you had a boyfriend, would you do it then?" I explained I was single, so I wouldn't know. He then said "Oh, you don't understand, this is all over your head" LoL! Normally I wouldn't have responded at all after the first text, but I was bored and just felt like fucking with him, lol. Oh and he's blocked now...dumbass!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gabrielle_xoxo View Post
    Off topic, but funny non-the-less. Last night I received a text asking if I did bbbj. (Why are some guys sooo stupid? I don't care how "cool" this guy may have been, doesn't he realize I will NEVER see him now, and forced to block?) Anyway, I texted him back explaining what he was asking for was illegal, and I offered companionship services only. I said good luck in your search, and have a great night! He then counters with..."Well lets just say you had a boyfriend, would you do it then?" I explained I was single, so I wouldn't know. He then said "Oh, you don't understand, this is all over your head" LoL! Normally I wouldn't have responded at all after the first text, but I was bored and just felt like fucking with him, lol. Oh and he's blocked now...dumbass!
    Indeed he is and you are being smart. NEVER discuss specific activities on the phone or in writing.
    NEVER !

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    ^^^NO NO NO!!! I'm not going down FUCK THAT!!! Google Voice makes it vey easy to block anybody...use it girls and BLOCK anybody and everybody that mentions anything of the sort! Like I said earlier, if you are that desperate for cash you need to GTFO quick! Your life will be that much more fucked if you take certain risks...always stay alert and dont take any chances! I cannot stress this enough.

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    Oh gosh yes. On my first tour, I had someone email me - someone who, funnily enough, I am 80% sure I went to high school with - requesting some extremely explicit activities, and this was in his initial contact email. (To the guys we know are reading, never do this. Never.)

    Of course, I deleted it without response... and it was a shame too, because if it was who I'm pretty sure it was, he would have done it completely without thinking. If I won't take that chance with someone I probably grew up with I am certainly not going to take it with a stranger.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarvelGirl View Post
    I'm really glad some people found this helpful. I just want to say a couple of more things.

    1)This isn't about bragging. I make a VERY small income from my escorting at this point even though I charge much more than normal. That's my whole point.

    Any girl can charge anything she wants but if she starts with a super high rate, she might NEVER get an appointment. Most of the girls with very high rates are relying on old clients from when they charged LESS who were extremely generous.



    2)Pornstars might get that amount of money regularly. The only pornstar escorts I know work for agencies and their rates are well over $1000 but they only get 40 to 60 percent of that. I don't know of any independent pornstar escorts in the states but that might be more common in other countries. Or I could be totally out of the loop on that front. I don't claim to know everything.


    3)ANY escort can charge over $1000 an hour. If she's cool with waiting two years (or more) for her first appointment, then that's her deal. If she would starve to death while waiting, then it's probably not a good idea.
    Pornstars and non-pornstars alike in nyc with an agency were charging between 1500-3000. The biggest porn star agency only takes a flat rate which works out to slightly less than 1/3.



    Most escorts I know have two ads one for $500 and one for $1000 and until the recession they were making more money from their VIP $1000 ads with several calls, doing huge multiple hours per week minimum. Recession prices forced some to lower their rates a little. Yes it is tougher out there now for everyone but certainly not the way you describe it.

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    I think it's really too bad that some girls use their rates to put others down. I thought the point of raising rates was to exclude a lot of business, not because you think you're better. If you don't want to see too many clients then you raise your rates so only guys who are willing and able to pay that amount will give you business. In my opinion women rarely start out at rates $1k & up. They start at $200-$400-$whatever & eventually realize they deserve better than the $200-$400-$whatever clients. It's not as much about the escort as it is about the clients. Or they have a job that prevents them from seeing a large number of clients. If you can only see people on Wednesday evening & Saturday morning then it wouldn't be worth it to charge only $200.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AnnelieseBell View Post
    I think it's really too bad that some girls use their rates to put others down. I thought the point of raising rates was to exclude a lot of business, not because you think you're better. If you don't want to see too many clients then you raise your rates so only guys who are willing and able to pay that amount will give you business. In my opinion women rarely start out at rates $1k & up. They start at $200-$400-$whatever & eventually realize they deserve better than the $200-$400-$whatever clients. It's not as much about the escort as it is about the clients. Or they have a job that prevents them from seeing a large number of clients. If you can only see people on Wednesday evening & Saturday morning then it wouldn't be worth it to charge only $200.
    I try very very hard not to put others down, but the fact of the matter is, the working conditions are sufficiently different that you simply can't relate all that well; they're not your colleagues. Anything I vent about now just comes off as implying that I'm better than them because, again, difference of conditions, creating hostility. The lower-end hourly workers then start being aggressive, and it takes a very gracious person to ignore their misbehavior; put downs often feel appropriate. Solidarity works both ways and I'm sick of effectively being silenced. I swear, if the hookers grinding away at $300/hr saw for themselves the absolutely insane amount of admin work required to reliably get business at the $2k line, they'd shush instead of seeing dollar signs and losing their heads.

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    Quote Originally Posted by abarrett View Post
    I try very very hard not to put others down, but the fact of the matter is, the working conditions are sufficiently different that you simply can't relate all that well; they're not your colleagues. Anything I vent about now just comes off as implying that I'm better than them because, again, difference of conditions, creating hostility. The lower-end hourly workers then start being aggressive, and it takes a very gracious person to ignore their misbehavior; put downs often feel appropriate. Solidarity works both ways and I'm sick of effectively being silenced. I swear, if the hookers grinding away at $300/hr saw for themselves the absolutely insane amount of admin work required to reliably get business at the $2k line, they'd shush instead of seeing dollar signs and losing their heads.
    Admittedly, I live in a blue collar town, but I never see high end ads for over 500, most on eros are in the 3-400 range for a high. You have piqued my interest, would you mind posting a link to one of your ads? I'd love to see what a $2k escort looks like.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    Admittedly, I live in a blue collar town, but I never see high end ads for over 500, most on eros are in the 3-400 range for a high. You have piqued my interest, would you mind posting a link to one of your ads? I'd love to see what a $2k escort looks like.
    Gameover, if you look at AnnelieseBell's signature line her website gives her rates. It's 2k for four hours and 7k for a day. The high end women that I know go for that or more. Keep in mind that a semi-well known model or actress can go for a very high amount. I think that this is one reason women are trying to become Instagram famous. It allows them to charge quite a bit more. There is the old saying that I believe is true: there's no such thing as a 2k an hour escort, only a 2k an hour client. If you look at the amount of work these girls have to put in to achieve this level, I may be proven wrong.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NoRegrets View Post
    Gameover, if you look at AnnelieseBell's signature line her website gives her rates. It's 2k for four hours and 7k for a day. The high end women that I know go for that or more. Keep in mind that a semi-well known model or actress can go for a very high amount. I think that this is one reason women are trying to become Instagram famous. It allows them to charge quite a bit more. There is the old saying that I believe is true: there's no such thing as a 2k an hour escort, only a 2k an hour client. If you look at the amount of work these girls have to put in to achieve this level, I may be proven wrong.
    Thanks, but I was referring to hourly rates, not extended blocks of time. I'd consider that a $500 hourly rate, not a $2k one.

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    I'm glad that you are telling it like it is. And you are absolutely correct about that. They don't make the high amounts that they claim. $400/hour is not high end, but sadly a lot of girls aren't even able to get that now. The best idea if you are above market rate or even at market rate is to have a full time day job. Let's face it. This doesn't last forever and when the economy goes south, it hits us the hardest.

    I don't like the cheap ho/high escort debate. Most the cheaper girls are either trying to stay busy (who the hell wants to sit around and wait for the phone to ring all day) or they are trafficked unfortunately. I used to get pissed at them, too, until I realized the reality of their situation.

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