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    Default In how many ways are strippers different about sex than the average woman?

    How does this job influence a woman and make her different from the AVERAGE woman in your country, if it does at all?

    Besides being exposed to male fantasies more?
    In large quantities/ for extended periods of time, do you think it could be unhealthy?
    What types of psychological pressures are there, exactly?

    I know some women feel their sex drives turn off, and others feel more turned on...
    For Bisexual girls, do you tend to feel more straight certain times, and more gay certain times?

    Does sex become associated with "performance" to you?

    Does it feel especially fun or especially disgusting to try rougher sex (S&M, etc), or only at certain times?

    Are these things that you recover from when you stop dancing for a while, or are they things that you pick up and can never get rid of... like breaking a sort of metaphorical hymen?



    I'm not even sure anymore... i havent had intimate conversations with female friends in a long time. I know this topic has been discussed before, but I don't mind an update.

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    Default Re: In how many ways are strippers different about sex than the average woman?

    I'll say dancing probably helps me keep my sex drive up, probably because it forces me to stay physically appealing & to express a certain amount of sexuality. Knowing that my hair, nails, skin all look good & the way I move or what I say attracts attention, all of that makes you feel desired. I think for many people their sex drive turns off when they don't feel desired & they feel like they can't express themselves.

    I am sure part of what I feel doesn't go for all dancers. Many probably feel drained by having to exude a certain heir of seduction, but for me it is very beneficial.
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    in general, it helps my sex drive increase when i feel good about myself and look good (like kylea2 said^^) but it DEFINITELY goes down when i have a bad night being groped by nasty poor men all night and the LAST thing i want to do is be touched lol. i just want to shower and go to bed

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    Sex drive? What's that?

    I think dancing hurts my sex drive. Yes, I am more confidant, but my confidence or self esteem was never an issue in my sex life before I danced, so that hardly counts as a plus for me.

    Because I'm made out to be a sexual object all day, I'm very sensitive about being appreciated as a PERSON outside of work. I'll be the first to admit that I'm somewhat jaded about men now - in general I think they're all scum who like at me like some insatiable sex kitten. When I come home to my boyfriend at night, I (unfairly and repeatedly) want him to prove to me that he's not lie those other men, who are just horny bastards and only think I'm good for my tits. I what him to tell me he loves me for me, and not my sex or the way I look. Of course, deep I my heart I KNOW he loves me, and he tells me all the time, but when I get home from work I'm cold and bitchy, and it took a little soul searching and deep thinking to figure out why I do this.

    Of course, it takes a toll on our sex life. I hold out on him because I'm tired of the men I subject myself to everynight at work. It's not fair to either of us.... Sex, when we do have it, is so relaxing and stress releaving and fun.



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    i am\ at the turn off side...

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    hasn't had any effect on me, except i'm not in the mood after work. i can't make money if i'm horny, so i learned to turn that off at work, and it's hard to turn it back on after. i couldn't even masturbate. the drive is just gone. comes back after a good night's sleep, or even if i've got a bunch of time after work to unwind. then i can feel sexual again.
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    It's a job and does zero for my sex drive.

    I would have to say strippers are probably more confident about their bodies because they see so many real ones that aren't air brushed.




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    We do it better in bed than those fat prudish insecure nonstrippers
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    Working makes me MORE horny... not because of the gross men, but the bewbies!

    My boyfriend knew me long before I was a stripper and I know he loves me for who I am, not my body. If I had to deal with a "regular" guy, it would probably be different. But I think my sex drive is the same as it's always been.

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    Default Re: In how many ways are strippers different about sex than the average woman?

    I think it helped my drive simply by making me less stressed out. When I was stressing about money a lot, I had a very lot drive ( duh ) .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lillionaire View Post
    How does this job influence a woman and make her different from the AVERAGE woman in your country, if it does at all?

    Besides being exposed to male fantasies more?
    In large quantities/ for extended periods of time, do you think it could be unhealthy?
    What types of psychological pressures are there, exactly?

    I know some women feel their sex drives turn off, and others feel more turned on...
    For Bisexual girls, do you tend to feel more straight certain times, and more gay certain times?

    Does sex become associated with "performance" to you?

    Does it feel especially fun or especially disgusting to try rougher sex (S&M, etc), or only at certain times?

    Are these things that you recover from when you stop dancing for a while, or are they things that you pick up and can never get rid of... like breaking a sort of metaphorical hymen?



    I'm not even sure anymore... i havent had intimate conversations with female friends in a long time. I know this topic has been discussed before, but I don't mind an update.
    the only thing it has possibly changed is that im more picky?
    other than that my work life doesnt affect my sex life. im a stripper, not a prostitute...so why would it? i dont perform sex for a living so no, sex is never a "performance"
    im also a very honest stripper though, and i dont do the dirty talking thing or try to seduce guys sexually...so maybe thats why it has no effect on it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    We do it better in bed than those fat prudish insecure nonstrippers
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    i totally agree. we ABSOLUTELY do it better in bed than those fat prudish insecure nonstrippers!!!
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    Default Re: In how many ways are strippers different about sex than the average woman?

    Im really confident being naked obviously. I walk around naked all the time and I dont mind contorting into all sorts of positions with every light in the house on. I think thats something that would make a normal woman cringe. One of my friends lives with an escort and I was at his house one day and I was walking around naked in bright light. She was shocked. I was like "huh? I thought she's an escort?" but he said apparently in his experience (he knows a lot of escorts and strippers) that strippers are a lot more confident about their bodies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    Im really confident being naked obviously. I walk around naked all the time and I dont mind contorting into all sorts of positions with every light in the house on. I think thats something that would make a normal woman cringe. One of my friends lives with an escort and I was at his house one day and I was walking around naked in bright light. She was shocked. I was like "huh? I thought she's an escort?" but he said apparently in his experience (he knows a lot of escorts and strippers) that strippers are a lot more confident about their bodies.
    hmm that is really intersting!

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    I take things slower with guys. I dont want them to see me as just a girl to fuck-I want them to try and see past the madonna/whore complex they have.

    When I get off of work, the last thing on my mind is sex. During the day before work I either avoid making eye contact with men (im not getting paid to flirt with you at the gas station buddy), or I feel sext knowing that im going to dance that night. it just depends on my mood

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    My sex drive hasn't been effected either way. Dancing or no. Confidence is the same, performance is the same, the only thing that's different is where I work.

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    I'm with 4resolutions on this one. I get exactly what you are talking about, and I don;t quite know how to stop it. Often before I have sex with my long-term partner I have to be convinced he doesn't just want me for sex. Which rationally is crazy, we have been together 5 years and have 2 kids fgs! but I think it stems from having guys just look at you sexually all day and hearing them on the phone all the time (I'm a stripper and 'bodyrub provider' - in the uk we call it sensual masseuse).

    Although my actual sex drive hasn't changed thankfully, although when I was an escort, I couldn't bear even my partner to touch me unless I had at least a week off work, so that wasn't good for me. Now I'm fine and just have the wobbles with "you're not just with me for sex are you?" . Sounds so pathetic written down lol..

    I'm actually a little shy about my body at work since I have mega-stretchmarks, but I just force myself to get out there and soon feel heaps better. At home I couldn't care less, no hang ups at all (-:

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    I can suck a man drier than the Sahara!
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    i think my sex drive has always been really high compared to most. at work when its slow dancers and bartenders get together and talk about our sex lives and i made them scream and blush. the problem i have is most of the guys ive dated has had problems with my job and dont want to put out. or at least thats the excuse.

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