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    Default Re: bad/stupid idea??

    Nothing wrong with sleeping with someone just for the hell of it, but just be safe. You met him as a customer, be careful. Not saying don't do it, but get to know him better.

    Perhaps you could suggest you go out in a very public place together, say, dinner, shopping or clubbing. Then if you still feel comfortable with him, you could decide to go to his house another time. If he gets angry or insistent, that's an alarm bell. A genuine guy that age would understand if a 19-year-old wants to move slowly.

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    anyone wanna kno what happened????
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    sooooo....i drove to truckee. he has this really nice cute cabin with a huskie. he was dressed all nice, black button up shirt. he had picked out four different wines for me to choose from. we ended up having drinks, he even has a bar with every kind of liquor. then we went out to this bar, and he got filet minon (however you spell it) and i got just steak and ordered a vodka cranberry. we went back to his house sat by the fire listened to music and talked. started making out, it was getting really hot, i just blurted i think we should fuck(it was on my terms) so we went to his bedroom and wow huge dick!!! it sucked i couldnt get off or get very wet cuz of the alcohol but w/e....he wouldnt get off until i did. but so yea i spent the night and woke up in the morning and hungout had breakfast with him (he didnt want me to leave!) so i left fairly early and drove home. he sent me a text letting me know he set up dinner reservation for tues at this italian restaraunt......i know this whole thing turned out great almost too good to be tru. yea yea....i know it sounds like i move fast huh? im addicted to lust
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    Quote Originally Posted by jules477 View Post
    sooooo....i drove to truckee. he has this really nice cute cabin with a huskie. he was dressed all nice, black button up shirt. he had picked out four different wines for me to choose from. we ended up having drinks, he even has a bar with every kind of liquor. then we went out to this bar, and he got filet minon (however you spell it) and i got just steak and ordered a vodka cranberry. we went back to his house sat by the fire listened to music and talked. started making out, it was getting really hot, i just blurted i think we should fuck(it was on my terms) so we went to his bedroom and wow huge dick!!! it sucked i couldnt get off or get very wet cuz of the alcohol but w/e....he wouldnt get off until i did. but so yea i spent the night and woke up in the morning and hungout had breakfast with him (he didnt want me to leave!) so i left fairly early and drove home. he sent me a text letting me know he set up dinner reservation for tues at this italian restaraunt......i know this whole thing turned out great almost too good to be tru. yea yea....i know it sounds like i move fast huh? im addicted to lust
    Good to know that you're ok! Still be careful, but have fun, and buy yourself something special with his money for me okay!
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    Quote Originally Posted by blackbetty View Post
    and buy yourself something special with his money for me okay!

    haha no shit!

    glad things went good!!

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    I'm glad you ended up safe, but I won't say you did the right thing, nor do I feel confident in future encounters.

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    Yup I agree w/ the other girls.. Glad your safe, but the profitable money from him would be lost

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    he wasnt going to come back and spend money on me anyways u kno? it was a one time club thing. but thanks for your support girlies!
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    I am glad you are fine and it went well, but realize you were very lucky. You got some great advice in this thread and keep all of it in mind.

    I know you are 19 and still young (and when I was your age I did some pretty dangerous things too) but for some reason younger women are more risk takers than they should be. I've heard so many stories of women meeting a guy for the first time and and going to his house. Maybe it's because I am older (and presumably wiser but not sure about that) but I am very careful when first meeting a guy. When I date I wait months before I would go to his house, unless he was someone I already knew. Many women don't and they pay the price. I've heard so many stories of women attacked or even murdered because of meeting a guy.

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    I think the stupid/bad ideas are just more exciting and more fun. I can tell I'm doing something risky and stupid, but I can't make myself stop. Drinking too much, the one night stands, falling in love with the guy that treated me like crap, going out to party on Halloween by myself, going home with a strange group of guys, the gangbangs, falling in love with one of the guys involved. None of that was even remotely smart. I don't think of myself as stupid, but even I think there must be something wrong with me when I read what I just typed.

    Maybe we're just young enough to still think we're invincible? Maybe we just never out grow that at all. My friend has a 9 year old daughter who thinks she knows everything. I'm horrified. But then I'm a 19 year old who really does know everything. I'm sure in 10 years I'll look back and want to slap myself too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by prettysammie View Post
    Maybe we're just young enough to still think we're invincible? Maybe we just never out grow that at all. My friend has a 9 year old daughter who thinks she knows everything. I'm horrified. But then I'm a 19 year old who really does know everything. I'm sure in 10 years I'll look back and want to slap myself too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    At least you've figured out that part...
    Wait, you want to slap me?!? I'm sorry.

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    i know this whole thing turned out great almost too good to be tru. yea yea....i know it sounds like i move fast huh? im addicted to lust
    There's absolutely nothing wrong with a little lust ( or for that matter a LOT of lust ) every once in a while.

    The only major worry here was that you originally met this guy in the context of a strip club. You got lucky ... this time !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie View Post
    The only major worry here was that you originally met this guy in the context of a strip club. You got lucky ... this time !
    Yeah, I'd have to agree with this.

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    Wait, you want to slap me?!? I'm sorry.
    I really don't think that's what she meant.
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