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    Working in the adult industry I am quite used to my fair share of unusual requests. However I am getting sick to death of guys calling asking if we provide escorts.

    Surely if we did provide escorts we would call ourselves "XXXTC Escorts" and not "XXXTC Strippers". What part of "stripper" do you think means escort/prostitute?

    Where do these douche bags get our number from? I know I haven't listed the business details anywhere advertising as escorts. Is it simply because so many people think strippers are prostitutes in costume?

    I mean no offense to full service providers. Its just you don't call a plumber when you need an electrician.
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    I know all too well what you mean. I used to run a bachelor party service and in all our ads it stated "no prostitution". I would also tell men this upfront. Yet it still didn't stop. I would give them the name of an escort agency I was friendly with (they referred people just looking for dancers to me) and tell them to call them. I think it started because many bachelor party strippers ARE hookers. I never was and none of my dancers ever were (I made them sign papers stating they would never do this).

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    men are stupid! they think they can buy us with a few bucks. its fantasy! if they wan sex for money go to bunnyranch or sheris ranch.

    I have no issue with legalized prostitution- just howits managed! Too many guys wanting to make a quick buck off of girls and not spending money as an investment!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    I know all too well what you mean. I used to run a bachelor party service and in all our ads it stated "no prostitution". I would also tell men this upfront. Yet it still didn't stop. I would give them the name of an escort agency I was friendly with (they referred people just looking for dancers to me) and tell them to call them. I think it started because many bachelor party strippers ARE hookers. I never was and none of my dancers ever were (I made them sign papers stating they would never do this).
    I have a similar arrangement with a couple of escorts I know.

    In Victoria (state where I operate) there is a pretty clear line between stripper and prostitute and its rare for someone to combine the two or crossover.

    Prostitution is legal in Australia, and it couldn't be easier to find a local escort or brothel. Just don't understand why guys would call strippers if they want sex, when its so easy to find what they really want.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xxxtc View Post
    Working in the adult industry I am quite used to my fair share of unusual requests. However I am getting sick to death of guys calling asking if we provide escorts.

    Surely if we did provide escorts we would call ourselves "XXXTC Escorts" and not "XXXTC Strippers". What part of "stripper" do you think means escort/prostitute?

    Where do these douche bags get our number from? I know I haven't listed the business details anywhere advertising as escorts. Is it simply because so many people think strippers are prostitutes in costume?

    I mean no offense to full service providers. Its just you don't call a plumber when you need an electrician.


    I wonder why men think this too but then I'lll hear from a client (I'm an escort) that they went to XXXX club and took a dancer home for $XYZ amount.

    Which pisses me off because that's a job that me or one of my friends could have had.

    THEN, Dancer XXX gets mentioned in the hobbying circle as "being UTR" and will throw a fit when Guy A tells Guy B he saw her and Guy B offers her same deal. Men talk. Maybe not in public but there's hobbying boards and review boards and emails only take a second.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Clare View Post
    I wonder why men think this too but then I'lll hear from a client (I'm an escort) that they went to XXXX club and took a dancer home for $XYZ amount.

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    THEN, Dancer XXX gets mentioned in the hobbying circle as "being UTR" and will throw a fit when Guy A tells Guy B he saw her and Guy B offers her same deal. Men talk. Maybe not in public but there's hobbying boards and review boards and emails only take a second.
    I hear this ALL THE TIME.

    I don't know about Australia but in Canada the lines are blurred sometimes by dancers offering extras, dancers escorting off and on/vice versa and dancers offering "take-out" (usually to certain clients, claiming to be under the radar, etc).

    Also horny men can be stupid and educated primarily by the media... and the media says anyone in the sex industry is automatically a whore, the question is price and how to phrase the request

    Agreed on the frustration - I'm an escort and anyone asking me to dance would get a swift rejection.

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    I get these same calls all the time. Too many people these days think that "strip clubs" are a front for "brothels", & entertainers offering extras inside the club only adds to the problem.

    I have it very well outlined on my ads & on my website that I don't provide anything other than dancing... yet the phone still rings with the same question.

    I think the only way to avoid it is to force customers to pay for their appointments through a web form that doesn't allow notes or questions, & even then customers will likely ask the dancers in person, so I'd rather they just ask me before I have an appointment with them - that way I can tell them "no".
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    Call me weird but if you say you don't do sexual activities and they still ask, why not just make it a form with a little box at the bottom saying you read and understand what is told. And if they sign they have to make a pre-deposit (for gas and time) that will not be returned just cause they thought it was a joke or whatever... If you go by internet.

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    OOh! I get asked this constantly - in Canada (in BC) where prostitution is LEGAL. Seriously - why are you asking me? If you want a hooker - look in the damn yellow pages!!

    BUT the funniest (and most revealing) thing that a custy ever said to me about this was:

    Him: So...how much for...y'know...out of the club?
    Me: Sorry sweetie, I don't do that. How about another dance instead?
    Him:C'mon, I'm sure you do that - $500?
    Me: I really don't - you won't find that in this club.
    Him: Oh. Well, I guess I'll just leave then. Do you know where I can go?
    Me: Go to the Swedish Touch - Just ask the cab, and then ask for Nikki - she's fantastic.
    Him: Is that a strip club where the girls will have sex?
    Me: No, its a brothel.
    Him: Oh GOD NO! I don't want some DIRTY HOOKER!

    Wow. I mean. Wow.
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