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yeah hes bad news now. as soon as he told you about wanting to fight guys you should have just left.
there are much hotter guys out there who dont do clubs or at least get jealous.





Yes, he's already showing a jealous streak so I would say... no good!





I wouldn't be too concerned about a hard and fast rule to not date guys who go to strip clubs - my boyfriend used to come into the club all the time (although I never saw him there!) because his friends enjoyed it, and he knows the DJ and the bouncers pretty well...he doesn't come any more, because while he's totally comfortable with my job, he knows he'd be a distraction for me. So don't write someone off completely just because they've been to the club..
That said - I agree with AmyLynne...talking about "fighting guys" is DEFINITELY a red flag for me! And if you've interacted with them as a dancer, you might find it hard to make the transition to a "normal" girl...if you do decide to take it further, I'd just keep a really close eye out for any more red flags!
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So he told his friends he'd 'fight them for looking at you' but didn't take you out of their sight for some lap dances?
I'm with everyone else, ditch this guy. Sounds kind of like a creeper anyway..he doesn't deserve to bang you!



The fact that he was telling other guys he would fight them for looking at you is fucking creepy and stupid, so I would say HELL NO to ever hanging out with him. But I have actually dated several dudes I met at strip clubs, and hooked up with a couple more (not for money or anything). But I don't have an issue with men who go to strip clubs. Actually I like the opportunity to see how they treat strippers before I go out with them, because if someone is disrespectful to strippers we're not gonna get along.

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I agree with Surprise. Don't deny your sexual urges. And yes, I speak from experience. We texted for a month, he invited me over, did the deed and thought, "damn, despite his hotness I've had better."

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Yes, several times, mostly to book parties and things like that. At one club I was talking to a dancer and she wanted me to go out with her boyfriend's friend. He came in the club so not sure if he was a customer or not, but I chatted with him a few times on the phone but decided not to go out with him. I can't remember why, if I found out her boyfriend she met as a customer, or he expected more, or another reason.
Outside of this, there was one time I contacted a customer outside of work. Everyone has heard my story but here goes again. I met this guy who came in often. He was known in the club as this nice guy who really was there for his foot fetish. He never really paid for dances, but would pay to massage your feet. He was also doing favors for the girls, like driving them around. So we got to know each other in the club and after awhile he became my club confidant. I think he knew my real name in the club after awhile too. As it turns out I left the club and told my roommate to ask him over. We became real life friends and he met my family.
We lost contact after 10 years but reconnected last year. We were dating, then he got scared, then he admitted he loved me, then he got scared again. He's still recovering from a broken heart, so I'm being patient, but I hope we end up together. Only time will tell.

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Was he joking with his buddies about not looking at you? Or did he expect to block the entire club? I think its completely different if a guy doesn't want his buddies to look at a girl he likes. Thats forgivable in my book. As far as automatically writing off any guy who goes to strip clubs, thats a bit silly. They ALL come to the strip club at one point or another. 90% of them anyway. I agree, never date a PL, but there are normal guys who make a visit now and again. Frankly, the guy who refuses to go to a strip club, ever, sounds like more of a weirdo than the occasional patron. LOL CAn you imagine, hey Bill, come to my bachelor party. Bill "Oh those places are Horrible I refuse to enter! Gross, naked ladies, oh gross!!! Thats so degrading, how can you look at that." None of us want that guy.










Were you sober?? I once gave my number to a guy I thought was hot... when I saw him again I almost vomited. That was some serious beer goggle action.
Might sound weird but I am actually friends with 4 guys I met in the SC. Some of them spend money still but thats because they know if Im at work I need to be working. I hang out with them outside just as friends. Ive even been to one of the guys apartment and one has been to party at my house and met my husband. You can meet normal people at work in my opinion but just dont start sleeping with all the customers. I know a chick who leaves work early all the time to fuck customers... for free. Its very bizarre to me. If you are that horny for men, why not be an escort?
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