Yeah, why not! It's nice to help someone else out.
Yeah, sure, whatever/ I don't care
Yes, but i don't want to or like to. I just can't lie, or say no.
No. For many reasons.
NO, and FUCK OFF, BITCH- GET YR OWN DAMN SHIT!!!
No one has asked me for stuff... yet.









Ill lend things that i would like to be lent, ie a spray of bodyspray or perfume, chewing gum or the odd cigarette or an emergency tampon.
ill lend/swap outfits/make up/anything else with one dancer who i trust implicitly and my sis (a dancer also)
\but never make up or clothes/shoes to other girls. I dont like lending out my lipgloss cause girls usually have another lipstick on underneath and with my luck its always darker and then ruins my lipgloss wand!
I like to be kind but theres a limit, if girls cant come prepared then thats there own fault. New girls i can forgive but older dancers have no excuse reallly, unless theyre having a genuine emergency!
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I used to. Id loan girls clothes, makeup, cigs,etc. After one incedent of a girl borrowing my 70 dllars top and getting latex all over it, I said no more. I still loaned out cigs up until one dancer always would ask me for cigs, and the one time I asked her for one she said no she "only" had half a pack left. I still loan out small things like body spray, babywipes, and stuff to grls as long as I'm right there. And there's one girl I'll actuallvy give my locker key to if I'm to busy to get whatever she needs. I've been working with her for awhile and used to work with her at a different club. she's nice and isn't too stupid to realize I'm gonna know if something is missing that she's the one who took it lol. I never bring any important things to work any more. I get ready at home and only bring in my "pick me up" items.





Unless I am very good friends with them or it's not something I expect back, no. If it's a good friend I can easily ask them not to do certain things with the makeup/perfume etc that would spread germs. I've let Athena borrow an outfit... she's the only one in years though. I have a few others I might lend things to if they ask.
If its a girl who is brand new, I might let her use wipes or perfume. I let them know it's a one time thing though because many girls won't let them do it & I don't want them picking up bad habits.
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I shared my body spray the other nite. It was for a girl who always compliments me so she was fine. If someone needs a baby wipe I usually but not always give them out. As for anything else usually not. Although I did give away some dance shoes that were mildly worn or sold them for super cheap(diff pair). Im only slightly generous and have no remorse. I dont want girls to think they can walk all over me. And when u r too nice thats what they do. Its funny if they think ur a bitch they leave u alone(most of the time) but if ur too nice u usually get taken advantage..You cant win.




Idk how many damn tampons Ive given out....lol..




I make my outfits so no I will not lend them out. I have only one pair of shoes right now and I'm wearing them. I don't lend things out...





Maybe with my online buddies here some of who are dear IRL friends. with my best friends at KO's usually. with most other bitches fuck no!
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I have yet to recieve bad concequences from lending people things, and there was girls that lent me things like their straightener and hairspray when I was brand new and didn't realize that my coiffure would get mucked a lot throughout the night! So I lend people things when they are in the dressing room with me. Never had anyone ask about clothes or shoes yet though.




i have a friend from school who i work with and every once in a while if she forgot lipgloss or wants to borrow an outfit i'll let her borrow it because at the end of the show i automatically get it back, i just grab it and put it in my bag. but anyone else, hell no.
I was torn between "No" and "No and fuck off".
I normally don't bring many outfits... if someone wants to borrow one I normally just tell them no, that I'm getting ready to leave and I'm not sure when I'm working again/working a bunch of days at my other club before I work here again, so I need it.
Makeup... the truth... I have sensitive skin and I tend to break out in hives/rash if I let someone else use my makeup.
Luckily I usually just get asked for small things like wipes and gum. I say yes, but don't like doing it and tend to try to use wipes and stuff stealthily so no one asks me haha.
The few times I have been asked for shoes I have also said yes but hopefully I would find the balls I currently lack and say no if someone wanted to borrow an outfit.
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I'll lend hairspray and my hair straightener and thats about it.. Rarely does anyone ask to borrow my clothing because it is a size 00 and no one can fit into it but one girl did borrow a dress and stretched it out - wasn't too happy about that. Also I only wear one outfit the whole night. I don't like to share makeup for hygienic purposes. I've had a girl ask to borrow a g string - yuck, i said I don't have any extra on me..



I'm way to nice, I'm always happy to lend stuff to girls and usually it's fine. But occasionally I get fucked over like when I lent make-up to another girl 3 months ago and STILL have a sty from it (do NOT lend make-up anymore). Or when I lent a dress to a new girl and never saw it again, or when I was selling a pair of shoes that were too small for me and said she could wear them for a shift to see if she wanted them and they mysteriously disappeared.
There was also the time I bought a big pump container of hand sanitiser and left it on the bench of the dressing room for anyone to use when I was at work and on the 3rd shift someone took the whole bottle.
Now I just try to be a bit pickier with who I lend stuff to. I really need to learn to be more of a bitch, but then again because I've been happy to help girls out they've helped me out in return a lot of the time.





When anyone asks to borrow my shoes I innocently say "but honey I have such widdle itty bitty purrfect feet!"
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makeup or outfits, hell to the no. perfume or lotion, no. i keep a little pack of babywipes just in case, but rarely use them, so i don't share them either. if i bought and used them in bulk, i'd share.
i've given girls tampons, mints, and gum. if i smoked, i'd probably give cigs and let them borrow my lighter too. to me, it's karma for the times i've needed a tampon.
i don't like to say "borrow". never lend a stripper anything unless you KNOW she's good for it and will follow through. just give it and hope that the universe returns the favor to you.
once i lent a girl a plain stripper dress to wear over her lingerie so she'd have something to strip out of at an amateur contest, but only because she was really cool and i didn't want her to get disqualified over something dumb like that. but i also knew we'd all be back in the dressing room at the end, and i didn't like the dress anymore anyways. and one time i let a girl who was rushing to get onstage use my lipgloss, but only because it was almost empty and i was about to trash it anyways.
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Me and my friend have been at our club longer than the other girls, and usually get roped into teaching new girls the basics.
More often than not thats just pole dancing, lap dancing and approaching customers.
Only from time to time by boss's wife comes to find me, new girl in tow with the oh so fmiliar 'This is *insertnamehere*, she'd like to try dancing but she doesn't have any clothes/shoes. Can she borrow from you?'
I don't mind too much, as my first night I had to be lent clothes and shoes from another girl, but it definitely feels like I don't have a choice in the matter.
Last night this adorable new girl came in and I had to lend her my bra, my new purple tutu, my silver boots (which don't actually fit so thats no problem) and even my new bikini thong!!!! The tutu and the thong being brand new, labels still on! Thats taking the cake a bit don't you think?
I'm expecting it returned washed and dried tonight (so I can rewash it myself) or I'll be billing my boss for it!





I've only let girls use my makeup & straightener a couple times. The house mom where I work always seems to have everything we need... cheap hairspray, body spray, tampons, baby wipes (we tip her extra if we use her products)... don't know what I'd do without her!
I went with fuck no also. It's a job. In order to work you need certain things. If you're old or new , no excuse. I pay too much $ for my few things I can afford. I don't do drugs or get shitfaced drunk. I have my shit together and if you don't well- FUCK YOU.
Makeup-esp eyeliner and eyeshadow/mascara - risk for pinkeye.
Hair tools- I loaned out my brush once a long time ago and got LICE. (I almost bet the bitch did it on purpose.)
Clothes- fuck no. They disappear or get returned smelling like cig smoke or a cig burn in them or stained/ripped.
If you need an emergency tampon or baby wipe ok. But I've known a few cheap bitches that would rather keep begging for shit than bring their own. They get cut off fast.
Esp the phone thing. I leave mine out in the car- whether I did or not. I don't need some fuckup calling her drug dealer on my phone. Or calling from my phone to get my phone # to charge someone else to get it. Paranoid? maybe. But smart.
I always did...I didn't want to make any enemies. Some girls are nuts!
I forgot to add that I'm always as diplomatic and nice as possible when saying no.
True some girls are psycho, ( if that's the case being nice to them isn't going to save you) but you girls that are afraid of putting your foot down will eventually get sick of it and politely but firmly say no. Sometimes girls are just testing you to see how much they can use you and what you'll put up with.




if my stuff is OUT I will let a girls have baby wipes, cigarettes, gum, or use my lighter, straightener, hair spray, and stuff like that. if my stuff is locked up, you can kiss my ass. I'm not gonna go to my locker and dig through all my shit just because you came unprepared.
oh and tampons, since I would HATE to be without one and I know how it feels to suddenly get your period and only have one tampon left.
I never let girls borrow outfits, shoes, makeup, or my phone. I don't want your drug dealer, customer, sugar daddy, or psycho boyfriend blowing up my phone.
also I'm so glad I've never let a girl borrow an outfit because I just learned the hard way that you really never do get things back that you lend to other strippers. I let a girl borrow a cheap garter and haven't seen the garter OR the girl since. I don't care about the garter, but now I know for sure I'm never letting a girl borrow any clothing again. I would be PISSED if it was one of my more expensive pieces.
I'm really generous with my stuff for the most part. by nature I'm a generous person, but sometimes I get irritated because I make sure every single day that I'm stocked up on everything I need. I bring my work bag home with me, wash the outfits I wore, organize everything in zip-lock bags, and replace items as needed. I always keep extra packs of cigarettes and tampons in my locker. I VERY rarely have to ask for things and if I forget eyeliner, rather than asking someone for it, I go without eyeliner for the night.
Last edited by xGigi; 12-19-2010 at 10:44 AM.
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