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    OK, so I was selected to work for a lady's body rub service. We'll call the owner Emma. Emma had posted my ad and her ad during the same day.

    My photos don't show my face, but then neither does hers. I took my photos in a nice, classy but form fitting dress (the dress was only upper-mid thigh high). I didn't show boobs or ass, since I'm skinny and have none of those. I *do* have nice legs though, which the dress showed up. She took hers in really kinky lingerie get-up.

    I had subtly "sexy" poses, while she had an in-your-face ass shot and a boob shot.

    And it turns out that Emma's getting a bunch of calls a day, while I'm hardly getting any. Am I ugly? Is it because I'm only a 34A? Also, my hair is at a REALLY awkward/icky short length, like right above my shoulders. I wanted my pictures taken with my hair up since I thought it actually looked better, but they insisted that having hair down is important.

    But why am I barely getting any calls, while she's being flooded? Is it my hair, boobs, or intrisic ugliness? Thanks.

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    Awwww baby *hugs*. We all run around talking about how we need to, stay classy, be elite, never surrender, blah blah blah, but the truth of the matter is that sometimes, especially depending on where you are located you need to have low rates and look super slutty to get the job done. DO I agree with this? No I think it effing sucks! But look around you and you see it's the explicit in your face girls that get the bulk. Guys are stupid. It's about deciding what you want your image to be, and what kind of clientelle you want to hold out for. Maybe try to strike a happy medium. Instead of a dress to lingerie shots but smoulderingly sexy ones instead of spread eagle hands down your pants ones. You can wear lingerie in your picks and still look quite classy.

    P.s. I decided not you address your absolutely ABSURD "am I ugly" question for a reason! *glares*

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    Would need to see the ad or pic to determine an answer.

    What does Emma say? It's in her best interest to have you seeing clients as well...maybe see what she says.

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    ^ I'm hoping that's all it is, the lack of raciness!

    I've got a really nice waistline as well, almost like a Victoria's Secret model (let me flatter myself here, because it makes up for my lack of boobs and ass! lol), but none of my pictures show it off. Maybe that'd help as well if I showed my torso and more skin in general.

    Unfortunately, I think I have a decently attractive face, but for obvious reasons, I'd rather not show it...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde View Post
    Would need to see the ad or pic to determine an answer.

    What does Emma say? It's in her best interest to have you seeing clients as well...maybe see what she says.
    She's been having me do doubles with her clients. And the clients are happy to do it, and when they see me, clearly aren't turned off by me (the touching... ), but for some reason, I'm not compelling guys to book just me from the beginning.

    Emma pretty much just shrugged her shoulders when I asked her about this. She just gave me this vague answer about how sometimes there's a dry spell.

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    Laaaaaame. Vague dry spell answers. Change up your pics and try to do your own promotions as well. Maybe and Eros ad or something?

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    I wanna see the ad! I bet you look great.

    Men are just so weird, visually. I always have my male come in and critique my photos, and he always picks the ghastliest ones as the ones I should put up- and lo and behold, he's always RIGHT and the picture with my gut that he liked gets me way more traffic than that beautiful, glamorous one with gut sucked in.

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    It's has nothing to do with you being ugly. I've seen nasty women make great money. And I'm pretty sure you're not ugly.

    It's probably your pics. Men are extremely visual. It doesn't matter what you're ad says, you're pics matter the most. If she has her ass in their face, so should you.

    Consider this, I read a book on advertising. There was a reporter in the 80's who did a piece on president Reagan and how much he sucked. I believe the reporter was Leslie Stahl. Anyhow, she showed pictures of him taking photos in nursing homes shaking old peoples hands and she was telling people what a hypocrite he was as he was cutting funding for social security (or maybe it was medicare). Whatever it was, it doesn't matter. The Reagan administration actually called and thanked her for running the piece because all the photos she showed of Reagan were ADVERTISING and made Reagan look GOOD.

    They knew that people do NOT LISTEN OR READ. They only LOOK AT PICTURES.

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    First of all, Men do not read.

    I disagree with having your ass in their face.. they're not coming for ass
    they're coming for a frikkin rub!

    To the person that questions her not showing her face.. it is called privacy.
    Escort and fbsm girls do it all the time. Not everyone wants their face plastered on these websites.

    To the op: My dear I say breakaway from this so called agency if you can and become independent. Hell I can give you a 5 minute course (for free) on how to post an ad and make money with that each and every time... wanna try me? I suggest posting the ad so we can see but I understand why if you choose not to.

    Good luck! Stay safe!

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    Keep in mind that a lot of these customers could be Emma's regulars. If she has her own body rub service and is hiring girls, it's likely she's been in the business for a while and has picked up quite a few of them, so don't be discouraged if you're not getting as much volume as she is. Could be worth changing around your pictures though!

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    I don't agree with showing face either. I escorted and did SOME body rubs and NEVER showed my face. Now that I am out of that business, I am sooo glad I didn't show my face. It's easy to deny that it was me from the neck down. And did you see the thread about the internet stalker? See how that asshole plastered those women in a bad way on his website? I have also seen other male dominated websites that post pics of escorts, and other adult industry workers, and the things they do and say are not that nice lol.

    I am not sure about throwing my ass in the cam either. I never had to do that to get calls, and a lot of more mature, older, upscale men would contact me because of my tasteful covered pics. Some of them even said they felt more comfortable with calling me because I wasn't showing hard core pics, and the girls showing to much *concerned* them. I had some revealing pics, but never in your face pussy and ass shots like BAM! lol

    So I have to agree with MsOfficer on this one. Being mostly covered, and not so raunchy worked for me. But don't get it wrong, you need to be sexy too! Maybe a nice corset and a short tight skirt with sexy high heels, and hot stockings? The guys use to love my corsets. I think they are sexy, yet not raunchy, and it's covered up, or a tight low cut top, jeans, and the heels? Don't worry about your boob size. A lot of men like smaller boobs.

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    Also try browsing some adds to see how other girls are doing it. I know for sure there are successful women out there who are making it by not showing too much. If it's still not working, then maybe try some lingerie pics. The lingerie doesn't have to be in your face, and see through, you know? You might want to try a pro photographer who can help show you in your best light. The good ones will know how to have you pose in the right way.

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    Yes sexy is a must but keep it classy!
    Don't feel like you have to show ass because someone else is!
    On my old site I had pictures of me in a cocktail dress, jeans and v neck shirt,
    and one lingerie but it was a once piece and you will be amazed how many guys loved that.
    Just be you and not the next person.. you'll be successful!
    You can always crop or blur your pictures. I highly recommend NOT showing face at all. Stay safe!

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    I don't know alot about the bodyrub business, but wouldn't it be better to get a website, and blog, and try your own advertising? Or is it best to just start out working under someone, until you get the hang of it?

    If the lady your working for gives vague answers when you ask for help, I am thinking she might not be that great to work for. If she shrugs when you ask real questions, then I don't know about her. There has got to be a better person to work for than her.

    I was always stand offish about working for someone and sharing my money, so never did it. I'm just wondering would it be more profitable for the Op to do this alone, advertise, and promote like hell? Advertising is a lot of work, but it's worth it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BustyAmeera View Post
    I don't know alot about the bodyrub business, but wouldn't it be better to get a website, and blog, and try your own advertising? Or is it best to just start out working under someone, until you get the hang of it?
    Ameera, People make it harder than it really is. Setting up a blog/site is very easy and costs $10 a year. advertising on backpage a week shouldn't cost anymore than $20, on eros $95 (don't have to use eros) on cityvibe less than $20 so I don't know why one wouldn't want to use the money they've already made and branch out on their own. If that is what fits their business model then hey more power to them but it just makes more sense to keep most of your money....

    If the lady your working for gives vague answers when you ask for help, I am thinking she might not be that great to work for. If she shrugs when you ask real questions, then I don't know about her. There has got to be a better person to work for than her.
    Precisely.

    I was always stand offish about working for someone and sharing my money, so never did it. I'm just wondering would it be more profitable for the Op to do this alone, advertise, and promote like hell? Advertising is a lot of work, but it's worth it.
    If she "promotes like hell" she would be successful. Depending on where the OP lives I can make a few suggestions on SEO. It would be much more beneficial to her to do this on her own unless she just likes giving her money to someone else..

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    I recommend backpage. I know some people don't like it, they may think it's like craigslist, but I use to advertise there, and the $5 per add didn't bother me. I got that $5 right back, and would only pay once, maybe twice per week, on Monday and Friday. Plus I like how you can use HTML for the add. You don't get your add flagged, or taken down due to jealous people or haters feeling threatened by you, and it is way cheaper than eros. I only advertised on eros once. I did not get many PROMISING calls from there, and was pissed that I wasted my money.

    I don't think anyone likes giving their money to someone else, but I think some people just don't know what the next step is, or where to start. When I started I was searching adds from people who hire women to do bodyrubs. After talking to a few "owners" I decided that was not for me. I didn't like what they were talking about, or their cut for MY work. I kind of jumped in there with the escort thing, and quickly teamed up with a driver, and did outcalls. I needed a driver because I didn't have a car at the time. I know that is not body rubs, but IF I did bodyrubs, I would probably do the same thing, minus the driver.

    If you have your own place I would use it, be very discreet, and maybe try advertising on Backpage. You are bound to get 1 or 2 appointments, and get your 5 bucks back. Only thing I didn't like was using my debit card. I imagine I should have come up with a card that had a fake name on it, but oh well, I am not in that line of work anymore, and not concerned if they know my name or not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BustyAmeera View Post
    I recommend backpage. I know some people don't like it, they may think it's like craigslist, but I use to advertise there, and the $5 per add didn't bother me. I got that $5 right back, and would only pay once, maybe twice per week, on Monday and Friday. Plus I like how you can use HTML for the add. You don't get your add flagged, or taken down due to jealous people or haters feeling threatened by you, and it is way cheaper than eros. I only advertised on eros once. I did not get many PROMISING calls from there, and was pissed that I wasted my money.

    I don't think anyone likes giving their money to someone else, but I think some people just don't know what the next step is, or where to start. When I started I was searching adds from people who hire women to do bodyrubs. After talking to a few "owners" I decided that was not for me. I didn't like what they were talking about, or their cut for MY work. I kind of jumped in there with the escort thing, and quickly teamed up with a driver, and did outcalls. I needed a driver because I didn't have a car at the time. I know that is not body rubs, but IF I did bodyrubs, I would probably do the same thing, minus the driver.

    If you have your own place I would use it, be very discreet, and maybe try advertising on Backpage. You are bound to get 1 or 2 appointments, and get your 5 bucks back. Only thing I didn't like was using my debit card. I imagine I should have come up with a card that had a fake name on it, but oh well, I am not in that line of work anymore, and not concerned if they know my name or not.

    Backpage is GREAT! I don't advertise anymore but way back when I started I tried a bunch of different places to advertise. Some cost $65 a month and from those, I got one or two calls. Yet my $2 CL and BP ads brought me business.

    Some escorts will say that those places are beneath them but BP is where men primarily look. The guys who browse the other places seem to be serial hobbyists and either are a> 'white knight' clients who spend their days reading boards and want to make you happy, and I suspect, secretly want to date you or b> expect GFE/PSE at a discounted rate in return for "a review".

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    backpage is great, i second/third/fourth that

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    I'm already on Backpage. On the premium listing at that. And I'm on Cityvibe, premium listing. And on another site.

    Emma started new just as I did - she had no regulars, because she had just started literally last week in a new city.

    I've only gotten ONE response in four days, while she's getting at least 5 a day. Something's wrong.

    EDIT: I have had several thousand views combined so far. And yet only one call. There's clearly something wrong with my appearance.


    Quote Originally Posted by MsOfficer View Post
    To the op: My dear I say breakaway from this so called agency if you can and become independent. Hell I can give you a 5 minute course (for free) on how to post an ad and make money with that each and every time... wanna try me? I suggest posting the ad so we can see but I understand why if you choose not to.
    I would, especially since I now have somewhat of an idea of the business, but I don't have the start-up capital required yet. I'm a broke college student. haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by BustyAmeera View Post
    I recommend backpage. I know some people don't like it, they may think it's like craigslist, but I use to advertise there, and the $5 per add didn't bother me. I got that $5 right back, and would only pay once, maybe twice per week, on Monday and Friday. Plus I like how you can use HTML for the add. You don't get your add flagged, or taken down due to jealous people or haters feeling threatened by you, and it is way cheaper than eros. I only advertised on eros once. I did not get many PROMISING calls from there, and was pissed that I wasted my money.

    I don't think anyone likes giving their money to someone else, but I think some people just don't know what the next step is, or where to start. When I started I was searching adds from people who hire women to do bodyrubs. After talking to a few "owners" I decided that was not for me. I didn't like what they were talking about, or their cut for MY work. I kind of jumped in there with the escort thing, and quickly teamed up with a driver, and did outcalls. I needed a driver because I didn't have a car at the time. I know that is not body rubs, but IF I did bodyrubs, I would probably do the same thing, minus the driver.

    If you have your own place I would use it, be very discreet, and maybe try advertising on Backpage. You are bound to get 1 or 2 appointments, and get your 5 bucks back. Only thing I didn't like was using my debit card. I imagine I should have come up with a card that had a fake name on it, but oh well, I am not in that line of work anymore, and not concerned if they know my name or not.

    Ive recently been having my ads flagged...whats the HTML???

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    My ads are all there, not flagged.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SALLY101 View Post
    Ive recently been having my ads flagged...whats the HTML???
    Sorry. I just meant Html to jazz up my page. I don't know of an Html code to not get flagged.

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    OK, so I took off one picture I particularly hated. So maybe that picture was turning the guys off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LibraSnake View Post
    OK, so I took off one picture I particularly hated. So maybe that picture was turning the guys off.
    Camming is a good income too.

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    Your HTML is getting flagged by backpage because it is not allowed.
    I know for one that <center> is not allowed anymore BUT <p> is.

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