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    So, I moved to this house last month (roommates situation) there are 3 other people besides me that live here. One chick is 35, the other is 21, and the one is 62. I bet you all can guess which one I have an issue with. When I first moved here and the only reason why I moved here is because it is quiet and I just want to be left alone. (credit history can't get me my own apartment here...)I told everyone I just wanted to be left alone to mind my own business and was not looking to socialize at all. The old lady has taken up on herself to bug me everyday and follow me around. She is always in my business trying to get me to talk she watches me while I cook watches me anywhere I go in the house. I avoid her like the plague but sometimes I can't avoid her. I have said before I just want to be left alone. Today I go upstairs to get some food she is in the kitchen and just starts yelling at me! She is like "You never even look at me or talk to me and I do everything to be nice to you and all you do is treat me like garbage. You act like I do not exist and you are so rude and anti social I can't stand you!" At this point I just drop my dish and turn my back and walk away. I was so close to just punching her in the face or slapping her for just randomly screaming at me and calling me nasty names or throw my dish in her face. She tells me to get out of her kitchen which is bs because this is not her house she is not the landlord. She has such a nasty personality she wonders why I never talk to her. She is like you never even look at me when you come into a room that I am in. Idk about you guys but I rarely give eye contact and I do not look at people when I go in a room because to me that would be creepy if someone always did that. Sure it is anti social or I never speak to her ever so I guess I can see how it would be kind of weird but to just go off on someone and yell at them and scream at them and EXPECT them to talk to you and bow down and kiss your butt is just beyond me. That's what the old hag expects. I have no clue what to do. I just walked away before I would do something I would regret. I'm a nice person I'm respectful and mind my own business. I would have never moved in here if I would have known I would have some old hag chasing me around. I'm so stressed I have no clue what to do anymore. I tried talking to my friends but they just said Oh I'm busy deal with it. Which is just bs I always drop everything and listen to them when they have problems but if I ever need help they are never there. I don't have family either. Well I have my mom but she is to hopped up on painkillers to care about anything that goes on around her. I have a constant acid feeling in my stomach I'm stressed to the point of ripping out my hair. I always feel alone and miserable. meh I just don't know what to do anymore. I can't handle this stress alone anymore and all these needy stupid people around me. Even though I am being needy right now. I'm just sick of helping people and never getting anything in return. Now I have to keep myself in check until January when I can move because I am so close to just beating the crap out of the old hag. After she yelled at me she keeps yelling at me any time I go out of my room now to grab something so its like I can't even use the bathroom or eat. Not like I ever want to anymore ugh.

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    January isn't too far off, so at least you aren't stuck there for too long! Try and make the best of it and keep as busy as possible. Pick up a few extra shifts, hang out more with friends, just make yourself so busy you don't even have time to run in to her.

    As for when you actually have to deal with her, would it kill you to just nod/smile and acknowledge her when you walk in to the same room? It seems like you're treating her like a piece of furniture and simply ignoring her, and while it's fair to be anti-social, it's not really fair to make someone feel like that in their own home (on the other hand, it's also not fair for her to go off on you in your own home as well). Doesn't take much, but maybe all she needs is some acknowledgement that she's there, she could be very lonely otherwise. Of course, I don't know the situation as well as you do, so if she's always in your face, then just do your best to avoid her as much as possible and stick it out. Not too long now girl!

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    Default Re: Idk what to do anymore

    I don't know why people don't understand that when you tell them "I don't want to be friends... I really just keep to myself, I don't like to talk/hang out, ect" when you move in... that you mean it.

    Last summer I had to move out of an apt on 3 days notice because my roommate freaked out on me because he "was always trying to get to know me better" and I just never wanted to talk.
    Idk... some people think you need to have conversations to live together. I don't get it.
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    I would say hi to her or be more kind if she would have never always been in my face about everything and anything. Someday that old hag is going to smart off to the wrong person or get me when I'm at my wits end which is coming up here very soon.

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    Default Re: Idk what to do anymore

    My guess is that she's a very lonely old lady.....surrounded by much younger girls. Seeing as you're the one who wants peace and quiet...she relates to that far more than the others. I agree that her outburst wasn't too cool - but think...maybe she's simply frustrated and offended that you're not talking to her. Just be civil and kind towards her....she's a human being like everyone else, and so she has feelings too.

    Old folks can be an inspiration some times you know. If you talk to her once in a while, you'll soon have the opportunity to explain that you're a fairly private person. Then maybe she'll respect your space a lot more.

    Besides, kindness and nice manners cost nothing.
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