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    Default Re: Im having trouble in the start

    Maybe customers feel like you're too much of a "friend" to them, so they don't see you as a dancer as much anymore. Try to keep the conversation sexy, even when focusing on every day topics like hobbies. Throw in a sexy joke, or make a risque comment about something mundane. Keep them thinking about dances and how much they want to see you naked!

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    Precisely, you are pushing The Friendship Hot Button too soon
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    Default Re: Im having trouble in the start

    It sounds like you need to build up the "fantasy" and be more flirtatious. There are so many ways to do that, and still have the friendly conversation you're having. Give your voice a sexy edge, rub his back or chest, play with his hair, play with your hair, touch yourself casually, and even slow down the conversation a little bit to make it sexier.

    Also, you might want to try asking for a dance in a different way. The way you word a sentence can make all the difference when you're trying to sell something. Example: Instead of "Do you want a dance?", you can say, "So can I do a dance for you now?" or "You're ready for a dance now, aren't you?" And make sure you're being super sexy when you say it.

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    you have to come up with some creative, flirty, UNIQUE ice breakers. I always sell better and faster when I skip the stupid small talk that is mind numbing that most dancers do which creates a friendship link--- for example : (how are you doing? what brings you here? Is this your first time? where are you from? ) BORING.

    a couple I do... I am very theatrical and a good actress IMO so it works :

    1. *runs up to customer all excited* Bob!!! You came back to see me!! I'm so glad you came how are you I bet you're ready to take me back to VIP to get naked again aren't you??

    2. *walk past customer*, snap head around, "Are you looking at my ass??"... I think I just caught you looking at my ass... that is so rude. How dare you!! (just be sarcastic and insist that you're offended and then start talking about getting naked in VIP)

    3. *walk right up to customer, facing him, look him square in the eye, boobs in face*- "If you can guess my exact bra size you get $10 off a lapdance, GUESS!". at my club dances are 2 for 60 plus a 10 dollar booth fee so I just don't charge the booth fee and i still make $$. I wouldn't do this if you have 20 dollar dances, I'd say 2 for 30 or something like that. Even if they guess wrong tell them they're right.

    4. *walk slowly up to customer, pretending you're confused/scoping him out*-- "are you (celebrity name??)" then act like they're lying and you're so happy to meet them/huge fan whatever OR depending on their personality just say something like they look very similar- do they get that alot- then talk about celebrities you've lapdanced for.

    These work for my persona and the way I deliver them works great- I just have to be really energetic to do them right- if you don't care, they can tell. Also you have to tailor your ice breaker to your customer.

    for quieter more serious types I do things like this :

    "You sure look lonely, I bet you would love a beautiful woman on your lap, mister..."
    "You look like you'd be a lot more comfortable in VIP, it's so loud out here isn't it?"
    "What is the worst thing that happened to you today?? okay now what's the BEST thing?"

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    Default Re: Im having trouble in the start

    Definitely sounds like you are too much of a friend - they don't want to get lap dances from friends - they want them from sexy party girls!

    One of the best pieces of advice I ever heard was to be constantly giving everyone bedroom eyes! Walk up to them and do a little undressing with your eyes - let your gaze run up and down them, raise an eyebrow, bite a lip...do it to whatever level you can without feeling fake - try imitating how you behave when you are attracted to someone. Whatever you talk about, make dirty jokes - thats what she said, or even no pun intended.

    Convince them that you want them (without ever being so explicit that they think they're getting extras) and keep bringing your conversation back to sex....when you've got the money going, thats when you can start filling out the conversation with friendly stuff to keep them going.
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    Eh, let's just start a policy of getting drunk together at work after the new year. It makes us both better hustlers.

    Deal? Lol

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