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    Last night i went to a strip club for the first time. I got 1 nude dance from a really beautiful girl. Later that night I asked her for another dance and ended up getting two more dances from her. Throughout the dance my member was aroused. Is it weird for the dancer to feel it or is it normal? She was really cool. She took a break for one song and i got to put my arm around her like in a movie theater. By the way I'm 19.
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    Normal human response to a hot naked chick dancing for you.. just keep it in your pants and you're fine.

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    ^^^ Exactly, & try not to climax either... a lot of dancers really do not appreciate that.
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    The time to worry is when you don't get a boner when you go to the club.

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    I never get dances and wouldn't get a boner from a hell of a lot of women I've worked with. About half, at least, do nothing whatsoever in the least for me. About another quarter are alright but nothing special.

    And the last place I want to get down, even with a woman that is sexually attractive, is right next to 5 other dudes all sitting right next to me, the closest maybe a foot away on either side when it's busy, getting their dicks rubbed in seriously contrived ways, by women that don't care about them at all. That would be in our middle 'private dance' room. It's a little better in the back booths. And of course the Champagne Room.

    But hey after ten years in the business, your taste changes. Though personally, I never could go for a woman that is faking any supposed pleasure she's getting out of dancing for me. And having had women dance for me at home, I could tell even before I became a DJ when they were faking it in the clubs. But in this, as in all things, to each their own.


    "Is it weird for the dancer to feel it or is it normal?"

    The average dancer is going to dance for maybe ten guys a night (some of them more than once of course). If she works 3-4 nights a week, that's say 35 guys a week. If she's doing grinding lapdances, and working maybe 45 weeks a year, that means she's grinding on about 1700 guys a year.

    So no. It's not weird for her to feel it. Relax and enjoy yourself. Just watch that 'girlfriend in the movies' shit if you start getting attached to one. Only take the amount of money you want to spend with you to the club (thinking clearly before going out and drinking), leave the rest at home so you can still pay rent, bills, etc.

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    Yeah i know not to get attached. Her spell lasted on me for about 24hrs after i left the club. But it wore off today. Oh and i wasn't close to my friends we moved to the very back for the dance. Ill go back in about 3 months and hopefully shes there but if shes not ...oh well.. Ahh and i can't drink because I'm only 19.

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    If she's not there, there will be plenty of others!

    Oh and not drinking will save you a lot of money.
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    Alot of clubs have a 2 drink minimum rule. Those clubs never allow under 21 customers though.

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    Its perfectly normal!!! If I'm doing a contact dance (not where I work now) then its kind of reassuring - lol! If she feels uncomfortable, she'll move away a little. And, again, try not to climax! (And if you do - leave her a helluva tip!!)
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    totally normal.

    i honestly don't know how to handle a guy at a contact club who doesn't get hard. does he want me to grind anyways? would he prefer i not? it's so confusing.
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    Perfectly acceptable as long as you're not going commando and rockin sweatpants. lmfao

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    This thread reminds me of a sign I saw in Cafe Risque in scenic Micanopy, FL:

    "Bed dances are not designed to give you an orgasm!"

    This club had signs throughout the club. I remember another one saying, "You can stay as long as you spend money!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Usagi View Post
    This thread reminds me of a sign I saw in Cafe Risque in scenic Micanopy, FL:

    "Bed dances are not designed to give you an orgasm!"

    This club had signs throughout the club. I remember another one saying, "You can stay as long as you spend money!"
    LOL! i love this!
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    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Shall I take some viagra before coming to the club to avoid the embarrassment if I don't happen to get hard enjoying a dance with her?

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    OP - normal. Keep it IN the pants and don't squirt in there. It makes you look bad and makes the girl feel yucky and they don't like it.

    Like SSS said - some dancers get upset or worry if you don't, lol. I have had many dancers get upset or worry because after a 4 song set there was no reaction and they thought I didn't like them or that they sucked at dancing. A newer dancer actually cried. I felt so bad, lol! One gal gave me three free songs and a lot of heavy contact - straight up stick shifting, which I don't usually tolerate - because she was really upset that I wasn't aroused. She said he wasn't stopping until she felt it hard and wouldn't take a tip because she didn't do her job, lol. I did tip her well for her time afterward, but she refused to let me pay for the extra songe. Interesting experience.

    And like HB said - worry when you don't, lol. I'm to that annoying stage these days - it takes one helluva connection with the dancer and generally more than one dance to even have a CHANCE of getting me hard. When I do, I usually spend a lot on that girl - not because she got me hard, but because a SC experience thrilling enough to generate that reaction these days is special indeed and worth paying for again!

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    I like to try to push it up in them when its big and one time even though we were dressed it felt like it was going in. She was thrilled and kept on grinding......They get insulted if it doesnt get big......

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    ^ seriously?? I really don't understand girls like that. To be honest half the time I don't even notice if a customer has an erection (unless its massive), hardly ever now that I work in a non-grinding club. It doesn't bother me either way in the slightest.

    If he has one, fair enough - I completely understand why.
    If he doesn't - I don't really care, maybe he has a tiny cock and I just can't see/feel it, maybe he has erection problems, takes a lot for him to get going, mate bought him a dance and he's not really in to it/me. I don't care, I've done my job of doing a damn good dance.

    Certainly wouldn't cry over it or give free dances! Lol.

    ^^ Handsy Guy - you are just all sorts of wrong.

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    PLEASE tell me that was sarcastic. Most of the girls I know would either back off to an air dance or straight up end the dance or VIP if you did that. And most of them collect tips up front, lol. Under the wrong circumstances, that'd get you a stiletto to the groin or a call to a bouncer.

    Responding to HG, not Amaranth. Am - not all dancer are like that, but I've had many get upset. One grabbed my junk after I stood up and said "did you not enjoy yourself?" It happens a lot, lol. I don't care one way or another myself, this truly is all the dancers. Some are like you though. WHatever works, as long as it was a "dan good dance", lol. I've had a couple of REALLY bad lap dances. One was from a girl I was really into, could've become an ATF - but I ought a 2 for 1 nd seriously, I didn't want to tip her afterward! I did, but not a lot - but I never bought another dance from her - it was AWEFUL, lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Handsy Guy View Post
    I like to try to push it up in them when its big and one time even though we were dressed it felt like it was going in. She was thrilled and kept on grinding......They get insulted if it doesnt get big......

    Yeah - it's rough out there, trying to please all those insatiable dancers.
    I know that the dancers get really bummed when I don't ejaculate my girl jizz all over the seat cushions after a solid LD session......but such is life.

    Sorry ladies! I know that you're disappointed....but there's always next time!

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    In all seriousness different dancers have different responses to arousal or non arousal in a customer. Some will back off while others will grind closer or harder like the time it seemed to go in her thru clothes. Others will smile that they are doing their job or licking their chops at selling more dances. Lack of arousal might get the custie something insulting from the dancer like "well give me a bananna next time." Or a question like "are you stressed out today sweetie." At an extras friendly club I go to, arousal may have the dancer say "lets get him out." She is now looking to score big bucks. Some guys may not become aroused due to anxiety, ED, or too much alcohol. For me it varies with the girl. Some guys will take a half viagra on way to club to avoid the embarrassment of non arousal during a lap dance or being unprepared if an opportunity for something more than dances asserts itself. A friend of mine told me when he first started taking viagra he went to a SC (as a test shot) taking a 100 mg viagra. After one lap dance (had a few more too) he said it was so big and hard that on way home he was worried about it going down and scared he might have to go to emergency but it went down after 45 minutes after he thought about his wife getting old, fat, and, critical. I had a stripper tell me (prob SS) one time she fed her husband viagra in his food LOL bc it made his bigger.

    No, in all honesty, I do not try to thrust it in them and certainly don't like the heavier ones sitting on it or pounding it with their big arses. I will tell those gals "please ms go easy on it, its a penis not a trampoline." I definitely would be insulted if a dancer made light of my non arousal during a dance and not go back to her. As a dancer does customer arousal mean more money for you bc the aroused guy will want more dances? I know extras girls will seize on this like a predator after prey and proposition the guy.
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    I'm often a little surprised by how casually dancers will bump their legs, ass or groins into my erection. (Yes, I always get one in LDs.) They don't try at all to avoid it and I would say it's usually deliberate. Then there is deliberate grinding. At first I used to try to crawl further back into the chair to avoid them, but they sat on me so close I couldn't move away. I was scrupulous about not breaking the rule against touching the dancer's crotch, even accidentally (because how do they know it is really accidental?). But apparently there was no rule against them touching my crotch with their crotch lol. I soon caught on that it was definitely deliberate and of course I liked them doing it. Obviously the girls in clubs I visit don't mind erections, because they use it to their advantage.
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    I agree Hopper. I think a lot of them seeing arousal will push for more dances as its a money making opportunity for them. The more a guy is aroused the more likely he will buy dances.

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    ^ Grinding is a plus for me in regard to buying more dances. My hat's off to dancers who are that aggressive. Win-win.
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    Quote Originally Posted by she sells sanctuary View Post
    totally normal.

    i honestly don't know how to handle a guy at a contact club who doesn't get hard. does he want me to grind anyways? would he prefer i not? it's so confusing.
    I just tell her it's all the coke and not to take it personally...

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    It's pretty rare for me to find a girl that really spins my wheels. The dance has to have a real air of intimacy to it, the song has to be right, and the girl has to know something about erogenous zones (i.e. running her nails along the back of my neck and my chest) during the dance. I have had dancers be disappointed that they couldn't feel an erection during a dance, but it simply for me, the mood has to be right and the girl has to know what she's doing to get me excited. There have been plenty of girls that have danced for me that just didn't have a clue, and because of that, they never got another dance. If all you're going to do is grind your ass on my crotch for three minutes, I'm not interested. I want eye contact. I want to have her pressed against me for a few moments at a time during the song.

    The great dances I have had have usually been worked out in advance. The girl asks me what I like, and I tell her. If it's within club rules, then she does it. I also don't get dances from a girl until I have spent some time at stage. I also will give a peek into the private dance area when she's doing a dance for another guy to get a sense of what kind of dance I'm in for. If it looks like a waste of time and money, it probably is and I move on. Getting a preview helps. I'd rather spend money on the ladies that earn it.

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